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Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:06:19 PM

mcougar247

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I have been unbelievably lucky to find the most amazing dominant man. He is by far the best lover I have ever known, incredibly powerful and skilled. But, the more amazing thing is that he is 35 years OLDER than me, 76 years old. He is unusually healthy and attractive, of course. But, what a wonder and delight! What is the oldest you've ever imagined playing with? Amusing as it sounds, an older man is an ideal dom, experience, skill, authority, and pleasure beyond his dick. And, viagra works, too. To all of us, there is hope in our old age. If he can do it, you can, too!

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:09:34 PM

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Great something to look forward to.

Youth is wasted on the young they say.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:15:44 PM

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Well... I'll confess I've never had a fantasy pertaining to old guys... but, I was married to a woman 15 years my senior, and courted another 27 years my senior... I learned a lot from the 27 year senior... Not so much from the Mrs 15 years senior. But hey... All was well that taught me well. I have a few tricks up my sleeve and several toys in my bag from the learning...

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:21:22 PM

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Although I don't necessarily agree with your title, I TOTALLY agree with you about an older man being an ideal Dom! My Master is older than I am...but I never think of him as being "old". He has had more experience dealing with different types of slaves...so he knows just what to do to train and discipline me to make me a better slave *smiles*.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:23:12 PM

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Enjoy your 76 year old. i have a definate preference for men quite older than myself...daddy issueswhatever...it's just my thing....
If i am attracted to a guy closer to my age, (which hardly ever happens) he has to be either VERY smart...or REALLY mature.
In regards your question about what i see as my oldest ideal age...how old is Sean Connery anyway?

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:26:55 PM

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old man..if rich...and dying...yes i'd date and marry. since im a lesbian..no other reason for me to date a man.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:35:06 PM

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While I'm sure he's the ideal dom for you, I'll stick with one around my age.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:46:14 PM

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While I'm sure he's the ideal dom for you, I'll stick with one around my age.

im around your age....um...well...i look your age...im still carded

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:53:28 PM

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That's close enough.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 3:55:38 PM

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I don't go for Doms. *shrug* Don't have any currently more than 10 years my senior. I guess the largest 'age gap' I ever tried was when I was still in my early 20's and I 'hooked up' with two men (AT DIFFERNT TIMES) that were at least 55 at the time. One was a shit and turned me against bondage for a very long time... The other rocked my world by introducing me to the joys of anal stimulation.

As with any other sterio type... there are good ones and not so good ones.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:00:14 PM

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i'm attracted to older as well, the biggest difference i've had is 13 years. i like men my age as well but generally not younger. nothing wrong with younger, but i've found that they are in different places in life than i am and i don't what to deal with some of those places most of the time.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:00:42 PM

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i definitely prefer an older Dom. How old? well, i am 39, and old enough to be my dad is OK, but as old as my actual dad (71), i think would be where i would draw the line.

with much younger men, sexual activity seems to begin and end with 'insert penis, thrust, cum, repeat'

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:06:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mcougar247

I have been unbelievably lucky to find the most amazing dominant man. He is by far the best lover I have ever known, incredibly powerful and skilled. But, the more amazing thing is that he is 35 years OLDER than me, 76 years old. He is unusually healthy and attractive, of course. But, what a wonder and delight! What is the oldest you've ever imagined playing with? Amusing as it sounds, an older man is an ideal dom, experience, skill, authority, and pleasure beyond his dick. And, viagra works, too. To all of us, there is hope in our old age. If he can do it, you can, too!

Thank you for this comment.

I turn 63 this year and am married to a wonderfull woman 30 years younger. yet my age had been the main obsticle in locatoing slaves here in Australia where the culture is to worship youth and turn anyone over 40 on the junk pile. Strangly I have more p[ossibilities of filling collars in the UK, canada and the USA which is one reason we are still contemplating moving permantly and taking citizenship in whereever we move to....

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:17:11 PM

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I was in a 24 year relationship at the age of 17 with a man 13 years older and we parted when i was 41...at first after this i always sought out men 13-20 years older than me when first dating. I found certain things like music and such we were not compatible with and some older men seemed a bit slow in certain things....i have found men 3-5 years older best for me now and the man i am with now is three years older than me..but this is just good for me now and everyone is different and heck if this doesn't work out i could meet the 65 year old of my dreams manana who i click with!...who knows!

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:29:39 PM

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I loves me some old guy! CLEAN old guy, anyway! Though these days I am looking at those close to my age. Funny, I never had the "daddy" thing, I have a father, and never wanted another---and how wack to have a father-figure sub? Not my kink, anyway.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:29:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Raechard

Great something to look forward to.

Youth is wasted on the young they say.

It was George Bernard Shaw who said it and he kept going.....

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:36:43 PM

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old man..if rich...and dying...yes i'd date and marry. since im a lesbian..no other reason for me to date a man.

I love honest women.
Would you date an old woman then?

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 4:45:33 PM

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My ex-husband is 23 years older than I am. I've only ever dated guys older than me.... 5 years being the closest. I'm just now starting to be able to tolerate guys my own age, and I'm 30.

I think it's perfectly natural for a woman (especially a submissive woman) to seek out someone mature and experienced. Someone established who has shown that he can take care of himself... means he will probably be able to take care of me, too. I'm not talking about looking for a sugar daddy with money... though having a comfortable income shows that he has the drive, determination, work-ethic and self-control necessary to build and establish that lifestyle.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 5:07:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

old man..if rich...and dying...yes i'd date and marry. since im a lesbian..no other reason for me to date a man.

I love honest women.
Would you date an old woman then?

no. i want my woman for life. within 5 yrs of my age.

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RE: Old Guys - 5/5/2008 5:12:54 PM

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This dynamic plays in favor of the younger woman - older man dynamic. I'll be 48 this year. I haven't seen too many 84 year old women lately that trip my trigger.

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