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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/20/2008 8:42:11 AM   
DV8fromthenorm


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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Then I guess I won't tell you the diapergirl story.


Not to get off the subject of the thread, but I've seen the reference to diapers several times in this thread.  I don't get the whole diaper thing. It does nothing for me,  I understand the erotic and intimate experience of WS, as many people have replied, but don't see how it's related to diapers.  I guess it's similiar to the  people who have replied and said that WS does nothing for them.  Hummmmm.  ? (head tilted in confusion)  

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/20/2008 8:53:12 AM   
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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/20/2008 9:40:59 AM   
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~FR~  congrats on losing your cone, sweetie :) 


Thanks greedy top,  I know that vanilla cone really got on my nerves.  I am not vanilla.   lol.   I'm so glad it's gone.   

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/20/2008 2:31:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I also do not consider it an act of humiliation. I do it simply to mark my territory. It also reinforces my psychological control of my girl. It pleases me that my girl finds it comforting and stimulating. Now, making her pee in a coffee can in the middle of a room full of people, that might border on humiliation, but that is different and for different purposes.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/22/2008 6:11:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose the old saying that it's better to be pissed off than pissed on takes on a whole other meaning doesn't it. I have been into it for at least 30 years, and haven't gotten tired of it. Actually this maybe ( TMI) here but i was once in the business of helping people with there odd needs and wants for lack of a better term. So the more my imagination soared of course the more money you make. But for some reason when you share this experience with someone you truly care about that is very intimate. i haave tried it in a variety of ways making it even more intimate. But now for some reason when my Daddy and i are together sharing this moment i get so much more out of it than i ever have, although He thinks of it as humiliation but i don't i get a wonderful feeling of completeness from it. i have been in several BDSM scenarios in the past and i just assumed that evryone involved inthe lifestyle has tried it in one degree or another but the other night i was informed that some Masters will not do that period. I think that's very strange they will beat you until your bloody and bruised but they won't share something that intimate with you even in the shower. I guess i am just lucky Daddy truly enjoys it with me.
 
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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/22/2008 6:43:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I fantasized alot about WS before i tried it, in my fantasies, it was humilation.
Once I tried it, it is truly not. I find it to just be very intimate, and hot.
Making me pee in front of someone, though, is a differant matter. I have not managed to let go of my mental blocks enough to do that yet, and we have tried getting me to the point that I am desperate enough to be in pain, tied up and restricted - whatever. Just can't seem to.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 5:23:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tsatske

I fantasized alot about WS before i tried it, in my fantasies, it was humilation.
Once I tried it, it is truly not. I find it to just be very intimate, and hot.
Making me pee in front of someone, though, is a differant matter. I have not managed to let go of my mental blocks enough to do that yet, and we have tried getting me to the point that I am desperate enough to be in pain, tied up and restricted - whatever. Just can't seem to.


Tsatske,
I appreciate your honesty on this topic.  I agree with you reply in that I cannot manage to let go of the mental block to do that either myself.  I don't know why that is or how to over come it.  I have no problem urinating in public restrooms, urinals, etc.  When it comes  actually to me performing the act on someone else (and the occasion and requests  has been rare)  I was unable to.  Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I'm a true submissive, or I'm somewhat "pee shy" or in my mind, the whole scenerio is just wrong so it doesn't work mentally.  I'm not sure and have thought about this  on  more than one occasion.  Some have commented that it is a way of  "marking their territory" as a dom would and not a submissive.  Maybe that's the answer to my question.  I have no territory to mark as my place is to be the submissive..    I've read through my entire thread and I know some have touched on this subject.  Any additional advice from anyone regarding how to overcome this "mental block"? 
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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 5:31:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		i find it humiliating under some conditions and very intimate under others, it depends on the situation for me...and i'm with some of the others,  it is almost impossible to pee in front of someone who wants you to.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 6:36:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't been pissed on tho I love the idea of it. being marked like that to me, is just so arousing. I think about it and it makes me feel so submissive and sexually aroused inside. I wish to experience this with someone I love and trust.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 6:39:39 AM   
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Not humiliating for me.  I find it to be very intimate.



i agree, i dont think it humiliating at all, i dont know why but i always have thought of it as more of a possession thing, like marking His/Her territory...is that odd?

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 7:41:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's more about D/s, in the sense that I have used it. Being forced to pee your pants. Not being allowed to have control of your bladder.

And it's something you can do to a sub, any time, and place.

The erotic appeal? You have to try it and see.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 7:46:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DV8fromthenorm

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ORIGINAL: tsatske

I fantasized alot about WS before i tried it, in my fantasies, it was humilation.
Once I tried it, it is truly not. I find it to just be very intimate, and hot.
Making me pee in front of someone, though, is a differant matter. I have not managed to let go of my mental blocks enough to do that yet, and we have tried getting me to the point that I am desperate enough to be in pain, tied up and restricted - whatever. Just can't seem to.


Tsatske,
I appreciate your honesty on this topic.  I agree with you reply in that I cannot manage to let go of the mental block to do that either myself.  I don't know why that is or how to over come it.  I have no problem urinating in public restrooms, urinals, etc.  When it comes  actually to me performing the act on someone else (and the occasion and requests  has been rare)  I was unable to.  Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I'm a true submissive, or I'm somewhat "pee shy" or in my mind, the whole scenerio is just wrong so it doesn't work mentally.  I'm not sure and have thought about this  on  more than one occasion.  Some have commented that it is a way of  "marking their territory" as a dom would and not a submissive.  Maybe that's the answer to my question.  I have no territory to mark as my place is to be the submissive..    I've read through my entire thread and I know some have touched on this subject.  Any additional advice from anyone regarding how to overcome this "mental block"? 
DV8


The mental block is why I like to force girls to use diapers etc. The body will tend to want to go with the programmed inhibitions.

It's kind of amusing to watch a girl with the bladder pressure forcing her into the "dance". Then you have her put on the baggy clear plastic panties. She whines, I just smile and act encouraging..Eventually I get to see a little show with sound effects. The panties keep it all in the crotch -I dont need to have her in the bathroom.

It does take patience and determination.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 9:39:42 AM   
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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 10:57:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I havent tried pissing on my sub yet but for some reason in the last few months everytime I read a thread like this and some of the girls comments I get so damn hard...LOL. Definatly something I have to try with my girl however not really sure how to go about it... She has asked me what people get out of it and I understand from reading all the threads but I dont even know how to explain it to her...LOL.  I am allways hanging on the whole subject.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 11:01:06 AM   
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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 11:12:57 AM   
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I havent tried pissing on my sub yet but for some reason in the last few months everytime I read a thread like this and some of the girls comments I get so damn hard...LOL. Definatly something I have to try with my girl however not really sure how to go about it... She has asked me what people get out of it and I understand from reading all the threads but I dont even know how to explain it to her...LOL.  I am allways hanging on the whole subject.


Thank Fucking God I'm NOT the only one.

I asked andi and she was like "Well, you can if you want, I won't stop you, but I don't understand why you want to." Which of course killed it.

Than I asked our new girl and she says "that's just gross" then decided it was a hard limit as the thought of it turned her stomach.

And then there is erin and she says "Hell Yeah"

So I guess I just wanted to say I'm gunna see if this kink is for me or not.

**Oddly enough I am wondering if I going to enjoy it or not cause the idea in my head is erotic but I wanna see how it feels off paper.**

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 11:27:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Believe it or not I cant get her on the internet at all!  Its crazy. She loves the lifestyle but to say that she is in the closet is an understatement. I could copy and past and all but things like this are things that she has to come to terms with. Even if I were to just do it.... I would have to let her stew for about four days before she would even comment on it. The whole thing is rather funny really.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 11:29:39 AM   
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Thank Fucking God I'm NOT the only one.



Thanks for your support... I thought I was a loner on that one.

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 2:33:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I've got a plumbing/practical problem.  I have tried to piss on my sub a couple of times. She is ready and willing.  But - thinking about her taking my piss on her face, mouth, wherever, gets me so fucking horny, I get hard as a rock.  And then, the only thing I can piss on is the ceiling. 

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RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionat... - 4/23/2008 2:40:30 PM   
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