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Zensee -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 3:30:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
I can't recall who said it but "I'd rather live as if there was a God and find out  that there isn't.. than to live as if there is no God and find out there is".  For me.. this holds the same for an afterlife :)


For me it's the exact opposite in both cases. Seems lazy to rely on Big Daddy to keep me in line and the hereafter to justify squandering this life (or taking the lives of others to save their sould etc. etc....).

Applying the term "death" to any description of these traumatic experiences, prejudices us to believe that actual dying was involved - which is clearly not the case. Near death is completely inaccurate and sensational as a term. Where the relativly common experience of the tunnel of light and the waiting loved ones arises is fascinating but ultimately little more significant than the flashes of light you see when you hit your head really hard.


Z.




LondonArt -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 3:36:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

My dad is a pragmatic man, not given to emotional outbursts- infact, i don't ever remember him telling me that he loved me. For him to say this is equiviant to someone screaming , naked, in public.


So what you're saying is that cases of severe hypoxia can cause neurological deficits leading to changes in personality and temparment? Well hot damn, someone get The Lancet on the phone, I reckon we could be in line for a Nobel if we publish with this.




batshalom -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 5:41:31 PM)

Edited to add: ~fast reply~

The problem with substance dualism issues such as NDE's and OBE's is that they can be replicated quite handily in the lab through manipulation of the temporal lobe and the angular gyrus in the parietal lobe. Certain drugs (like Ketamine) can block neural connections in the temporal lobe.

A good quick video on this subject can be found on youtube by searching "Shermer OBE."

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with believing in substance dualism, mind you. I'm saying it's plausible that the experience is more biological and less paranormal than the desire to believe in separation of the body and mind / soul would make it seem.




Poetryinpain -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 5:56:25 PM)

~fr~

I don't really care what others say or believe on the subject. I know what I saw, and while it didn't make a fundamental change in me, it has colored my perceptions of life.

I don't know exactly what happened - no one explained. All I know is that while I was experiencing the weird and wonderful tour of the universe that the anasthetic induced, I saw the entrance to a tunnel. Standing outside the entrance, off to the side, was a woman who looked like what I would think of as an eastern European prison matron. She had a very stern look on her face, and I decided not to explore the tunnel.

I didn't see my life flash before me; I didn't see the other end of the tunnel. But I am convinced that I nearly died and was saved by the operating team. I know that the ER doctor told my brother that there was a large chance I wouldn't survive, and the orthopedic surgeon said that 75% of patients who come in in the condition I was in don't survive.

I was lucky. Surviving something that has a small statistical probability of surviving does encourage one to think about why they're here and maybe feel that there is a purpose for them.

the.dark, I think it's great that you live and love as you do. You clearly have a good grasp on life and your part in it, and I commend you for that. I thought I had that, too, and then I found something deeper.

pip, I don't want to see that 'gray lady' again




domiguy -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 6:39:34 PM)

I know for the strong majority of people their actual death had a pretty damn significant impact on their lives.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 7:28:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LondonArt

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

My dad is a pragmatic man, not given to emotional outbursts- infact, i don't ever remember him telling me that he loved me. For him to say this is equiviant to someone screaming , naked, in public.


So what you're saying is that cases of severe hypoxia can cause neurological deficits leading to changes in personality and temparment? Well hot damn, someone get The Lancet on the phone, I reckon we could be in line for a Nobel if we publish with this.





Have at it mate.   of course he was never hypoxic, and really has no temperament or personality change - but go for it  asshole.

of course if you were that smart you would be able to spell.




Hippiekinkster -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 7:39:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Poetryinpain

~fr~

I don't really care what others say or believe on the subject. I know what I saw, and while it didn't make a fundamental change in me, it has colored my perceptions of life.

I don't know exactly what happened - no one explained. All I know is that while I was experiencing the weird and wonderful tour of the universe that the anasthetic induced, I saw the entrance to a tunnel. Standing outside the entrance, off to the side, was a woman who looked like what I would think of as an eastern European prison matron. She had a very stern look on her face, and I decided not to explore the tunnel.

I didn't see my life flash before me; I didn't see the other end of the tunnel. But I am convinced that I nearly died and was saved by the operating team. I know that the ER doctor told my brother that there was a large chance I wouldn't survive, and the orthopedic surgeon said that 75% of patients who come in in the condition I was in don't survive.

I was lucky. Surviving something that has a small statistical probability of surviving does encourage one to think about why they're here and maybe feel that there is a purpose for them.

the.dark, I think it's great that you live and love as you do. You clearly have a good grasp on life and your part in it, and I commend you for that. I thought I had that, too, and then I found something deeper.

pip, I don't want to see that 'gray lady' again


I think that, in the end, the fact that there are neurological and chemical explanations for occurances such as this, doesn't diminish the personal relevance of them. Perhaps the most famous of all the experiments/research on psychedelics prior to the idiotic media hysteria and subsequent irrational orgy of lawmaking, The Marsh Chapel Experiment, indicates to me that just because a chemical induced a mystical or spiritual experience, it is supposedly invalid. I suppose I could recount some similar experiences, but only in the most vague of terms. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxDZW6n69-0  Some of the firsthand accounts are fascinating to read.




kiwisub12 -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 7:47:23 PM)

Of course, the fact that there are physiological explainations for an occurance doesn't mean that there is not a spiritual component.  It would be much harder to quantify , or even qualify this aspect so who knows what it means?




LondonArt -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/29/2008 8:22:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

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ORIGINAL: LondonArt

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

My dad is a pragmatic man, not given to emotional outbursts- infact, i don't ever remember him telling me that he loved me. For him to say this is equiviant to someone screaming , naked, in public.


So what you're saying is that cases of severe hypoxia can cause neurological deficits leading to changes in personality and temparment? Well hot damn, someone get The Lancet on the phone, I reckon we could be in line for a Nobel if we publish with this.





Have at it mate.   of course he was never hypoxic, and really has no temperament or personality change - but go for it  asshole.

of course if you were that smart you would be able to spell.


Oh ye Gods no, not a typo! Well hell, my entire intellectual credibility is undermined now. I should probably just perform hari-kiri now before word gets out and I become the laughing stock of the scientific community for being caught in a typo by someone who can't quite get the hang of capital letters.

Also you wouldn't consider anger over being saved, a new outlook on life and death, and someone saying something that you yourself describe as out of character as being a change? Because honestly if there was no change then nothing really happened in your anecdote, which makes the whole thing pretty pointless.




RCdc -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 2:42:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

what about free willow? ...eh........


This is Darcy

...or Free Willy*?



*steady at the back, there, I'm talking about the whale.... [;)] 




LadyEllen -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 3:54:25 AM)

Always fascinating stuff this NDE phenomenon.

My grandma inherited bits of the spiritualist tradition from her Victorian parents. She was fascinated by the whole subject, as well as magic and mystery, comparative religion and tradition in general.

One day she died, and came back. She reported the light, the tunnel and a voice saying it wasnt her time yet and she needed to go back. At the time, her daughter (my mom) was newly pregnant with child number six, who turned out to be my final sibling and my second sister. A week after my second sister was born, my grandma died and this time was gone.

Grandma had always been unsure of the veracity of any afterlife or the existence of ghosts and such like, despite her preferences for spiritualist ideas. Since she and I shared the same preferences to the same degrees (maybe where I got it from), we sometimes discussed it all. Grandma promised that if it were at all possible, then when she died she would make every effort to return and thereby to prove that an afterlife or ghostly existence awaited us all. Its been seventeen years now, and no ghostly visit and no proof otherwise - and this from a motivated woman.

The NDE experience? Who knows - but it appears to me to be a symptom of dying, rather than death itself; the last desperate grasps of a mind to make sense of what is happening, as it did at the start of life and throughout the life just lived. Throw in to that a will to live that just keeps the being ticking over long enough for medical intervention to rescuscitate and we have scores of reports which share characteristics by virtue of our common means of expression.

This isnt to say there isnt some form of afterlife of course, (though it would seem that if there is one, it is not one straightforward to return from), and its comforting to think that despite the pain and anguish of earlier stages of dying, we might all share the pleasant experiences reported in NDEs in the later.

E




RCdc -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 4:07:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Poetryinpain
the.dark, I think it's great that you live and love as you do. You clearly have a good grasp on life and your part in it, and I commend you for that. I thought I had that, too, and then I found something deeper.


Hello pip.
I do not for one moment believe that people do not see or experience what they do.  I absolutely believe that death is only another leap.
And here is the but.
I do not understand why it takes people such an experience to suddenly change who they may be or to appriciate life, love and the people around them.  Why can people not reach that realisation on their own?  Why does it take seeing a light and feeling at peace to know there is peace?
 
When I had my second child, I refused any pain relief.  I wanted to experience the whole process from start to finish completely alert and there.  The moment my waters broke, I experienced something I have never had since - the pain and the contraction that came with it flew 'off the scale' according to the nurse who was monitoring me.  To the medical staff, I blacked out - to me, I was somewhere else and there was a light and voices and singing and people and the whole caboodle.  I even saw my daughter before she was born.  I had no idea what was happening - I remember thinking, am I dying?  Is this it?
But this was all in my head.  Do I believe it was something else?  No idea(but at least I know it wasn't drugs)[;)].  But it never changed me, it never made me appricate my life, it was an experience that rocked and I have the memory of.  But to change oneself because of one single experience, whatever that is - be it rape, death, birth or whatever - basing all of life on one single event has always seemed rather sad to me.
 
the.dark.




batshalom -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 5:03:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Of course, the fact that there are physiological explainations for an occurance doesn't mean that there is not a spiritual component. 


Indeed. That's what faith is for - to believe something not provable. Science and religion are separate entities for a reason: one requires in-depth scrutiny and the other only requires ... well ... faith. Some people prefer to remain faithful while others dig around for explanations - both are issues of personal control and the ways in which we wish to control our personal environments (including the mind or spirit).

One of the most persuasive arguments I've heard to date likens the mind / spirit to the wind. We see leaves blowing in the trees but it's not invisible ether or magic that's moving them. We know it's molecules of oxygen, nitrogen, argon and some other stuff being pushed by gravitational forces in order to balance out areas of high and low pressure.

The mind / spirit is also invisible, so could it not be that the explanation is something less than magical and perhaps more biological? I'm not asking for agreement nor am I saying that faith-based beliefs are wrong (faith is not falsifiable and therefore falls out of the realm of science). It's merely food for thought.




stella41b -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 7:26:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Zensee

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong
I can't recall who said it but "I'd rather live as if there was a God and find out that there isn't.. than to live as if there is no God and find out there is". For me.. this holds the same for an afterlife :)


For me it's the exact opposite in both cases. Seems lazy to rely on Big Daddy to keep me in line and the hereafter to justify squandering this life (or taking the lives of others to save their sould etc. etc....).

Applying the term "death" to any description of these traumatic experiences, prejudices us to believe that actual dying was involved - which is clearly not the case. Near death is completely inaccurate and sensational as a term. Where the relativly common experience of the tunnel of light and the waiting loved ones arises is fascinating but ultimately little more significant than the flashes of light you see when you hit your head really hard.


Z.



Oh right, and you're some sort of expert are you? How many times have you died?

Natural death, sudden death, clinical death, traumatic death (as in death from shock or serious injury), brain death, near death - this would suggest to me that death is a process and transition rather than a sudden event.

I take death to mean that the soul has departed the body and moved on, and doesn't return, but until doctors develop their spiritual powers and clairvoyant skills to the point where they can see that the soul has indeed departed someone's body and isn't going to return, then I'm afraid clinical death remains the legal definition of death. This means that they can go only on an absence of clinical signs of life - lack of heartbeat, lack of a pulse, lack of brain stem activity or EEG activity, lack of air going into or out of the lungs, but to me this is patently obvious that this isn't the entire process of death, but only part of it.

An NDE to me is evidence enough that a lack of the vital signs of life isn't necessarily the whole transitional process of death, but the start, the departure point, and that the whole process of death may not be completed and even be reversed.

This is only logical to me. Birth is also a process. This is also a process which may not be completed but also may be reversed. Stillborn for example to me is the same as an NDE.

I don't quite see therefore how an NDE can be compared with banging your head.

I believe in both the spiritual world and the afterlife. This comes after my own NDE and several out of the body experiences during a month long coma in 1997. I was heavily sedated and on a life support machine. Much of it was like a dream.

Some of it was down to the powerful hallucinogenic drugs I was being given. Being sent e-mails by dead political leaders from all through history via the monitors of other patients was quite fun. Watching Cyrillic letters forming from patterns in the ceiling and being able to understand and read the words was quite amazing too.

Six minutes..six minutes I was apparently clinically dead. I could later recall conversations between doctors held in different parts of the hospital. I 'visited' Glasgow and spent an evening with family which I was also able to accurately relate back to them in minute detail, despite the fact that at the time I was physically on a life support machine in a London hospital. I have predicted several major events in my own life, I have discovered my own potential for telepathy with other people, I still get deja vu.

However I did write here 'I believe'.. I do not know of an afterlife, only that we do have spirits. I can only relate what I perceived at the time, and that perception of reality, which may or may not be reality.

You stick to whatever you believe in Zensee, but please don't come on these boards and spout your claptrap about the experiences of other people who have gone through very grave experiences and almost died. You weren't there, you don't know. You have your beliefs just like others have their beliefs.

Try not to confuse opinion with fact.




MusicalBoredom -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 7:32:39 AM)

I've had both varieties.  I was in an auto accident and pronounced dead at the hospital but obviously didn't end up dying.  That experience didn't change my life at all except for the loss of a car.

My other experience was in a puddle jumper from Atlanta to Lafayette.  The plain caught on fire and the cabin filled with smoke.  We could see flames streaking down the side of the plane passed the windows.  We were at some god awful altitude.  After the pilot told us he was going to try some things and then talk to us we waited.  After a bit he announced he was still working on trying to extinguish the fuel fed fire but if we were religious that now would be a good time to pray.  Everyone on that plane knew we were going to die.  There was no question about it at all.  It wasn't fear it was acceptance.  We were told to put our wallets in our front pockets.  People made notes on paper to our loved ones.  Everyone was calm and quiet.  On an approach for an emergency decent and landing we were hit by one of those walls of wind that usually happen when flying over parts of Alabama.  The wind sucked the air out and snuffed the fire.  We landed without incident.

The experience for me wasn't necessarily a religious or spiritual one.  It did drive home the point that I do not control everything in my life.  It sort of put all of the little plans and designs that I had erected into perspective.  So yes, my ideas did change from the experience.




Zensee -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 8:16:16 AM)

Stella, I am not discounting yours or anybody's experiences I am just saying they are the results of processes in a living person, not a dead one. Certainly I am no expert, any more than you, since we are still both alive. I never claimed expertise, just offered an opinion on terminology. Sorry you feel so strongly about my opinion.

While there are transitions in a body towards death and while the line between life and death has moved somewhat due to modern monitoring and resuscitation  methods, there is still a line between alive and dead. Terms like NDE and "clinically dead" trump clear thinking by inserting the word Death where it clearly does not belong. That's bad terminology and the experiences of people suffering deep trauma, however profound, does not change that.


Z.




MistyMenthal -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 8:47:47 AM)

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Hi Erin
Love and regards as always...
 
I understand that people can take stock of their lives, I guess I just do not understand why someone might place all the reasoning on the near death experience itself.
 
You know me and my belief - I am not one to negate any kind of afterlife and I have my spiritual and religous belief - I guess it pains me that people can stick everything on a near death and claim their lives are changed and that they are now 'safe' because they have seen the light as it were - negating anything else that came before or that is to come.  What is free will when it's decided by an event ?  What is so free about that?  It is smply a concept I cannot understand - but then - I don't have to.
 
the.dark.

 
It will be clear to you someday as it was for me.
 
Always, misty[sm=danger.gif]





RCdc -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 8:52:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistyMenthal

It will be clear to you someday as it was for me.
 
Always, misty[sm=danger.gif]



...and maybe it won't.  And I am completely comfortable with it - either way.
 
the.dark.




Rule -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 10:14:30 AM)

FR
 
Obviously anything experienced in our universe is experienced through the senses, or when we are dreaming through the neurons that interpret the signals from the senses. Whatever spiritual event we experience has implications about the functioning of the mind, as well as perchance spiritual and theological implications. Arguing that because that which we experience as spiritual is the result of a physical / biochemical process it is not spiritual is fallacious logic.




philosophy -> RE: Dying and Coming back~~ (4/30/2008 11:39:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rule


 
Arguing that because that which we experience as spiritual is the result of a physical / biochemical process it is not spiritual is fallacious logic.


.....as it's a rare event, i thought i'd like to point out that i actually agree with Rule here.......




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