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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/26/2008 2:39:21 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: batshalom

BRNaughtyAngel ... and the Hips. (Tits? Clits?)

WoopWoo! (Doing the chugga chugga and the whistle pulling motion.)



LOL!            <-------------There we are! 

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/26/2008 2:43:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

quote:

ORIGINAL: batshalom

BRNaughtyAngel ... and the Hips. (Tits? Clits?)

WoopWoo! (Doing the chugga chugga and the whistle pulling motion.)



LOL!            <-------------There we are! 



I hope you have as much fun stripping as you've had with the thread.     You've gotten some really good advice.   You've got a lot of people cheering you on.    It's going to be great for both of you.   Can't wait to hear how it goes for you.  

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/26/2008 8:14:40 PM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good evening!

I used to dance, before middle age and having kids threw my body into puddles of pudge! But there are a few tips I learned that I still kick around to this day, and hubby seems to enjoy as well as a few others that I have danced for.

*Wear layers-guys rarely wanna see it all hang out, they acutally prefer the act rather than the package. Save the final total nakedness or topless-ness for the last song/move.

*Wear shoes that strap or won't come off-nothing more humiliating than a shoe flying across the room! and wear shoes that you are comfortable in. Sometimes I even used to wear flats for lap dances.

*Choose music you LOVE-a set of 3 songs was our set. Get lost in the music and pick a topic that covers different bands, like "angel" (Aerosmith's Angel, Billy Idol's Rebel Yell, etc.) Let your head get lost and enjoy the music..your body will follow.

*Pick out one person to make eye contact occasionally. Preferably your Master!

*Pole only for props-You do not have to stay stuck to it, dance around it, lean on it, you don't have to do all that acrobatic stuff.

*PRACTICE-just practice dancing in your shoes that you will wear. Get your balance right. and pray that the lights are low..yes it helps! ::smiles:: Good luck!!

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/26/2008 8:28:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I teach pole dancing. If you want resources for learning some moves send me a note and I'll send you some links. : ) Have fun. Cheers, Beatrice

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/26/2008 9:14:48 PM   
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I havent read all the posts but I would suggest you enroll in a few bellydancing classes they are a great way to get yourself in the swing of things...also if you need to overcome "public" nudity ....you could sign up to model nude for an art student... just some ideas Good Luck!!! Sounds like fun!


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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/27/2008 2:59:12 AM   
Corvidae


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Status: offline 		I'd say, if the only thing stopping you is your own insecurities, then go ahead and do it, but if the idea of pole dancing and whatnot doesn't appeal in general, then skip it. I'm pretty shy myself, and have my own dear sweet insecurities, but I have found that if you just go ahead and put yourself out there you will often have a better time then expected. Last year I performed in a cabaret at my college. I was nervous as all hell, I thought people would think I looked stupid. However, I just said "fuck it", because something inside of me just really wanted to go ahead an do it, and you know what... it was a blast. Sometimes if you are insecure about yourself the best thing to do is to put on a show... because odds are fairly high that people will love you and tell you so... and hearing from others that you are beautifull (which you are) can do a lot towards convincing yourself that you are.
Best of luck, and have fun!

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/27/2008 5:07:39 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		http://www.expertvillage.com/video-series/549_pole-dance-fitness.htm
go here and look up pole dancing. they're exercises but the basic moves are there and some you can do by holding on to a column. also  going to a club to watch girls dancing helps. practice a few moves and when the time comes. keep in your mind   how much youre pleasing him. best of luck.

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/27/2008 6:46:41 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Good morning ladies!  I see I've received even more great advice and encouragement!  Y'all are the best!

It's amazing how much this thread has helped me mentally and emotionally, and I am deeply grateful to all of you who have responded. 

I can honestly say that I'm not dreading it the way I was before and maybe a part of me is actually looking forward to it.  Of course, I know my nerves will kick in as the big night gets closer. 


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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/27/2008 7:44:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Good luck to you, I can see how this would make you uncomfortable, but what a list of support and good advice. I was tickled at "Twice's" advice..she mentioned things that brought a new light to the task..None the less , Good Luck..you have a slew of people anxious for you to do well which is very complimentary to You.

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 8:16:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Firstly, you need to feel sexy to be sexy. Just think about how much you will be exciting him by doing this, and try to ignore the stage fright.

As a tiny person, let me tell you that it has nothing to do with it. I'd be terrified too, since I can't dance one bit!


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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 4:11:31 PM   
lalbobbilynn


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Status: offline 		You have been given some excellent sound advice here!!!
i danced for a decade, and although it was go-go and not stripping is the same thing in a round about way. Eye contact is important, yet i had found, that being "me" was what became most appealing. i am NOT a sexy-look-at-me-pouty-lips-sultry-long-gazes; i am more the flasdance-sling sweat-dizzy-double-time dancer! Folks like variety, so be You. Find shoes that feel comfortable for YOU, and do a little freestyle at home. Dance about and get comfy with You, then in a few days, start to focus on the point of this ...... serving Your Master, and bettering Yourself. If You can pull off the sexy come-hither-look, rock on!! If not (like me!) then just smile!! If You happen to flub up (let me tell ya about the art of tripping!!), just roll with it; make it look like it was what You meant to do! As for the poll .....  use it at Your leisure, or to steady Yourself. You will do awesome, truly. Lastly, have fun, it will be over before You know it!!
Keep us highlighted as to the end results!!
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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 6:06:30 PM   
tebe12345


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Status: offline 		What I do when I want to do something like this but am too shy is that I pretend it isn't happening and let my body do it for me. Then, when I'm comfortable enough to tune in, it's already the fun part!

It's almost like when you're at a doctor's office and have to go through with it, you just let yourself go through the motions until you feel safe enough to bring yourself back.

Good luck!

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 6:43:23 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Woo hooo!      Still getting great advice and encouragement!!  

I might actually pull this off without falling on my head or dying of embarassment! 




I said "might".

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 6:47:07 PM   
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Just piping in to wish you luck...I think you got some great advice....and I think the fact that he's asked you to do this for him is a wonderful compliment...not only does he think you're gorgeous but he obviously has the confidence in you to pull it off beautifully, I'd concentrate on that..I bet he'll be beaming with pride!!!

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 6:49:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lanie38

~FR~

Just piping in to wish you luck...I think you got some great advice....and I think the fact that he's asked you to do this for him is a wonderful compliment...not only does he think you're gorgeous but he obviously has the confidence in you to pull it off beautifully, I'd concentrate on that..I bet he'll be beaming with pride!!!



Awwwwww thank you so much lanie! 

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 7:57:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, as some one who has severe anxiety with anxiety attacks, what works best for me when I am asked to go past a limit by my Daddy is time. That is the biggest thing with me. If it's a last second thing, I can't process and I tend to freak out a little more. But if I have time to think about it, to plan it, then I'm ok. Your insecurities are in your mind, if there are any things in particular that bother you that you CAN change before then to make you feel sexier, then do them! If you think you look better with a tan or having your nails and hair done, go out and do them. Get something hot to wear to start out in, something that will make you feel as sexy as your Dom (and probably every one else) believes you are. Once your confidence is higher, you'll feel better about it. And just remember that it's for HIM, to please Him, and focus on Him while you're dancing and no one else. It's only a few minutes and it'll be over, you can totally do this! Definately practice, ask your Dom if you can practice in front of Him or a really close friend if you're comfortable with that, anything to try out moves and see what works. And don't wear lotion if your hands tend to sweat when you're nervous. lol. Best of luck to you, I think you'll do great and will have a wonderful time!!

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/28/2008 11:13:56 PM   
chaosforge


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Status: offline 		lol, i really want to help, but am having difficulty because this is only one night and not a career choise...

grace; 1-everyone has it. let go and let your body do what it feels to the music, being that close to naked if not totally, no one will find any faults.
2-look over some yoga poses to get ideas for "floor moves".
3-the pole is your friend. the pole loves you. the pole is your friend.
4-gravity is nicer on stage. okay, not really, but tell yourself that anyways.

looks; you have nothing to worry about.

being the center of attention; fear not, it's not the same as streaking at a ball game. you are a human piece of art now. they don't really see you so much as they see what you give them to see. let them see submission, creativity, or exploration,,, what ever it is that you want to embody.

hope this helps- phoenix

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/29/2008 6:25:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Forget about your poor body image or areas you are not comfy with and just let yourself go..HIS pleasure is more important that the way you feel about yourself.
i know because I gave had to do some things that I did not like either..in the end it will be so hott if you just give in regardless of YOUR feelings.
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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/29/2008 9:29:03 AM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		Here is some advice from an ex stripper from Cheetah's in San Diego. You have to practice practice have a few drinks and try to feel the music it will come to you, you have to have confidence, and have attitude. Some suggestion try finding a pole dancing class in your area or check out Flirty Girl fitness at www.flirtygirlfitness.com . Best of luck to you and remember you can do it.

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RE: Stripping for your Master? - 4/29/2008 10:26:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just want to throw out my best of luck to ya BRN.  I certainly wish I could be there to see your show!  I can certainly see and understand why your M put you up to the task and I really believe you will do an incredible job!!!   I guess you might just have to face the fact that your a hottie leading a trail of bonners behind ya...LOL
Good Luck to ya! 

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