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Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a ... - 4/3/2008 3:21:48 AM   
Othello27


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Status: offline 		I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?
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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 3:32:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?



Does wanting a sexy woman, a toy, invalidate the claim of dominance? Is physical gratification wrong?
 
A lot of people may not have a clue (often the ones yelling the loudest about "having" one are the likeliest culprits), but wanting pleasure, wanting to be pleased, aren't necessarily bad, I'd think.

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 3:38:51 AM   
blissy


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Status: offline 		isnt that partially what we subs do? give pleasure & please? or am i doing it wrong? lol



i changed it a lil...cos i can! 

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 3:43:16 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		and dominant women... what do they want?

and what of submissive men?  how about them?

are you speaking from your personal experience?  personal feelings and who made you the spokesperson for "Doms"?

is this different from any vanilla man?

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 3:47:04 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		You forgot that a lot of the male subs are just here looking to be used by a woman and get off on it.
You forget that a lot of the female subs here are just looking to be used by men and get off on that.
You forget that a lot of the female dominants are looking for someone to pay their bills and throw "tribute" at them.

Every role on here has its fair share of clueless wanabes. And for every one of them theres just as many legitamate clued in ones... and theres also possibly someone looking for exactly what they need.

Dont condemn a entire group just becasue someone rubbed you the wrong way.

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 3:56:57 AM   
MissSCD


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Status: offline 		Probably the majority of us have been, but it is no different than dating in the vanilla world.   The risk factor for being burnt is just as bad if not worse.  To say is it all Doms, is not right.  Dommes do it.   Subs do it.  Slaves do it.
 
Regards, MissSCD

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:04:31 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?



OMG I know! The nerve of some people to want hot kinky sex! It's a shame really, all those slaves and submissives that want a life of celibacy and have to get down and do the nasty just because. Not all of us dominants can be as enlightened and cool as you.....UberSuperDom.

I hang my head in shame. Knowing I will never be so spiritually chaste. So satisfied with the simple act of submission. Her (okay their, I keep forgetting the plural) gift to me. Kneeling at my feet, looking up at me with those big adoring brown eyes. I shall have to inform them that from now on, we must strive to be more like you and your's. No more hot sweaty sex. I know, we will sit and meditate instead.

Oh hell, forget that shit! Some of us have to hang out down here in the gutters for all those, less enlightened, slaves and submissives that actually LIKE being used as nasty fuck toys......on occasion. streeeeeeeeeeettttttcccccchhhhhhhhinggggggg....... Yep, life as one of those "DOM"s is pretty good.

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:09:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: blissy

isnt that partially what we subs do? give pleasure & please? or am i doing it wrong? lol



i changed it a lil...cos i can! 



Duhhhh yeahhhhhhh!

Who is going to tell Ron that blowjobs are "Sooo yesterday!" ??



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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:28:40 AM   
blissy


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Status: offline 		lol....blowjobs are outta fashion? well crap...i HAVE been doing it wrong! (j/k)

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:33:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like someone is pissed because they can't attract a sub. I personaly know several subs in your area so don't tell me there aren't many around.

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:34:46 AM   
gentldom4sub


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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:35:07 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


Duhhhh yeahhhhhhh!

Who is going to tell Ron that blowjobs are "Sooo yesterday!" ??




Ron, blowjob's are "sooo yesterday!"

i always the ballsy type



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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:39:29 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		That is not true ladies. I had a blow job this morning.

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:42:41 AM   
blissy


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

That is not true ladies. I had a blow job this morning.


well now im just confused, do i or do i not? am i right or am i wrong? ahhh maybe its personal preference, so... to blow or not to blow...that IS the question!

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:42:55 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

That is not true ladies. I had a blow job this morning.


but if you take the International Dateline into account, your morning really is yesterday.

oh Lordie isn't that f**king coffee done yet??

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:43:17 AM   
Cougarandkitten


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Status: offline 		and i thought nothing could make me smile this morning...... i know its a shame that sometimes i give kitten massages, two hour flogging/spanking/whipping sessions (2 hrs i know...im still a rookie), multiple orgasms, and treat her with love, devotion and honor.  and then occasionally ill just grab her by her hair and throw her on the bed and fuck the shit out of her.....you know what?   she loves it both ways......

ok im babbling not even sure if i made my point , did i have a point?

i dont even know......lol


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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:44:31 AM   
sirsholly


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ORIGINAL: Cougarandkitten

and i thought nothing could make me smile this morning...... i know its a shame that sometimes i give kitten massages, two hour flogging/spanking/whipping sessions (2 hrs i know...im still a rookie), multiple orgasms, and treat her with love, devotion and honor.  and then occasionally ill just grab her by her hair and throw her on the bed and fuck the shit out of her.....you know what?   she loves it both ways......

ok im babbling not even sure if i made my point , did i have a point?

i dont even know......lol



um...whats your point?





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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 4:57:19 AM   
Cougarandkitten


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Status: offline 		i just got the impression that the OP had it in thier head that a sub does everything for a Dom.....and i guess my point was that IMHO there are alot of Doms who treat thier subs as i do as a partner intead of a possesion......and maybe if he adopted some of the same ideas...... his opinion might change

fuck....am i making any sense this morning?

i know what im trying to say but i dont think its coming acrosss on paper right.......

im goin back to arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  lol

i hate mornings


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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 5:22:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Othello27
. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting.


thank god, I thought you were gonna be negative about us.

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RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't hav... - 4/3/2008 5:31:17 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Othello27
. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting.


thank god, I thought you were gonna be negative about us.


IMO....the award for the best response to any thread EVER goes to....

ROFL

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