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OldBastardly1 -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 6:22:08 PM)

What Level said.




domahpet -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 6:49:47 PM)

ya it sure did go off topic didnt it lol




Hippiekinkster -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 6:57:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

There are many cliques on collarchat. And loose electrons that hop from one clique to the next, or others who just stand alone most of the time... this site is not different from the way people interact in real life. Well, except that it's not real life. The snarkiness is absolutely GREAT: it makes the place all that much more gritty.


Hell, what little snarkiness there is here is TAME. Pity asshole had to close Flame-on. Now THAT was snark. The Hate Tank and Mock the Stupid groups on b.com aren't bad, either.




slaveboyforyou -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:00:21 PM)

I don't know, I kind of think it's funny to watch people get pissed off.  I deliberately bait people into arguments all the time in real life, and I watch with pleasure when they lose their cool.  But I am childish and petty.  [:D]




kittinSol -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:04:37 PM)

How childish and petty of you, slaveboy [8D] .




Hippiekinkster -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:08:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

I don't know, I kind of think it's funny to watch people get pissed off.  I deliberately bait people into arguments all the time in real life, and I watch with pleasure when they lose their cool.  But I am childish and petty.  [:D]
If you are going to pride yourself on being an ass, you need a whole lot more practice. You're still in the Pee Wee leagues. [8D]




eroticangel -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:26:52 PM)

i think posting here is about the hardest thing to do...sometimes you may feel as if you have good ideas but are just afraid to say them...snarky is too nice...there are some here that are just down right mean.....but, who are they really?  NO ONE...so i have been trying to post a bit more....sheesh now that i went in a really odd circle i will wait to get wounded......




sirsholly -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:29:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: eroticangel

i think posting here is about the hardest thing to do...sometimes you may feel as if you have good ideas but are just afraid to say them...snarky is too nice...there are some here that are just down right mean.....but, who are they really?  NO ONE...so i have been trying to post a bit more....sheesh now that i went in a really odd circle i will wait to get wounded......


Your posts are always great!! [;)]




sirsholly -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:31:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

I don't know, I kind of think it's funny to watch people get pissed off.  I deliberately bait people into arguments all the time in real life, and I watch with pleasure when they lose their cool.  But I am childish and petty.  [:D]


i used to do that too. I stopped it on my 8th birthday. [8|]




eroticangel -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 7:37:11 PM)

awwwwwwwwwww thanks holly[sm=cheerleader.gif][sm=dancer.gif]




lighthearted -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 8:13:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Skully7000

I use these message boards the same way I use astrology and fortune cookies.

read the message it gives you and search your self for how it can be applied.



this is my feeling exactly as well.  occasionally I employ our friend, the block button, just because I do get irritated by the same old thread derailments...I mean jeez, if you're going to derail a thread, at least make it interesting, lol...

I've learned a lot about BDSM in my time here, and I continue to learn.  that was my primary purpose in coming to CM and I've never lost sight of that.  in the process I've made some great friends, but when the mood gets snarky, mean, nasty, etc...I bow out.  life is hard enough, I don't need to subject myself to any of that online.  nobody is compelling me to take part in these message boards or any others.




MzMia -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 8:32:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lighthearted

quote:

ORIGINAL: Skully7000

I use these message boards the same way I use astrology and fortune cookies.

read the message it gives you and search your self for how it can be applied.



this is my feeling exactly as well.  occasionally I employ our friend, the block button, just because I do get irritated by the same old thread derailments...I mean jeez, if you're going to derail a thread, at least make it interesting, lol...

I've learned a lot about BDSM in my time here, and I continue to learn.  that was my primary purpose in coming to CM and I've never lost sight of that.  in the process I've made some great friends, but when the mood gets snarky, mean, nasty, etc...I bow out.  life is hard enough, I don't need to subject myself to any of that online.  nobody is compelling me to take part in these message boards or any others.


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Wonderful point made by the super cute one.
I have been here almost 4 years, posting for almost 2 years.
I enjoy visiting and reading a lot, but I made a conscious effort to cut down
on posting a few months ago.
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You can often enjoy the show from the audience, pass the popcorn [sm=popcorn.gif] and a cold beer [sm=givemebeer.gif]




cjan -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 9:06:07 PM)

We are all just human, after all, ain't we ? Each at a different level of maturity and development, of course, and we, each of us, are different from day to day, sometimes due to events that occur in our lives, other times due to hormonal upheavals or even substances we may injest ( don't let's forget caffeine and sugar).

A traumatic event ( or two or three) can , at least temporarily, change one's whole view of things. Sometimes, I try to be aware that this might be the case. At other times, I may give less of a fuck because of my own issues. Human. And, sometimes, I think someone may need a good kick in the ass as a learning experience because, I've been on the receiving end and have found it useful. Sometimes, I just wanna laugh ( most of the time) and I think laughing with folks  makes my day.

Finally, and yes, I will wind this up, there is a great Zen story about four different kinds of horses.

The first kind runs when he/she sees the shadow of the whip.
The second kind runs when he/she feels the sting of the whip.
The third kind runs when he/she feels the whip tear it's flesh.
The fourth kind of horse doesn't run untill he/she feels the pain of the whip in the marrow of it's bones.

One reason I like that story is because, it never refers to a "good" or "bad" horse. Nor does it say that the fourth kind of horse can't win the race. They are simply different kinds of horses. As we, I believe, are all different snow flakes.

*Switches off Yoda channelling and pours anudder , ummm, cocktail*




cjan -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 9:19:07 PM)

Wait, I'm not done yet after all, I guess.

Being on CM and posting has taught me a few things about self discipline. First, I've learned that personally attacking peeps or any violation of TOS will not be tolerated and it's made me reconsider how I post. domah, if you think I'm butt kissing, you have a right to your opinion and I think I know where you stand, but, sometimes, friends have differences of opinion and can still be friends.

Secondly, posting and participating here has made me careful of what I post ( unless I just can't help it), because I know, for sure, that if I talk out my ass, or can't defend my position with facts, that will soon be made evident. A good thing, imo..




popeye1250 -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 9:49:26 PM)

Hey! I want to be in a clique!
How do I join?

Yeah, I couldn't stand Cjan when he first got in here, now we're "buddies!"




CalifChick -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 9:51:23 PM)

Send me $20 and call me cupcake.

Cali




MzMia -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 10:00:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Hey! I want to be in a clique!
How do I join?

Yeah, I couldn't stand Cjan when he first got in here, now we're "buddies!"


::chuckling::
NO one here has admitted to being in any of the "cliques", but it is fairly obvious

who is in them.
[:D]




popeye1250 -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 10:07:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Hey! I want to be in a clique!
How do I join?

Yeah, I couldn't stand Cjan when he first got in here, now we're "buddies!"


::chuckling::
NO one here has admitted to being in any of the "cliques", but it is fairly obvious

who is in them.
[:D]


It is?




Hippiekinkster -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 10:09:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan
Secondly, posting and participating here has made me careful of what I post ( unless I just can't help it), because I know, for sure, that if I talk out my ass, or can't defend my position with facts, that will soon be made evident. A good thing, imo..

Well, evident to you and me and a few others from our side of the aisle. Some will keep insisting that, for instance, Japan invaded Germany or Obama threatened to invade Pakistan well past the point where they've been blown out of the water.
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MzMia -> RE: its fuckin sad i tell ya (5/3/2008 10:12:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Hey! I want to be in a clique!
How do I join?

Yeah, I couldn't stand Cjan when he first got in here, now we're "buddies!"


::chuckling::
NO one here has admitted to being in any of the "cliques", but it is fairly obvious

who is in them.
[:D]


It is?


Sure it is!
Follow the yellow brick road, I will draw you a map.

Then you will be in the "cool kids collarme club".
[:D]




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