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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 7:33:04 PM   
apiercedkitty


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i just wanna know who pissed in the op's Wheaties???

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 7:34:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

Ahhh, ok. That explains alot.

BTW, you forgot to do the Y/y on the last word.


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 8:25:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Hey, Toolking, do you notice how the people who actually have a real-life BDSM practice aren't as bent out of shape about this as you?

Very true, RM1...


quote:

ORIGINAL: Toolking
As for your assumption whether I have My first girl...... I tell Y/you, Once I find Mine, I wont be here any longer.!!

We will miss you.


quote:

ORIGINAL:  OldBastardly1
BTW, you forgot to do the Y/y on the last word.

You made me giggle, OB1. 


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ORIGINAL: Toolking
if My one submissive/slave is to seek another girl as an addtion to O/our relationship, then "she" is Not My type of woman

Then why do you care about those of us who are in relationships where we have more than the original two people who started out together?  Is it that we who are two, seeking a third or have a third involved already, are taking away from "your turn at the buffet?"


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz
Yeah...  You try bringing home a random chick for a threesome and tell me how well that goes. ;)

I know some girls who might love that.. however I know more- including myself, that would hit the roof.

Poor Daddy...  One time He thought He had found the brass ring for us.  He knew her for a long time and was certain that we'd get along great.  After the aforementioned twat was out of earshot and back at her house, I went absolutely nuts.  DaddyBoo saw a side of me that He had never seen in (at that time) almost 4 years.  It was at that time, that He declared Himself no longer actively looking for someone I could be happy with.  In His words, nothing was worth Him seeing me morph into a wild woman like He did that night.  It was something along the lines of this.  (the red hair and everything)  

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 10:57:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, in My case I am primarily looking for a sub for My Dominant side. I will be the main one in charge of him/her, though they will still be answerable to Master as He is the Head of the Household. It makes sense for Me to be the main one doing the looking BUT I keep Master updated as to whom I am talking to, and what they are like. When visits are arranged He is here and if there was someone He didn't feel He could be happy having in the house ... for whatever reason ... then they would be told that politely and thanked for their time and interest. I know and trust Him enough that He wouldn't take that decision on a whim, He is totally supportive in My search for a sub, BUT He also has ultimate control of who that will be. Both He and I are happy with that arrangement and it leaves Him where it should, in control.

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 11:05:41 PM   
MissSepphora1


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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ORIGINAL: Toolking

So basically any piece of meat she finds,and like her Dom/Master is gonna eat....wow. who is in charge of who???


Yeah...  You try bringing home a random chick for a threesome and tell me how well that goes. ;)

I know some girls who might love that.. however I know more- including myself, that would hit the roof.

I'm not  really poly, but I've done the whole threesome thing with some close friends of mine a few times. If those two girls don't have the right chemistry together, the relationship isn't going to last- it doesn't matter how submissive the two girls are.

But, if the two girls form a bond early on, and then the new girl meets the dom, it makes a whole lot more sense to me. It's not lazy.. it's a time saver.

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 11:08:56 PM   
Lynnxz


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/4/2008 11:11:37 PM   
MissSepphora1


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Status: offline 		i'd rather share with a twat i never had to see again, than someone i liked or couldn't stand.

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Well, better sharing with someone you like, than some twat that you can't stand 

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 3:16:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Well.... if the two girls don't get along... no one's going to have fun. I suppose the Dom's are just trying to weed out that drama first... It's what I'd do anyway.


Well it is a good job you are not a Dom then dear. Yes that is an issue but in terms of importance.... unless you are a bunch of vanillas where the Dynamic isn't an issue then it is rather more important that the submission and chemistry is there between the third and the Master...If that is already being built then the potential for drama between the girls is greatly reduced (Assuming the Master is doing His job and activly keeping control) With both having a vested interest in getting on, knowing the Master will not stand for any petty game-playing between the girls.

If there is no potential for the Dynamic then it is totaly irrelivent how the girls get on.

Of course a lot of those who put their girl to seeking, are not really seeking a third, just an extra 3 way shag having given no thought as to how things would work in a multi-person poly relationship.


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 3:27:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

I am trying to be less hostile in an attempt to win a certain uber-powerful woman over. I probably have as much chance as a fart in a windstorm.

I really, really want to do this  to somebody that I think deserves it, but am trying to show a kinder, gentler side.

I just want to hug somebody....r e a l   tight


one-armed?  around the neckbones? 

kitten, laughing

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 4:41:06 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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Status: offline 		Lmao....be careful with your generalizations.
 
I am currently engaged in searching for a male sub for Scooter's wife ShiftedJewel.
 
She never asked me to, i more or less took over the search. I just got tired of all the one day"i will be your devoted slave forever" next day deleted profile routine she was going through. Or the "please, i will meet you Sunday for coffee" only to never show types.
 
Face it, you can post let it roll off your back, ignore it, etc, but several years of this stuff can leave one jaded, not to mention even Dommes are human beings with feelings that get hurt.
 
So i do the looking, i carry the emails and the phone calls, answer and ask all the basic questions. If somebody shows up, great, she gets to meet them. If they do a disappearing act i just don't give a shit, it does not hurt my feelings or self esteem.  
 
Basically my searching for a male sub to fit into this house and serve her is my way of protecting her. Subbie or not, i protect what is mine, what i love. Doing the looking lets me do that for Jewel.

I am not trolling for a playmate for Scooter as he is straight and already has me to play with. I am not trolling for somebody to join Jewel and i in sex or play because we do not engage in sex or play with each other. I am not trolling for myself because i never switch, i have zero interest in a male sub except for how well he fits our family as a whole.

< Message edited by Twicehappy2x -- 5/5/2008 4:45:43 AM >

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 4:50:49 AM   
eyesopened


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ORIGINAL: Toolking

Greeting E/everyone, I have been browsing the ads of subs/slaves and most of them are seeking another sub/slave for their Mighty Dom/Master and I am wondering why He can Not find another sub/slave on his own ????

Thanks


Okay, let me read between the lines here.  You are looking for a monogomous realtionship with the submissive/slave of your dreams and you find that within the narrow criteria of your search, a lot of the submissives are either in a relationship or in a realationship and seeking another to join said relationship.  This irritates you because what if every male  Dominant gets two or three females, it makes your pool of candidates even smaller.

However, take a moment to think about this.  Since you are seeking a monogomous relationship with one female, it doesn't matter that many or even "most" are not for you... it only matters that ONE is for you. 

Also consider this... a lot of available submissives read these forums.  They are now seeing Toolking as.... well.... a tool!  Which is not going to serve you well in your search here.

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 5:21:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Toolking

Greeting E/everyone, I have been browsing the ads of subs/slaves and most of them are seeking another sub/slave for their Mighty Dom/Master and I am wondering why He can Not find another sub/slave on his own ????

Thanks

i had an ex-master willed this as a task to become a member here and seek out a 3rd, 4th, etc etc for his already growing stable and for us to play with despite repeatedly telling him i had no interest being with a woman.

his last message to me before blocking him said i still owed him a replacement slave.


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 5:35:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Samba could you send me several replacement slaves. I have these dwarf buddies.

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 5:59:26 AM   
Toolking


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Status: offline 		I give praise to the maker of O/our universe for every manifestation of love in O/our universe....I honor the many who came before Me...the spirits who guides O/our souls....and the very chemistry that’s makes U/us all different....there are Masters truly exist and there are those short for Masturbates!!!

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 6:08:42 AM   
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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 6:53:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Is there something wrong with masturbating? Come on, tool guy, be honest. 2 of the greatest loves of your short life have been your right & left hands. And I bet they know who is Master in Their/their world.

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 7:15:47 AM   
Toolking


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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

Is there something wrong with masturbating? Come on, tool guy, be honest. 2 of the greatest loves of your short life have been your right & left hands. And I bet they know who is Master in Their/their world.


OB1, with all due respect,  I can be devastating to the ones who try to get Me down. Give Me your hand, so I can pull you to my level. No need to dislike for the awesome things that I do. If you would look, listen, and learn you could be like Me too.


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 7:21:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Samba could you send me several replacement slaves. I have these dwarf buddies.

you're attempt at being funny is failing


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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 7:38:54 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I am a female Dominant and I am seeking my own third. Why? Because I know exactly what type of person I want to play with and my sub will accept my decision. We discussed it in detail and are on the same page. Besides I've been told about a few of the subs/slave he owned in his past when he was a Master and, No I definiately do not want him conducting the search.

Why can't other people do it? Well who knows I am sure that they have their reason. The most popular one seems to be to make sure that the subs get along, other than that I don't really see a reason. If the Dom/me doesn't have the time to look then how can s/he possibly have time for another sub/slave in their life?

Just my

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RE: Why Cant you? - 5/5/2008 7:47:14 AM   
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hmmm, could it also be that they are both looking to maximize their efficiency.

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