Irishknight -> RE: I get to go vote for Hillary in 2 hours! (5/6/2008 6:20:13 PM)
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Fighting to claim the higher ground because you used bigger words is a battle you can never win. Its simply lying to yourself. I CAN use words that send everyone in the room racing for a dictionary but my point was still not made. If you are afraid to insult them in a language they understand, you might as well keep talking behind their backs. Boijen, I never claimed you couldn't control yourself or speak politely. I merely meant that you should never repress what you truly feel to save someone else's feelings and was applauding your ability to say what you thought. If "Go away. I don't like you," solves the problem then its all good. If it takes a stronger statement then why should you hold that back? Politeness for itself only is a waste of time and a repression of what you truly feel. Just as rudeness for its own sake is crude and a waste of time. HONESTY is what I espouse. BLUNTNESS is what everyone else calls my way of dealing with the world. The greater virtue is that you never need wonder where you stand with me. If you notice, I stated that that was what I learned. It is my way of life. I can't candy coat the truth because it is a waste of my time and energy. In business, I won't pretend to like someone to get a booking for my show. If I dislike someone, I tell them. I am still turning down performances as I settle in my new home so I don't think its hurting me in the long run to be nondiplomatic.
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