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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/10/2008 9:33:11 AM   
Carrera23


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Status: offline 		I was going to edit my last post I did last night because I thought of one more thing that I am sure some can kind of relate to. Another kind of bad thing that happien to me was while I was living in my in laws house, my Master bought liquid latex to play around with. We were very careful with it while we played. My brother came over the next day and saw it on my nightstand and goes, "Liquid Latex, whats this?" As he is saying that, he is opening it sideways, the that the LIQUID latex falls right out on the floor. I tired to figure out what he was thinking when it says liquid on it and he opens it sideways. I had to learn the hardway...liquid latex does not come out of carpet. Might fade a little, but does not come out. For about a few months, my mother in law kept questioning me on what this spill could be on her flood and I just kept shrugging my shoulders like it might have happiend while I was gone. She still wonders to this day what it could have been and I still wonder (in her presence) what happiend there, hehe.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/10/2008 9:41:11 AM   
Sub03


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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Took a 10 hour drive to Reno when I lived in Vegas to meet with a sub I had been talking to via the Net for nearly a Year at the point I went to visit. I had talked to her for almost three months before I decided to take the drive. The intention was to spend a weekend with her and her friend in a Condo they rented. When I showed up at the door however I learnd a few things.

1) A Picture is a reflection of a person at thier best, She WAS in fact pretty however in person it was obvious this 22 year old girl was really 13.

2) When you ask a persons Father to speak with thier 13 year old daughter and asked "Why?" it is ALWAYS a bad thing to answer "I don't see how that is any of your business"

3) Things I will NEVER do again before I meet someone in person and CARD THEM.
  • Phonesex before meeting
  • Discuss erotic fantasies
  • Send Erotic Photos.


The worst part of all this was at first she wasn't going to come clean and a very angry father was nearly ready to dial 911. It was only because I was able to tell them the things that she had told me that the Father realized that I was on the level and THOUGHT I WAS meeting a 22 year old woman not a 13 year old child.

Because of this I am VERY quick to want to meet people in real life. If you can't make the effort to meet me as soon as possible then there really isn't afuture for us.

By the way SCDC, Vegas is my old Stopming ground if you want I can suggest many places for you to go to meet REAL people and help you get away from the Online Crowd. I used to belong to most of the munches in Vegas before I moved to Utah.

Steel



Almost the exact same kind of thing happened to my Master, unfortunetly it didnt end as well for him

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/16/2008 9:51:19 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		You could of not let gone to his car with him alone, and in what you desribe as an essentially empty area with no other cars.
quote:

ORIGINAL: JulieorSarah

good time was had by all until i walked him to the car, parked in what is a concreted empty city block... however with the second i didn't see it coming and don't know what else i could have done. to prevent it


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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/16/2008 10:28:39 PM   
DDraigeuraid


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I was involved with a sub several years ago.  Two minor details she "forgot" to tell me.
1.  She was married....to a cop...6'6, 315 lbs.  (Turned out he was actually pretty nice)
2.  18 personalities she knew about.  It was very scary going to bed with a woman, and waking up beside the mind of a 9 year old.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/16/2008 11:31:32 PM   
Hisgirlonly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Watching a roughly five hundred pound woman being bent over a horse at a local club and paddled with something roughly resembling a boat oar. It made these horrific "waves" roll up to her neck and back. First time something visual left me feeling nauseous.
 
 The only thing I could think of...was, "I paid to be here.........."
 
 I never went back-I'm afraid to.


you paid for that?!?  wait...was this before or after the invention of the internet...because that makes all the difference

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/16/2008 11:33:52 PM   
Hisgirlonly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sub03

quote:

ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Took a 10 hour drive to Reno when I lived in Vegas to meet with a sub I had been talking to via the Net for nearly a Year at the point I went to visit. I had talked to her for almost three months before I decided to take the drive. The intention was to spend a weekend with her and her friend in a Condo they rented. When I showed up at the door however I learnd a few things.

1) A Picture is a reflection of a person at thier best, She WAS in fact pretty however in person it was obvious this 22 year old girl was really 13.

2) When you ask a persons Father to speak with thier 13 year old daughter and asked "Why?" it is ALWAYS a bad thing to answer "I don't see how that is any of your business"

3) Things I will NEVER do again before I meet someone in person and CARD THEM.
  • Phonesex before meeting
  • Discuss erotic fantasies
  • Send Erotic Photos.



The worst part of all this was at first she wasn't going to come clean and a very angry father was nearly ready to dial 911. It was only because I was able to tell them the things that she had told me that the Father realized that I was on the level and THOUGHT I WAS meeting a 22 year old woman not a 13 year old child.

Because of this I am VERY quick to want to meet people in real life. If you can't make the effort to meet me as soon as possible then there really isn't afuture for us.

By the way SCDC, Vegas is my old Stopming ground if you want I can suggest many places for you to go to meet REAL people and help you get away from the Online Crowd. I used to belong to most of the munches in Vegas before I moved to Utah.

Steel



Almost the exact same kind of thing happened to my Master, unfortunetly it didnt end as well for him


What you need to do to "test" the little bitches ages by giving them a pop quiz via the phone so they can't look their answers up.  Just laugh it up and say "i wanna play a game" Then ask them things they should know for their age.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/16/2008 11:35:33 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		It was a place they used to call "the wetspot"

It goes by a more pc name now.

I do still feel that I have less chance of being tramatized by playing at home. Even sadists have limits!


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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 5:43:03 AM   
pettingdragons


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Status: offline 		Online meetup....hotel room....stranger...Dominant Female..had me suspended... gagged...beat me bloody...and broke both my arms....if it wasnt for me not answering my safe call the hotel staff would have found me like that **cringes** ....Friend came to the hotel and took me to the hopsital.....so use your safe calls...they are set up for a reason....
There are also reasons the young to seek guidence before just rushing out into the the world yelling "lets play"
I still play but I am many years older and alot safer...LOL


pamela

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 5:56:28 AM   
pettingdragons


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

My worst experience? I once met a witch...She twirled and played with her hair and spoke like she was about 7 years old....I politely asked if it wouldn't be to much of an imposition if she could conjure up a woman that might be a little more interesting and desirable? For you see, she was really bummin' me out....Witches can be such drags.



I am  a witch and I am soo not a drag~~~but i own some ponies that will drag anything around for hours!!!  LOL

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please hold.....all muses are busy....but your inspiration is important
to us.....

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 6:24:50 AM   
LilMissHaven


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Status: offline 		After reading so many horrific stories I can't really justify the examples I was going to use as bad BDSM experiances.  They are probably more along the lines of things gone wrong...shit happens.

1.  First whipping, I could feel the air movement as the whip came down towards me and turned to look which caused my body to shift just enough for the tip of the whip to catch my cheek.  We learned that when using new toys its best to bind me so I can't move.

2.  I'm a gymnyst so by all rights I should be flexible.  After having had an exceptional week I was allowed to suggest an activity; I am a bondage slut, love it, love it, love it.  So, I stayed up all night puruising the internet looking for a new idea, finally settling on a position I'd seen in a photo that had caught my eye.  Hands and feet tied together behind my back, a position I can easily get into on the floor what we didn't take into consideration was the weight my body being suspended would put on my joints.  Anyways, since neither of us have ever tried this position before we took it pretty slow with J checking on me constantly then about 30 minutes in things got a little excited and out of hand, next thing I know my right shoulder pops out of its socket...so not a good pain but not half as bad as having to have it popped back into place.  We learned that if we employed a large metal spreader bar for my hands and then tied the support and feet to it, I didn't have problems with my shoulder the bar kept my shoulders from being hyper extended.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 6:50:41 AM   
indianslave37


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Status: offline 		Have not had any bad experience so far. I guess it all comes down to whom you choose as your dom or sub and your pre-session discussions and understanding development.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 9:52:32 AM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		It’s painful…it has to do with a scene between myself and realtuffdom (“Always Ram Ford Tough”). He’s got that huge cock pic on his profile so, you know, I submitted right away. I thought it was going well riding our bikes and then, mmmmm, the jello—our kink is not your kink—but then at this place…well let’s just say his mom can yell really, really loud.

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RE: What's the worse BDSM experience you've ever had? - 4/17/2008 5:20:07 PM   
TaoInDominance


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Status: offline 		Gettin arrested at a demonstration...ethics can hurt

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