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Dnomyar -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 11:39:11 AM)

Come on Celeste at least I did'nt tell him to write a form letter.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 12:42:21 PM)

when approaching me, please remember i'm not yours to dominate and/or command - that's my Daddy's right since i'm His collared submissive and daughter. i prefer the vanilla approach  ...anything else will get you a very smartass reply and then block from any further contact.



SummerWind -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 1:04:17 PM)

For Cock Hound Aileen.....

http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&q=Rooster&btnG=Search+Images&gbv=2



Aileen1968 -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 1:55:51 PM)

Those cocks are a bit on the scrawny side.



metalmiss -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 2:21:20 PM)

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Do not call me bitch, whore, sub, girl, slut, cocksucker or any other such thing. Call me by my screen name.


Amen to that!
Suprising how many of them seem to think name calling is a fantastic way to earn respect.. [&:]



atursvcMaam -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 2:34:16 PM)

Great example, is that before or after sending the meaty J-Peg?

Sorry too many thoughts running together.  Be interested in the person and the rest seems to fall into place.



kiwisub12 -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 4:04:05 PM)

i would think that mutual respect is critical for any relationship - and expressing that from the get-go would make a much better impression than trying to order the prospective sub around.  Also, unless you know for a fact that the prospective sub likes to be called names, then hold off on name-calling. There are subs/slaves that dislike that nomclemature.



Leatherist -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 6:10:50 PM)

If you want to get someone's interest-you have to come to understand and aprecciate the world that they live in. You also need to understand it isn't the same as the one YOU live in-or want to.



Maya2001 -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 6:12:01 PM)

I prefer respectful friendly approaches though will also repond to those that combine slang/domination  with comedy in jest rather than as trying to dominate me from the get go



jimmyrook -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 6:27:36 PM)

was very nice to get all the responses. i would say that the responses were pretty much as i expected since i read profiles and the veiws brought up here have been in several journals. i am a person that shows respect to get respect. also if someone has an interesting profile i definitely let them know how and why it moved me.
i am a bit dissapointed though because i was hoping to read more varied answers.

for example there are some profiles on here where the main point of a sub or slaves presentation is that they do not want to be shown respect, or they want to be controlled and told what to do.

so when i read profiles like that i wonder? if the only thing their profile says is that they need to be told what to do than maybe i should just begin by telling them what to do? but i guess it should be obvious to me that a sub or slave the presents themselves as not having their own will or mind would not be roaming around the forums on this site. or?

respect to littleone35 for responding to a "one liner" and finding her mate.

i totally understand the frustration people have with "doms" that try to own them before they own them. i dont try to do that. but then like i said i wonder sometimes if there are some people who would prefer that.

i didnt finish my thoughts yet. gotta some real life to attend to. but i'll be back to write some more later. feel free to comment more on what i wrote so far.








Leatherist -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 6:31:29 PM)

Most women on here who say they want to be told to do have one thing in common. They want to dictate the terms of the relationship from the get go.

It's one of those amusing contradictions you find in places like this-you will get used to it eventually.



SteelofUtah -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 7:36:40 PM)

Interesting to hear what is said here but what they ask for on the othet side. None of the Profiles here are the ones I am talking about I just find it odd that I finally understand the confusion.

I just don't usually perv profiles I don't see on here but when I did OH GOD.

Some women come right out as say they WANT this behavior no wonder this guy is confused.

So that you know there are more who say they do want it than say they don't.

Steel



jimmyrook -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/4/2008 11:02:11 PM)

ok, im back. but i forgot the other points i had planned to continue on with. and i think my basic problem is that i dont like the way the game is played. but i will have to play it for the time being i suppose. cant change the system in a day. if i could i would tell every guy in the world to stop approaching women. then women would be the ones who needed to figure out how to approach us, and we could sit back and pick and choose among hundreds of e-mails.

oh well... this time next year i should be somewhat famous anyway... then the whole game flips around... just gotta be patient...



Leatherist -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 12:13:10 AM)

The problem isn't men approaching women.

The problem is some idiots-interacting with some other idiots.

There is a lid for every pot-and some are cracked.[;)]



Leatherist -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 12:15:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Interesting to hear what is said here but what they ask for on the othet side. None of the Profiles here are the ones I am talking about I just find it odd that I finally understand the confusion.

I just don't usually perv profiles I don't see on here but when I did OH GOD.

Some women come right out as say they WANT this behavior no wonder this guy is confused.

So that you know there are more who say they do want it than say they don't.

Steel


Also remember that a lot of these "women" are actually MEN posting a fake pic. Chances are about one in five that you are actually writing some guy-looking for wank material.

Isn't that "special"?

It probably also explains why so many of these profiles appear so over the top-they are trolls.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMsnqQHOwFg

[:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]



catize -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 12:49:45 AM)

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 and i think my basic problem is that i dont like the way the game is played. but i will have to play it for the time being i suppose. cant change the system in a day. if i could i would tell every guy in the world to stop approaching women. then women would be the ones who needed to figure out how to approach us, and we could sit back and pick and choose among hundreds of e-mails.  


 
So why don’t you ‘play the game’ the way you like?  You are free to make your own rules.  You can certainly decide to sit back, as you say, and wait for women to approach you. 



petpete -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 1:48:27 AM)

As part of those that uses the internet for making friends and getting to meet in real life compatible partners i would have to say a more subtle approach on vanilla grounds would do for me. That way i get the chance to communicate on equal grounds as long as i'm being polite and use my sense of humor.....



phoenixinchains -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 2:29:24 AM)

ideally, i'd only want to be approached by the right people.
over the last while, i've been doing pretty good. i plastered exactly who i did not want to contact me all over my profile. the "junk mail" came to a halt. oh it was nice.still is for the most part. minutes ago, i got this one liner from a girl, "i like your tattoo."
wow. timing or what?
then i got another message from her even though i didn't respond after checking the first where she wanted to be added to my friends list.
i wrote her backing thanking her and telling her the polite version of; "i like to know my friends first."
but hey, serves me right for being online at four in the morning.



xxblushesxx -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 6:13:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: jimmyrook

Subs, how do you like to be approached on here?


With chocolate and champagne!



jimmyrook -> RE: How do you like to be approached on here (4/5/2008 6:48:40 AM)



 
So why don’t you ‘play the game’ the way you like?  You are free to make your own rules.  You can certainly decide to sit back, as you say, and wait for women to approach you. 

quote:


RE: How do you like to be approached on here - 4/5/2008 6:13:55 AM 
 


i've been trying to play by mine own rules my whole life. it hasnt worked out for me. the girls that i want to get to know dont seem to be aware of my rules. so i am trying to learn and adapt.



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