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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 5:04:43 PM

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And last, but certainly not least, I want someone that is willing to have really awesome sex. That seems obvious, but it's not. Really awesome sex generally takes time to develop, as you get to know each other's mind and body. If they're not willing to try something new, then how will they ever know if that is going to be something to add into the regular "menu" or not?

Oh yes, and I want someone who wants me in his life as much as I want him in mine.

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This is great....so great that I want to steal it and put it in my profile.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 5:18:08 PM

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Go for it hon.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 5:38:28 PM

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It looks like I got it made... Nobody else wants it so It's all mine...
All I ever wanted was to fuck. Two tits, a hole, and a heartbeat. (well the heartbeat IS optional)

This is gonna be easy pickings...

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 5:53:40 PM

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(well the heartbeat IS optional)

umm...i'll keep you in my prayers.....

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 6:01:57 PM

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Thanx... but, by the looks of things... I won't need them... I was just given the world, No one else is wanting what I wanted...

Oh shit, does that mean I won't find it?

Damn... Maybe I do them... Pray harder.
Thanx

*lol*

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/6/2008 6:04:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: colouredin
How do you know what you are looking for?

For single people its a pretty sound assumption that you are yet to find what you need, how do you know what you want is what will work for you? Do you base it on past experiance of just assume its what you want? In my experiance what I think I want hasnt been what I needed, when a relationship breaks down do you assess it to consider what worked and what didnt or do you continue assuming that you know what you want and just put the failure down to bad luck?

I know what i'm looking for because what i'm looking for is what will make me happy. Good place to start in my opinion. I know how i am in relationships and how i am in general, which allows me to know who/what will be compatible with me and thast what i seek. Perhaps they'll find me to be compatible based on what i'm about. Past experiences have somethign to do with it, but my future plans has more weight on what i seek.
When a relationship breaks down i've always been able to pick up the pieces (not always easy and doesnt happen overnight)...I do analyze to see where the problem was, but not to see what i can do differently next time, but to evaluate if its a 'fixable' problem or not. If the relationship has to end due to whatever circumstances then so be it...but then again i believe that I am meant to experience each person i come in contact with for an unspecified amount of time. Some of those relationships will last through time while others will vanish...so i try to enjoy them (the person) for the time they are in my life and when the relationship/friendship ends...its the end of that path but the road still continues.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/7/2008 8:57:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: HerLord

It looks like I got it made... Nobody else wants it so It's all mine...
All I ever wanted was to fuck. Two tits, a hole, and a heartbeat. (well the heartbeat IS optional)

You big goober. I did say "awesome sex". Sometimes awesome sex IS just fucking a wet hole.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/7/2008 9:26:24 AM

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Mmmmm nothing wrong with a wet hole now and then.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/7/2008 9:27:50 AM

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<mumble mumble grumble> Wet hole is no problem <grumble mumble mumble> it's the fucking part that's in short supply.

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RE: What are you looking for? - 4/7/2008 11:43:27 AM

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Figure out what needs weren't met in past relationships. What things other people have that annoy you or make you envious.
Mostly it was vanilla stuff. I'm not a masochist, I'm a bondage bottom so I didn't look at sadists who claimed they would teach me to enjoy it. They won't.

I wanted a man who was at the same stage of life as me, so he would understand what my life is like. A man who's never been a father would find my need to be accessible at a moment's notice incomprehensible. One who's ums are grown wouldn't have the willingness to go through that again. More than that, it was essential to me that he was actively involved with his own because I have zero respect for those who figure being a sperm donor is all that's required to be a father.

You need to think back over every relationship you've had in your life and make a list of the good qualities that attracted you to each partner and the bad qualities that led to the breakup. Then compare future partners to the list. You want to find one with none of the bad qualities and all of the good. Which isn't the same as looking for someone perfect, just perfect for you.

For example, The Man's ex thinks of him as bossy and treating her as though she was too immature to manage her own life. For her, those are negative qualities. For me, he is dominant and nurturing. Good qualities in my book.

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