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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:47:49 PM   
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Does she mean literally ANY furniture?  ANY toilets?  Diapers can take care of things, but there are a fair number of places where you really do have to sit in seats or you'll be in other peoples way, even worse if you'll be required to work outside the home.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:48:31 PM   
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Toilet yes,furniture no.Standards need to be upheld.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:50:52 PM   
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24/7? Even when her mother is visiting? Highly unrealistic. And what happens if you're at the grocery store when the need arises, do you just do it in the parking lot and tell the cops that it's her rules?

Perhaps her unrealistic viewpoint is why she's still looking for a sub.

Me? I'm supposed to sit next to him so he can have his arm around me and his hand inside my shirt.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:52:28 PM   
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So I have been talking with a Mistress and she is really cruel, she thinks that slaves should not  be allowed to use the toilet or sit on furniture. What do you think and what is your reasoning?


Furniture restriction is fairly common whether it's being made to sleep on the floor or not allowed to sit on the couch etc. Himself will, on occasion, put me on the floor to sit or sleep just because he can. I actually like sitting on the floor by his feet, but I can't do the kneel thing for very long so have to make adjustments. A couple of times a year he'll make me sleep on the floor so that I don't ever forget that sleeping in his bed is a priviledge, not a right. If I'm having a bad night (more frequent with the onset of night sweats and menopause) he'll send me downstairs to sleep so I don't disturb him usually allowing me to blow up the air mattress. 

The toilet thing isn't something that Himself enjoys even if I didn't have some medical conditions that would make it less than cost effective (the risks outweighing the benefits). Full on 24/7 restriction doesn't sound realistic, but ::shrug:: it wouldn't be the strangest thing I've ever heard.

Mostly, I think that it sounds great on paper (or on the Internet) but trying to realistically keep to outside toilet 24/7/365 is going to be extrodinarily difficult to accomplish especially if you live in a place like we do where it gets to 40 degrees below zero (and colder) in the winter.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:53:34 PM   
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Let's all hope that the slave in question is smart enough to stick to grass and doesn't clean himself along the house carpet.

Rug burn on the underside of the balls....oww....

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:54:09 PM   
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Well i go get to use the toilet but i have to ask permission.. it's not too bad, 'cause yes he knows i can only hold it so long.. he has no desires for an accident..

but it has taught me to not wait for the last second to ask,, or to go.. the practial aspect of  learning to not wait for the last minute is that is if he needs me i don't have to say i can't right now because i have to use the bathroom..

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 6:59:35 PM   
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I can see a furinture restriction in place when there is non vanilla company over. And even when I have had vanilla company over, kitten offers them her place and sits on the floor, tho granted not directly at My feet.

Mostly she sits on the floor anyway. Dont know why, havent ever really said anything about it.

As for the toliet thing.

In all honesty has it ever occured to you that said Mistress would be implimenting unrealistic things to brush you off? I do it...slaves and subs will message Me with Mistress I will do ANYTHING...and I start rattling off about virgin sacrifices and mumification rituals...Im a lil more extream in My attempts to thwart people I am not attracted to.

Of course, it could also be an extream power play for Her. Meaning she would at that point be able to cover several bases all at once, humiliation, degredation, animlaization ( is that a word? Im meaning to make some one feel like an animal...but I could have it confused..) I mean there is a plethora of ideas in that one action that come to My sadistic mind...tho getting fined for bathroom use in a public place or indecent exposure is not My idea of a good time.

Fact of the matter is, yeah its odd, but so is tying some one up and shoving large lubed things into their ass, and other body parts. If you feel a vibe with her, talk it out with Her and not us. We dont know Her like she knows Her and in all honesty, only she can tell you what her thoughts on the matter are. Kink isnt defined by any set parameters....its all over the place, and no fetish is taboo any more...so...you have to find your place with in the ever flowing river of blood, sweat and tears....this may not be your rock to climb on...but then, it could be the right place for you as well...think it over and decide whats right for you as a person

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:11:36 PM   
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you all are very funny I am crying from laffing, So My question dose she carry a pooper scooper around? I hope the slave dont rub there butt on poison ivy.. I would let My slave sit on the couch ect. I like to control when they go to the bathroom (in the bathroom)..

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:29:25 PM   
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The Master or Mistress makes the rules in a M/s dynamic and no one, nay even God him/hersef has the right to jolly well tell the Master/Mistgress how to run their life (Unless there are illegal or obviously life threatening sirtuations happening or in place)..




Sorry, but this made me giggle.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:32:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

The Master or Mistress makes the rules in a M/s dynamic and no one, nay even God him/hersef has the right to jolly well tell the Master/Mistgress how to run their life (Unless there are illegal or obviously life threatening sirtuations happening or in place)..




Sorry, but this made me giggle.


Me too...no one at all.....Except for the police department, the courts, the state, federal and local government-and your wife.
 
 Damn, I just spoiled my total control fantasy-bugger.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:38:13 PM   
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I think she's taking the piss

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:41:43 PM   
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Not my thing, I like my sub snuggled up with me and I'd rather he go to the bathroom then hold it and get sick from it.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:43:46 PM   
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I wonder how that one goes....

Mrs. Smith from the Rotary Club knocks on the door.

"I'm sorry to bother you, but...we keep finding the feces of your naked boyfriend on the sidewalk. Could you please try and clean them up a bit? The toilet paper he uses to clean himself with keeps blowing in the wind and getting stuck in the Jone's trees!"

Edited to Add : Or wait...

Maybe real slaves don't use toilet paper either...

They just drag the crack of their ass through the grass like a dog.

I bet that has to be a sight.

Waking up in the morning, got your coffee, strolling outside in your robe to get the morning paper, and behold...

A naked man in a slave collar dragging his ass through your neighbor's lawn...


She did say it was in the city, so with no grass, it might have to mean rubbing up against a telephone pole.  Ew!

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:45:10 PM   
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Let's all hope that the slave in question is smart enough to stick to grass and doesn't clean himself along the house carpet.

Rug burn on the underside of the balls....oww....


i am trying to picture this...if the ass is dragged backward he would burn the underside of balls but if he dragged forward, then he would either have to hold his balls or burn the topside as they got pulled underneath. Either way, they will get fecal material on them and in any abraison burn so it is a set up for infection...
 
i do wish the Mistress would come on to say just what she does have in mind because i don't see how this would work very well. Or perhaps i just have excess hygiene requirements and habits.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:50:01 PM   
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From my limited experience....isn't this something that should be negotiated at the very beginning of the relationship ? Maybe the slave in question happens to like this sort of treatment ?
Imho....each to their own.... and if they don't like it - fix it or leave it.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 7:52:14 PM   
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I almost peed on myself laughing at this thread! 

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 8:21:20 PM   
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Yeah, I think slaves should be forced to piss and shit all over the hardwood floors.

Doesn't sound like this "mistress" lives in a very nice house.

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So I have been talking with a Mistress and she is really cruel, she thinks that slaves should not  be allowed to use the toilet or sit on furniture. What do you think and what is your reasoning?

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 8:22:13 PM   
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Geez...

The fire department thought they had a problem with just dogs pissing on their hydrants....

(I'm on a roll. Thanks to everyone who posted to this thread without thinking too much about the scenarios for keeping me going.)

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 8:25:14 PM   
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i can't say anything more then what has been said.  Seems this Mistress either is not realizing the full weight of what she is saying or she is trying to get rid of the OP and making it sound so much worse then it really is.
i am allowed to sit on the furniture, He likes to have me close. As for using the bathroom, it is required, not that we have had any problems with that, LOL.

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RE: Should Slaves be allowed to sit on funriture and us... - 5/1/2008 9:00:00 PM   
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eh..so..peeing on the carpet is going to be ok with her then since you cant use the toilet??? stinky carpet is in her future!

…LOL
 
And I thought I was strict making slaves ask permission to use the toilet.

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