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ORIGINAL: blushingflower

Honestly, I think some of it has to do with supply and demand. .... But also with gender norms and expectations.  .... I think (it)is a carry-over from traditional gender expectations.

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ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

Quick response and I will come back in a bit---female submissives speak more often through their head--as natural nurturers, they are able to address some basic hierarchy of needs, relationship and add to it. Male submissives often speak from their "head"--whatever to get in to pants--IMHO that isnt submissive that's a horndog and in all fairness it's the 80/20 rule. 20% of the good ones have to work twice as had to get noticed in the morass of the 80% hard legs.  Now on the other side, ( and here I stand at the flames) many professed female Dominants  I see are gold digging, lazy, self centered users, who think this life is a way never to have to lift a finger, work, or get off their butts to do anything.  So that behavior IMHO has driven the horndogs.
 
( I hope this does not get Me in trouble with many of the Ladies here, as I think we all know the kind I refer to)