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How do you? - 4/3/2008 2:55:01 PM   
BIllCT


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Status: offline 		If your a Dom in a relationship with a woman who says she is a submissive and she begins to top from the bottom, how would you change it so she couldn't do so, or stop her?
 
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:15:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		hmmm.... smack em upside the head with a large rotting fish?? that might do the trick ; )

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:25:11 PM   
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hmmm.... smack em upside the head with a large rotting fish?? that might do the trick ; )


a large rotting frozen fish if you really wanna get their attention...

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:35:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		punish her...if she repeats it to often.....get rid of her

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:37:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		That actually depends on what you refer to as topping from the bottom.
Is she asking you to do things, demanding you try them, or making suggestions about things you are always doing. Not al suggestions are topping fro the bottom after all.
If you correct her, tell her you do not appreciate the behavior and it doesnt stop, you either have to learn to deal with her toppy streak or you tell her you cannot be involved with her anymore.

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:39:41 PM   
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punish her...if she repeats it to often.....get rid of her


i think getting clobbered with a rotting fish qualifies as a punishment...
if nothing else she will have a heck of a haddock

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:40:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		well...if you're a Dom in a relationship...i assume you would know the answer to that question better than anyone OUTSIDE of "said relationship"...or give up calling yourself the Dom in that relationship. 
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:41:05 PM   
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hmmm.... smack em upside the head with a large rotting fish?? that might do the trick ; )


a large rotting frozen fish if you really wanna get their attention...


For Cod's sake, people!


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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:43:16 PM   
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If your a Dom in a relationship with a woman who says she is a submissive and she begins to top from the bottom, how would you change it so she couldn't do so, or stop her?


Master one simple syllable: "No".

If that doesn't work, inflect with additional syllable: "Hell no!". Punctuate with paddle (or other punishment device suitably chosen on the basis of her dislike of it).

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:44:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: ifyoudontknow

hmmm.... smack em upside the head with a large rotting fish?? that might do the trick ; )


a large rotting frozen fish if you really wanna get their attention...


For Cod's sake, people!



we can't help what we say when we're tanked.

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:44:08 PM   
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:45:14 PM   
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just do it for the Halibut


WHOOOHOOOO
you GO girl!!!!!

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:47:19 PM   
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:48:52 PM   
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:48:58 PM   
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i love this stuff....hook line and sinker 


you are on a roll...don't reel it in!!!

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:50:27 PM   
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I think that there is something very fishy going on here, its a codspiricy to mention as many fish as you can.


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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:50:46 PM   
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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:51:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: colouredin

*cries at all the terrible jokes*

I think that there is something very fishy going on here, its a codspiricy to mention as many fish as you can.



We KNOW you are laughing Colouredin...you can't worm your way out of it

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:52:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok. now i am "floundering" for another answer

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RE: How do you? - 4/3/2008 3:53:20 PM   
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