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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 11:55:07 AM

CreativeDominant

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When I first started, I just could not wrap my head around this. Then, one time after having had a particularly intense session with my second submissive, I gripped her hair and led her to the shower and put her on her knees. The look she gave me was priceless...that knowledge that it was going to happen, the fear, the raw wanton desire expressed on her face and in the way she gripped her breasts together and spread her thighs and leaned back to receive it all over her. The moaning as she felt it occurring and the begging for an orgasm as I reached the end of my stream. It was all those things that have been described here for both of us...an act of mutual vulnerability, an act so incredibly humiliating that, if you are into the mental and physical aspects of why humiliation is a draw, it becomes so erotic, an act of possession and of showing your wanting to be possessed by the one doing the marking.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 2:19:53 PM

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Yeah, just hose her down. :-)

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Shower together and try it there. Baby steps.
Or...just friggin hose her down. That's more my style. To jump in with both feet.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 2:42:42 PM

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I just want to say thank you to everyone who took part in this chat and responded to my thread, it made for great afternoon reading and it was great hearing everyones different views and experiences.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 3:34:39 PM

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It's something I've never yet participated in. I never felt intimate enough with a play partner in the past. With MasterK, I would be more than willing to do this, if he desired. I don't know how I'll feel about it until it happens.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 3:41:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

When I first started, I just could not wrap my head around this. Then, one time after having had a particularly intense session with my second submissive, I gripped her hair and led her to the shower and put her on her knees. The look she gave me was priceless...that knowledge that it was going to happen, the fear, the raw wanton desire expressed on her face and in the way she gripped her breasts together and spread her thighs and leaned back to receive it all over her. The moaning as she felt it occurring and the begging for an orgasm as I reached the end of my stream. It was all those things that have been described here for both of us...an act of mutual vulnerability, an act so incredibly humiliating that, if you are into the mental and physical aspects of why humiliation is a draw, it becomes so erotic, an act of possession and of showing your wanting to be possessed by the one doing the marking.

Purrrrrrrrrrrr

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 3:42:44 PM

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Piss play is very versatile and can impact those invovled in a number of ways. The spirit intended has a lot to do with it. I prefer to do it in intimacy. I mean really what could be more intimate than actually consuming part of another?

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 3:46:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: UncleNasty

Piss play is very versatile and can impact those invovled in a number of ways. The spirit intended has a lot to do with it. I prefer to do it in intimacy. I mean really what could be more intimate than actually consuming part of another?

Uncle Nasty (yeah, I earned the name)

lol, Unc. You should take a swig first, then talk this shiite. :)

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 3:56:37 PM

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I can't close doors in our house - including the bathroom door - one day i was sitting on the toilet, Sir came in and said i had taken too long and he had to go - and peed down my front! i'm always naked , so it wasn't very messy - but boy, I let a man pee on me. Getting my head around that was odd. It wasn't humiliating or erotic, but it was very submissive. I then had to ask permission to clean up!! Another head trip!
He hasn't done it since, but really, once was enough to make his point - any time he wants he could do it again, and i would let him. Still feels weird to say that.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:22:57 PM

flower2007

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Why is every man I run into grossed out by this? Definitely on my short list of things to try!

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:35:16 PM

Leatherist

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Maybe it has to do with your location?

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:39:19 PM

flower2007

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Maybe it has to do with your location?

My location? How so?

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:42:07 PM

metalmiss

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In my opinion it is both.. And in my experience both the Dominant and submissive concerned seemed to get equal enjoyment from the act

i find it incredibly humiliating & a big turn on.. He enjoys the seeing me humiliated and finds that to be a turn on.. Quite simple really.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:42:42 PM

Leatherist

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Is your area conservative? Or are you just not setting criteria that will attract a less inhibited sort?

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:45:54 PM

Daddysredhead

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The day Daddy collared me, He had me step into the tub and while carefully avoiding the brand site, He "marked" me with His pee. It was very intimate because of all that He did for the collaring and I felt so connected to Him. It was very natural to let this happen.

He has since done this one other time, while I was in the shower. It was sexy and made me feel very turned on towards Him. One of the things He had talked about was having me pee myself around Him. I had tried, but was never successful, and there was never any pressure for it to happen. However, after the last time we played at the dungeon, I felt unbelievably submissive to Him and was still feeling the warm-fuzzies of post-subspace. When we got home, He had me get on my knees and give Him head. I still had my dungeon clothes on, and He asked if I had to pee. I told Him I didn't and that I was sorry. He told me that it was ok, and to continue to suck Him. After a few moments, I was so relaxed and so aroused that I looked up and said, "Daddy, I think I might be able to." He stroked my hair and whispered, "Ok, baby, whenever you can." It took a minute for me to relax enough to let it "just happen." I just held my head next to His tummy, while He continued to stroke my hair, and then, it happened, and I peed all down my thighs and on the carpet. It was weird, but sensual. He whispered to me, "Good puppy" and kissed my head. That was the first and only time He ever called me puppy, but it was so fitting, and friggin' HOT!!! It was all in the mindset, and the moment. Just sexy as hell. I cleaned up the rug and myself and used carpet spray on the area where I made my little puddle moments before. (No stain, lol) Shortly after I changed my clothes, I looked at the cat and said, "Sorry girl, but if it's ever noticeable - the blame goes to you." I swear she gave me the paw once I was out of the room.

Hmmm.....

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:49:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
I swear she gave me the paw once I was out of the room.

Hmmm.....

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:56:31 PM

CalifChick

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I guess I'm the only one around here that it just does nothing for. It doesn't excite me, it doesn't humiliate me, nothing. I don't particularly care for the smell, I can't drink it (doing something that makes me barf is a hard limit). I've been on both sides of the stream, so to speak. Nada.

I did get an email today from someone who was looking at old threads about peeing in front of people, and how she and her boy laughed at something I said. It was this:

I was with someone for a while who wanted to try some Golden Showers play. Good lord have mercy. I couldn't pee in front of someone if my own leg was in full flame and I needed to put out the fire. So I had him stand in the bathroom, not touching me, not talking, and I think he even held his breath so I couldn't hear him breathing (LOL), I turned on the shower and I closed my eyes and contracted and then pushed out hard (like doing Super Kiegels). After about a week straight of doing this twice a day (morning and night), we switched to eyes open, then he could talk, then the water went off, then he could touch me.

Now I can pee anytime, anywhere, in any position. I could even pee if the entire Mormon Tabernacle Choir was in the bathroom with me and taking turns sitting on my lap! I am the champion pee-er! LOL

You want me to pee on the floor? Fine (can someone else clean it up though?). Pee on your leg? Fine. Pee in your mouth? Open wide. If someone wants to be peed on, c'mon over and I'll give it a shot. Literally.

Cali

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 4:57:28 PM

Veryleggyredhead

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This isn't something I personally have experienced. I do know someone who enjoys erotic humiliation and she tells me it is the ultimate. I have read several articles which as one poster here stated, suggest that this act is very much about marking a sub or slave and is considered to be an act of physical and emotional intimacy between a Master and his sub or slave. No where have I read or heard that it is unsafe. The bottom line is so long as the act occurs between two consenting adults and is safe, it's their call regardless of what others might think.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 5:03:19 PM

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FR~ If done right, it can be a little of each. There's a definate headspace when involved in piss play for me, as a sub. And i think for a Dom, it's one of those things that never get "old". The idea that someone can be so humble that what most consider "waste" is considered something to be desired from them, even special, a reward...i could see how that could get someone excited.(but not too physically excited or the pee takes FOREVER to come out)

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 6:56:39 PM

DV8fromthenorm

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quote:

ORIGINAL: metalmiss

In my opinion it is both.. And in my experience both the Dominant and submissive concerned seemed to get equal enjoyment from the act
i find it incredibly humiliating & a big turn on.. He enjoys the seeing me humiliated and finds that to be a turn on.. Quite simple really.

I completely agree with you, it's incredibly humuliating and a huge turn on. Exactly my thoughts.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/18/2008 7:09:49 PM

SubJordanTyler

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It's both for me - depending on the situation. If one person, or a couple of people, are standing over me and just letting it fly and pissing all over my face and head and body..........it's humiliating. But if I'm drinking it.......either right from the source or even from a glass........it's intimate because I'm taking part of my domme inside of me and carrying her with me. That can be pretty powerful. And as far as the humiliation.........it makes no difference........male or female........who pisses on me. For the more intimate aspect, it needs to be my domme.

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