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What can I do? - 4/15/2008 4:42:37 AM   
winterwolf23


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Status: offline 		I have been on this forum for 2 years and have had some what bad luck finding a submissive.  I was wondering if any one could help me understand why. 
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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 4:43:45 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		you been on this forum for two years and this is your first post? and it sats that you joined yesterday and you dont have a profile? see where im going with this?

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 4:44:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, you've been here for two years and this is your first post. I've heard of keeping a low profile but.........

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 4:51:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't have my crystal ball handy and the cauldron is in being blackened, so I can only say - maybe your empty profile has something to do with it?  And if you have been here for two years and your profile says differently - so if you keep making new ones or changing your name etc - it shows lack of patience and if I was reading this and then looked at your profile, I would not be interested when you state one thing and your profile gives over another meaning.
 
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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 5:57:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		*tacklesmooches gorgeousdark*  but, can't you use your runes to find out for him?

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:03:33 AM   
RCdc


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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:09:09 AM   
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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:09:55 AM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: winterwolf23

I have been on this forum for 2 years and have had some what bad luck finding a submissive.  I was wondering if any one could help me understand why. 

Sun card; ~You will understand if you imagine yourself one day to be a Sun God. How do you think and feel? Do you have total confidence in yourself.? Don’t be cocky, but profoundly sure of your power. You must ave unlimited energy and have a greatness about you and stand out brilliantly. Finally, you see and understand all that is happening within yourself. When see this know that you will be successful at all you undertake. Now is the time to let your light shine………..~ Take out the switch and decide if you are sub or dom predominantly. Contribute to the forums. Get more pics. Write a journal so that others may begin to see you as a real person…… Anyway where have you been for two years as your profile says you just joined? There are hundreds if not thousands of single males of your age on alt.com and collarme. They are all just tadpoles not even yet frogs. You have a long way to go before you even become a Prince and get a Princess to kiss you…..

< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 4/15/2008 6:10:26 AM >

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:11:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop



Maybe he should go RED


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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:12:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: winterwolf23

I have been on this forum for 2 years and have had some what bad luck finding a submissive.  I was wondering if any one could help me understand why. 

It takes a while for a submissive to know that god has presented them with such a wonderful opportunity. Two years isn't such a long time. However with a yin/yang consideration; are you lucky at cards?

Then again, it could be the hat?


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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:15:22 AM   
BlueHnS


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Status: offline 		Wait ... I thought you just ran down to local market and  picked up a new submissive.  All shiney and sparkly and custom made to order even !
It's not like one is actually required to put forth any real effort ... or invest something of themself ...
 

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:26:53 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		BlueHnS please contact me in private and give me the market address. Notice that I said please. I think that Im becoming to soft a Dom.

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:34:46 AM   
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no problem Dark...mine is right here......

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:35:20 AM   
BlueHnS


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Status: offline 		Hell if sayin please makes one a soft dom/me I must be the wussiest domme on earth!

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:40:13 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop



Maybe he should go RED



*snort*

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 6:57:16 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Fill out a profile, post, get a better picture. With your chin pointed upwards, you look closedminded.
You say you are interested in finding a submissive but you are listed as a switch. Does that mean you want her to top you occasionally or that you are looking for an open relationship so you can bottom to someone else? What kinds of things do you like?

Nobody responds to empty profiles. It's as bad as getting emails that just say "Hi". No openings for any response except "Bye".

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 7:05:42 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
They are all just tadpoles not even yet frogs. You have a long way to go before you even become a Prince and get a Princess to kiss you…..


Or to get a kiss from Prinsexx...?
 
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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 7:11:54 AM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		You can put something in your profile.  : )  Many subs do not trust a younger Dom, so something showing that you know your stuff would help.

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 7:23:35 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		Something to keep in mind about dating sites, kinky or vanilla. regardless of what role you are, there are more males on these sites, so it is alot harder to find what you are looking for. (or rather, for a female to decide to take a chance with you.  Honestly, considering that your a switch, in some ways that does make it more difficult. ( In so many ways.)  a couple ways you can get noticed: post frequently on this message board, post a picture that shows you in a better light, a simple one of you smiling should do it.  connect with your local community, if you can. Learn everything you can.

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RE: What can I do? - 4/15/2008 10:16:42 AM   
MistressOfGa


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Status: offline 		First response, just by reading your post. You have no profile. THAT could be the reason. Most people want to know what you are about, they want to know that you know yourself enough to post a profile. A single photo is not going to sell you. This is the Internet, you are chosen by your words, and if you have nothing to say, then why would you expect anyone else to have anything to say to you?

Now, I will read what others have said.

Welcome to the forums!

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