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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:39:16 AM

RavenMuse

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OK who else reads this as some dim just whining that someone turned him down for a quick shag when they probably had clearly on the profile (Which he no doubt didn't read) that they where after something long term?

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:39:19 AM

PlayfulOne

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People putting up false fronts on the internet? I am shocked, shocked I say.

The real question is why is it you think people who have a different view or agenda than yours are fakes. Certainly you understand that there are people around here who have long term Dom/sub relationships? Not wanting to be your "playtoy" does not make someone fake.

My spider sense suggest someone is bitter over to many rejections.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:44:25 AM

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I couldn't help but notice a pattern here:
all of the dissatisfied customers are new.

Just because he or she isn't right for YOU does not mean he or she won't be right for somebody.

The clearer you are in knowing excatly what will make you happy in a relationship the less disappointed you will be when you meet someone who won't meet those needs...a good way of looking at this is for each "no, not my type" you meet, it is one step closer to meeting the type of person who will match with you...and if you aren't going to meet their needs then it is a good thing that you are finding that out early.

On-line doesn't work for many people (as far as meeting "the one" goes); go to munches and such...meet real people.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:44:42 AM

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Poof! All fake subs are gone. It's safe for you to read the posts now......

My work here is done.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:47:27 AM

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I find that most people on this site that I have spoken to, both male and female were seeking or are in long term relationships - not play, or casual scenes.

The site is "collarme.com" - is it not more common for you to be collared in a SERIOUS long term relationship? Why wouldn't someone looking to be collared come here?

You're not very clear in your post exactly what they're doing wrong. I don't see anywhere on this site a specific rule or guideline stating a female submissive is not permitted to seek a permanent owner. So what is the problem?

You, it seems.

YOU can't find a woman who wants to be with you how YOU want and instead of handling it like an adult, doing a bit of self reflection or something to see if you may be the problem - you lash out at these women with childish insults and a "warning" posts to others that they won't let strange men treat them like shit.

Your profile doesn't offer much more than you're looking to treat a woman like crap and get a blowjob. I mean honestly, to say the submissive women on this site are not for real and then present yourself in such a fashion is laughable. In my opinion what you're looking for is found on alt.com or a play party.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:48:04 AM

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when i read this rant that's strangely formatted like a poem, all i could think of was that scene from Dr. Strangelove. remember the one?

they are diluting... our PRECIOUS bodily fluids.

seriously. do you think that maybe the best thing to do is to write a long bitchy rant on the forums about it? if you posted that as a journal entry on your profile, perhaps it would keep such ladies from thinking that you'd be interested in buying what they're selling. but otherwise, it's a free website, you can do things that annoy us like posting this on the forums, and we can mock you for it, and women looking for marriage or only lighter, bedroom based relationships or anything else they want can look for that. i agree with DV, if you see a girl like that, don't propose anything to her, or talk to her. she's not buying what you're selling, you're not buying what she is. but if you come and cause a big stink like this you're going to scare off the girls who might be looking for what you want, and then you'll be even worse off than before.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:52:48 AM

Maya2001

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Yes Sir Mister UberDom you are correct , I am guilty of being one of those cows ...except I am beyond the breeding stage....does that make me more "twue"????

.... thankfully though there are other poser Doms here that have the same desires, so you need not waste your time on this ancient cow. I thought I recalled another post of yours that also stirred things up here....luckily not so old that I have become totally senile ...yet http://www.collarchat.com/m_1318730/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1318730

Let me guess ......you are posting because those posers subs you have met are chastising you for not being a twue Dom

But I think I will stay ...kind of like it here, enjoy being around those poser Doms here much better than the wankers on AFF and other vanilla sites

< Message edited by Maya2001 -- 4/9/2008 6:54:39 AM >

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:57:24 AM

lanie38

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Oh boy..this place is like the twilight zone but anyway...

Although I get your point...this is a free site..free to anyone regardless of their orientation, desires, wants, needs...

I'm not sure why you might think that because the site carries an allure of BDSM that it and the people on it might somehow cater your own personal needs, not to mention devoid the site of people who may not potray themselves as who they really are??!! Like on any adult site that's your job to decipher, to make your own judgements and choices...

Besides, post like yours I personally can't stand since they smell full of self-righteousness..but hey I put up with your type as well...it's a free site and a free country...meh!!!!

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 6:59:51 AM

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Just because someone doesn't meet your definition of what it means to be submissive does not mean they are not submissive. They just are not submissive to you. Where do people get this idea that a submissive has to be or show their submissveness to every Tom Dick and Harry who calls themselves a dom. Submitting to someone on any level takes trust. Some people are more willing to give that trust willingly then others. What you are really finding is that you cannot find someone who is willing to jump through the hoops you set up in the beginning. Well good luck finding that.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:03:16 AM

OmegaG

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Oh, I highly recommend that people peruse this gentleman's profile. I wish I'd seen it last night when I needed entertainment.

Dude, you want women to trust you implicitley (and it seems you wish not to even wear a condom) and you want to engage in some activities that can be seriously dangerous if a relationship isn't established, if you don't know your partner and what their reactions can mean. For what you ask, you can't expect without investing time, unless the woman trulydoesn't care about her life and well being.

Kind of an oxymoron considering that you insisted several times that she be desease free.

You insist that she host-- highly suspect.

You speak in shades of misogyny and you are having a hard time finding what you seek.

I just can't fathom why.

xxblushesxx--- I think you have your example of why D types screen their s-types e-mails.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:05:28 AM

tawney1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

OK who else reads this as some dim just whining that someone turned him down for a quick shag when they probably had clearly on the profile (Which he no doubt didn't read) that they where after something long term?

I read that and so much more from the profile, Sir. It screams .... "married looking to play with women behind wifes back while supposedly at work"

tawney
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Yep, I'm one of those long-term committed poser types.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:07:15 AM

domahpet

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lol
he only wants a sub/slave/slut
that is available several times a month,
during the day.
*snort*

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:09:00 AM

KyttynTheMynx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser

So, why is it, That recently,
all I come across is women who
call themselves subs or slaves
who really have only one interest
to begin with. They only want to
settle for a LTR.
Because I am not too keen on playing Dom Bingo and bouncing from bed to bed.

Or, just meet for play.
IMO, I wouldnt meet with some guy I dont know and let him tie me up, do fun things to me, fuck me, and never see him again. I am NOT that kinda girl...
Your just
a normal breeding cow trying to get
laid.
And youre just some cranky guy whos pissed cuz it aint raining pussy on ya. Chill.
And if I was trying to get laid, Id be up a chickens ass. I have a personal arsenal of toys for that reason, tyvm.

Go post your vanilla BS on friend finder
or Yahoo. Don't wreck this site for the
rest of us.
Seems to me that you are writing from a place that I like to call Scorned City. Dont take it out on everyone else. Not all of us are fake just because we dont want your version of a Utopia. Youre no less a person because you dont like what I like. I (and others) are no less <insert lable here> because we dont like or do or want what you think is the ULTIMATE and the ONLY thing to like/do/want. Get a grip. Please.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:10:23 AM

defiantbadgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser

Doms, be careful !!! More posers lately.

I have lately, come across
a lot of self proclaimed
"submissives" who are in general,
diluting what I believe
this site was intended to do.
I believe collarme was intended
to bring together people who
are interested in bdsm. Maybe as
a lifestyle, or just for fun.
So, why is it, That recently,
all I come across is women who
call themselves subs or slaves
who really have only one interest
to begin with. They only want to
find a husband or even dilute
that and settle for a LTR.
They put out the "I'm kinky"
bait and some of these suckers
bite. I have had enough of
these posers who lash out at
you with a sharp tongue because
you propose seeing what they have to
offer, or seeing what they are
capable of. Or, just meet for play.
Let me say this... If all you want
is a boyfriend, and you think you
are a submissive, because you
suck him off every once in a while,
and you let him cram one up your ass
every few weeks when your drunk,
your not a submissive. Your just
a normal breeding cow trying to get
laid.
Go post your vanilla BS on friend finder
or Yahoo. Don't wreck this site for the
rest of us.

So no twue sub looks for a long term relationship. How dare they seek the same respect a vanilla woman does!! They're kinky and therefore unworthy of respect. Seriously dude, if you want to see "poser" go look in the mirror. Boys (you're not worthy to be called a man, much less a Dom) like you make me sick.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:13:00 AM

xxblushesxx

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The OP, according to his 'profile' wants a slut, cumhole, whore, who "can be discrete, and is available several times a month".
She also has to provide the place to meet because big dom daddy probably has a wifey at home, is homeless, or living with mom and dad.
Oh yeah, and she has to be disease free.

I could direct you to the proper site to find this type of person, OP, (and it's not a bdsm site, btw), but, I don't want to contribute to the cheating you've probably only been doing in your mind so far.

And please tell me, in your opinion, what makes a 'real' dom?
Because you don't have any of the qualities I associate with twueness.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:14:15 AM

beargonewild

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser

Doms, be careful !!! More posers lately.

I have lately, come across
a lot of self proclaimed
"submissives" who are in general,
diluting what I believe
this site was intended to do.
I believe collarme was intended
to bring together people who
are interested in bdsm. Maybe as
a lifestyle, or just for fun.
So, why is it, That recently,
all I come across is women who
call themselves subs or slaves
who really have only one interest
to begin with. They only want to
find a husband or even dilute
that and settle for a LTR.
They put out the "I'm kinky"
bait and some of these suckers
bite. I have had enough of
these posers who lash out at
you with a sharp tongue because
you propose seeing what they have to
offer, or seeing what they are
capable of. Or, just meet for play.
Let me say this... If all you want
is a boyfriend, and you think you
are a submissive, because you
suck him off every once in a while,
and you let him cram one up your ass
every few weeks when your drunk,
your not a submissive. Your just
a normal breeding cow trying to get
laid.
Go post your vanilla BS on friend finder
or Yahoo. Don't wreck this site for the
rest of us.

waa waa waa suck it up buttercup. Dilution happens on both sides to the whip.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:16:09 AM

xxblushesxx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

Oh, I highly recommend that people peruse this gentleman's profile. I wish I'd seen it last night when I needed entertainment.

Dude, you want women to trust you implicitley (and it seems you wish not to even wear a condom) and you want to engage in some activities that can be seriously dangerous if a relationship isn't established, if you don't know your partner and what their reactions can mean. For what you ask, you can't expect without investing time, unless the woman trulydoesn't care about her life and well being.

Kind of an oxymoron considering that you insisted several times that she be desease free.

You insist that she host-- highly suspect.

You speak in shades of misogyny and you are having a hard time finding what you seek.

I just can't fathom why.

xxblushesxx--- I think you have your example of why D types screen their s-types e-mails.

Omega; about once a year that type writes to me. Using my sharp pen and sharper wit, I finish him off, and leave him wondering what happened. (and then, of course, I'm forced to submit to him because I am not a 'fake' submissive...but...that's the price we pay for being submissive, no?

)

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:16:28 AM

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:17:29 AM

stpaulslaveuser

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Why am I not surprised to see that some of the low wattage people are picking my statement apart? Or, just can't grasp this. I understand there are people here that want to be a breeder or a breeding cow. Yes that's kinky, and I love it, if they are into it for the kinky aspect of it. But of course that does miss the point.
You need not read into my statement that far. Also, there isn't anything wrong with a LTR. All I am saying is, when your post starts by saying that you like to be a "mega slut", or you "can't get enough stranger sex" or, "I like to get used like a whore". Then you come back saying you don't show pictures on the internet, or you are looking for a LTR, or you just don't let anyone Dominate you. That means you are a brain chemistry imbalanced dingbat who probably should not procreate any way. Take it elsewhere.
The Doms in this scene don't need to be teased because you just got off the cotton pony, are horny as hell, and posted a "I'm kinky, mount me" profile then, 2 weeks later, your PMSing because some poor unsuspecting dude sends you a kinky note.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 7:19:10 AM

loverly

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oh.... my ... gawd!
LOL.. and here i am SHOCKED that He doesnt mention one word about wishing to connect with a girl on an emotional level in His profile! i was going to say i douted if He ever truely owned a girl.. sub or slave however.. i highly dout anyone would wish to be in that position... but then.. for me one of the MAIN reasons i am persuing this life i choose to is the deeper connection of the relationship.. the total trust and complety knowing and understanding your partner so that she/he can be allowed to explore the more extreme sensations in a safe and loving environment.. not for everyone i know but.. MOST nilla men i know ( i personally call them manpigs ) dont LIKE females really... only want laundry done .. a bj when they want it and to be able to hang with their buddies and hold the channel changer.. they dont really WANT a conversation with a female.. or enjoy one being around.. but then again.. i find it hard to respect any Self Proclaimed Master or Dominant who thinks it really IS all about them.. as a given ...

ummmmm... does anyone else think he is a bit overly angry??? man ! its HELL getting up on the wrong side of the bed isnt it tho?

i say live and let live as long as ts not hurting anyone..

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