MissIsis -> RE: Cut or Uncut ? (5/5/2008 9:15:31 AM)
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Along with the drs, we decided not to have my son circumcized about 21 years ago. The cleanliness factor isn't really an issue anymore. I realize that is entirely a subjective opinion, & if not taken care of properly, dire consequenses could occur. I couldn't see doing it just because it was the norm & because religions thought it was the thing to do, or because it was traditional. I didn't want my boy being cut & his father agreed. I taught my son how to clean his as soon as he was able to coordinate a washcloth, as I did my girls. He is now over 21. He is pretty verbal & open with me about certain topics. Judging from what he has told me, "His bitches" don't seem to have minded at all. He has had a couple serious relationships. The girls don't appear to have any problems at all with his physical attributes. I have since learned that cutting off the foreskin takes away some of a man's sensitivity. An uncircumsized male will not have to pull in & out as hard because they are able to fully enjoy and experience the sensitiviy they are supposed to from intercourse. They don't have to resort to pounding all the time to try to compensate for what they don't know they are supposed to feel & aren't. I have often heard couples going at it. I could hear the pounding as the bed creaked in time to the act, or banged rythmically on the wall, over & over, & over & over ........again..... for what seemed like hours. Sometimes, I have asked myself, even though, it isn't polite to do so, how the hell the poor woman could enjoy that. Some repeated banging can be fun. I know for me, I can only deal with so much of that, then I zone out, sometimes even drying out. They say an uncircumcized male will naturally fall into tune with the woman's own rythyms, gently. I know. I know. Alot of us like it a little rough from time to time, but I know for me, there are times, I enjoy the delicious gentle & sensuous movements of any partner I have been with & crave that as much as the other. I think the benefits might be worth it to any woman who thinks they may be turned off by being with an uncircumcized male. I know, I for one, wouldn't let that be a dealbreaker. Actually, I think it might be fun to explore the possibilities.
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