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trappedinamuseum -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:54:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: beargonewild Let me clarify here, trapped. I was looking into the underlying principle of this issue and had used those examples to illustrate that in most battles, so to speak, it usually is the one voice which acts upon a perceived wrong and tries to fix that. And sometimes a "battle" is deemed inappropriate by the masses yet for that person it is important to them. I see your point bear. However, I don't see that one voice up on Capital Hill (and I live here, I would know), or circling a petition, or writing to their congressmen, or trying to change the stigma kink carries with most people. I don't think that this message board filled with lots of people who obviously don't have a problem with the TOS is a good avenue to take frustrations about the TOS, or government in general, and attacking a non-guilty party is never appropriate, and immature. I want to see some follow through, and some planning. Bitching about apartheid certainly did not fix the problem. It is not the voice that wins the battle; but the actions of that voice. Does that make sense?

GreedyTop -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:54:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: trappedinamuseum quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl and dogs and cats. Gah! How could I have forgotten that? Greedy....it sounds like you are doing something innappropriate to that sheep. I must ask you to stop, since it is against TOS....put your pictures up somewhere else. but..but.. but....

Lynnxz -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:55:33 AM)
But OP isn't trying to fix anything. >.> He's yelling at whoever approves the pictures, and they don't have any more say in what's legal than we do, haha. Do I think the laws need to be reworked? Yes, and I think that might actually happen at some point, as a side effect of BDSM becoming a little more mainstream than it was 10 years ago. Edited to add: The OP is also failing miserably at reading the replies to his rants. Some of these people here have a hell of a lot more experience in kinky pixxors, and the legality surrounding them. You should probably listen to them.

kittinSol -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:56:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop but..but.. but.... Speaking of this... hmmmm...

trappedinamuseum -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:56:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop but..but.. but.... No buts! Then again, this is a site for sheep.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:57:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop but..but.. but.... Speaking of this... hmmmm... how do i know those boobs and butt are yours? your face isnt shown in those pics that you sent me!!! and the butt needs to be more purple!

Wolfandkitten -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:58:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster The federal government. It's already been explained to you. For that matter, why not stay around here for more than a week before you start complaining about shit? quote: ORIGINAL: Wolfandkitten Excuse me LaM but I have been around more than a week in case you didnt read my op the pic in question was already approved once on another name...read before you speak. Really...who or what are the mods around here afraid of anyway?

GreedyTop -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:59:01 AM)
Moo?

mnottertail -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:59:07 AM)
smirkingsheep seemed to be having a ball while she was out here, at any rate. I think we have now also dismissed the adult misnomer as well. Ron, whoremonger, drunkard, and general ne'er-do-well

kittinSol -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 10:59:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop but..but.. but.... Speaking of this... hmmmm... how do i know those boobs and butt are yours? your face isnt shown in those pics that you sent me!!! and the butt needs to be more purple! Ach, faery, you're supposed to say thank you and drool ;-) .

Raechard -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:00:12 AM)
Photo approvers are separate from moderators.

trappedinamuseum -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:00:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail smirkingsheep seemed to be having a ball while she was out here, at any rate. I think we have now also dismissed the adult misnomer as well. Ron, whoremonger, drunkard, and general ne'er-do-well hehehe....Ron...you said 'whore". Greedy....meow.

Lynnxz -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:01:06 AM)
Faery = Little bo peep?

GreedyTop -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:01:24 AM)
t quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail smirkingsheep seemed to be having a ball while she was out here, at any rate. I think we have now also dismissed the adult misnomer as well. Ron, whoremonger, drunkard, and general ne'er-do-well omg, I think I'm in love....

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:01:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz Faery = Little bo peep? no..im red riding hood.

AquaticSub -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:02:09 AM)
Provided you are willing to invest at least the money that CM has, making a website is not hard. There are classes to take and templates that can be used. You can even hire people to make the page for you! If you want them to incur the risk, you should be willing to do the same.

CalifChick -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:03:01 AM)
Wolf, I'm not understanding your position on this. Help me see how it makes sense. Let's say I have a party, and there is no admission fee. You come to my party and you want to stick needles in somebody. I say "no, I won't let you do that at my party." You start screaming about your rights to stick needles in somebody. Have you forgotten the fact that this is my party? Go somewhere else if you don't like my party, just do us all a favor and don't continue to suffer under the delusion that yelling at me about your rights and what my party is supposed to be is going to get you anywhere. So Joe Schmoe starts a site and he calls it a BDSM site. He has decided that he will not allow gags or extreme bondage. That is his right, he doesn't even have to tell you WHY he does not allow it, although thru the grapevine here people have extended you the courtesy of trying to explain those reasons. And now you're trying to argue with those reasons, when in fact, Joe Schmoe doesn't have to have a reason at all. Heck, he could say "no pictures of people wearing blue shoes" and that would be his right too. Cali

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:04:22 AM)
And who funds this legal battle? The "proceeds" from a free to use website will certainly not provide for it. You don't get to volunteer other people to pay for the legal battle that you yourself are not capable of funding. Ability and know-how are things that you can acquire, if indeed you are motivated to do so. Are you motivated enough? Are you willing to do more than, in your own words, "just fucking sit there" and complain bitterly about something you have not paid for being something you did not want? Screeching about others not being willing to do what you yourself are not willing to do will never score you points in an arguement. quote: ORIGINAL: Wolfandkitten Exatly !!!! and for you really simple minded people .... in case you havnt figured it out....its NOT just about pics... if it was i could just sit here all day long and put links up but where would that get anyone. All I am saying is that if you believe in this lifestyle and it is who you are .....dont fucking sit there and let anyone run over you...get off your ass and do something about it. As far as starting my own site....if I had the ability abnd know how to do so it would have already been done..instead , I am forced to use the only voice I have to try and get others to stand up for what they supposedly believe in, on channels run by even more people willing to just say ok we don't want to offend anybody . I guess maybe they should change the name of the site because if this kind of mentality keeps up how long do you think it will be before a simple COLLAR is deemed offensive?

Raechard -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:06:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Let's say I have a party, and there is no admission fee. Is it a birthday/anniversary party? Fancy dress? [8\|]

AquaticSub -> RE: IS THIS AN ADULT BDSM SITE OR NOT? (4/12/2008 11:07:22 AM)
~Fast Reply~ You know... something just occured to me... There are lots of ways of furthering any particular cause. And your way, OP, is not the only way. CM provides a place for people to get together and talk. It lets people who are completely out share their stories with people who aren't ready yet and it gives hope and resources for those who would like to be completely out. In doing this, CM helps people live more open lives, which allows for more "vanilla" people to realize that their children, parents, best friends, teachers, employees, bosses, etc are kinky, happy and are still the wonderful people that they always were. CM is definately helping in a quiet but effective way. If you want something with more fireworks, invest the money, time and energy and learn how to make your own site. Organize real time events and make an effort to reach out to the community. Write a book. But don't pass the buck.

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