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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 9:33:45 AM   
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 9:43:39 AM   
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Walking up to random women on the streeet and mumbling Duh yer awful purdy will result in either a "fuck off" or at best a "thank you, I know".



Oh, I don't know...  Like you said earlier, "its [sic] a  numbers game."  The line doesn't matter much, you just keep trying and eventually you get lucky.  The awkward shy approach is as likely to work as the sympathy approach.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 9:46:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		depends on the location....if im at a really public place, like a bus stop or the mall (outside the shoppes) then a polite wave will suffice, it doent intrude, and lets the person know im interested...
in a store I usually dont notice anything except for what im after, though if I end up talking flirting will happen since im just that sort of guy

if I had a line it would be
Hey, whats up?

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:05:35 AM   
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... Case in point, I once had a drink thrown on me... I laughed it off, come up with an appropriately witty response, and took the waitress home who was better  looking than the woman I approached in the first place.


That is pitiful.

Regarding the OP... to be honest, good-looking people are a dime a dozen.  I'm not impressed with nor do I have any desire to talk to or lay someone just because of their looks.   Of course, I'm a woman and paraphrasing something someone else once said, I could whisper "fuck me" in a deserted parking lot in the middle of the night and have a dozen men in my presence within seconds.

lol... Men can be pretty pathetic, you know?

Edited to add:  Not all men, of course. 

I've always been impressed with men who refuse to allow their hormones to rule them.


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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:14:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		i have a tendency to wander up to anyone, and everyone who strikes a cord in me, and say the positive of what is on my mind; man or woman. Ex: "Those shoes ROCK!"; "That tie looks smashing!"; "Could i sit on Your Harley, please?!"
As for the moving in for a kill, ummmmm, killing is the last thing on my mind, although handcuffs and happy slaps do wander to the top of my mind from time to time!
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:18:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		A substantial part of the fun of dating is "the thrill of the chase". I mean how much fun would deer hunting be if they came into camp and committed Hari Kari? Whats the point of fishing if they jump in the boat?

Frankly sometimes the laugh you get from being shot down can be better than the sex if you do hook up. I recently got shot down in a bar and the woman, a foreign tourist, called me a "rusty crusty chili mouthed American pig squid ape"... As she was storming away I yelled "So I guess a blowjob is out of the question then? Got a sister? One who doesnt have a bug up her ass?" My buddies laughed their asses off, we all had a great time and four local cuties, the oldest 23 came over sat down and did shots of Tequila and Jerimiah Weed all night! We had a great time!!!!!

Its not whether you win or lose its how you play the game... and its supposed to be fun!!!!!!!!

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:19:06 AM   
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Or she figures out the game, and nails you as an amoral opportunist-game over.


Absolutely! Nobody has a 100% close rate. To quoute Kenny Rogers You gotta know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to walk away and know when to run". But if you dont suceed - try again.


I call it the Willie Stargell strategy of approaching women.  I'm originally from Pittsburgh and a baseball fan.  Stargell, when he retired in 1982, had 475 home runs, but also the Major League record for strikeouts in a career, 1936.  So, Willie struck out four times for every home run he hit!  The moral of the story is don't get discouraged.  For every four women who call you a creepy, "amoral-opportunist," you are likely to hit one home run!  *wink*

And for those interested, Willie no longer holds the career mark for strikeouts.  Reggie Jackson does.  Reggie had 563 home runs and 2597 strikeouts -- an even worse home run to strikeout ratio than "Chicken on the Hill, Will."  I think Reggie had a pretty good career too.  *grin*

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:23:25 AM   
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:36:13 AM   
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 10:36:41 AM   
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Its not whether you win or lose its how you play the game... and its supposed to be fun!!!!!!!!


As long as all you're looking for is fun and laughs, then it's all good. 

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 11:02:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		The only people who scare me are scary, creepy people.

I honestly don't pay a whole lot of attention to what people look like when I'm out n about.  Maybe it's my shyness or maybe it's a bit of that submissive nature  but I don't make eye contact with most people unless they speak to me.

I'm not looking for anyone, so I don't see guys as potential hookups, etc... and even if I were looking, I'm not the type to put myself out there to get noticed.  I tend to be the shy, quiet one in the corner who doesn't seek out attention.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:28:22 PM   
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BOOO!!!


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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:32:03 PM   
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What goes through my mind? Thats easy - strategies on how to make the move. You dont do "the staring thing" cause thats creepy. Ideally you just wait and opportunity will arise. My ex-wife I found when she stumbled and dropped her luggage and purse in Buffalo/Niagra airport... Just move in an help her gather her things and offer a kindly - Where are you parked? Ill give you a hand.... OR you could see an adoreable little store clerk trying to hoist a case of soda up to the top shelf when you mosey your strong 6'4" self over there to lend a hand... It is especially easy to pick up the young beauties when their boyfriends act like assholes, sit in an open air cafe long enough and some young buck with a beauty will frig things up by arguing with her about money, making her carry 300 pounds of stuff to the beach while he carries a beer bottle, checking out a pair of tits in a bikini too obviously etc and then send over a drink or walk by with some kind words.... Before you know it shell be leaving with you... Keep in mind its a  numbers game - you might get shot down 99 times but that 100th will wake up beside you...Keep a posotive attitude and outlook and consider this - Im 40 years old right now and today, somewhere in the world a gorgeous blonde was born who will be sucking my dick in 18, 19, or 20 years.... LOL


What is it with men and blondes?

BTW thanks for the heads up, next man who comes up to me in a public place after an altercation with another man is getting socked in his eye.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:36:35 PM   
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What is it with men and blondes?

BTW thanks for the heads up, next man who comes up to me in a public place after an altercation with another man is getting socked in his eye.


Oh come on LMH you know you love me.... I could be your future ex-husband LOL

BTW - Root canal T- Minus 1 Hour, 26 Minutes and counting. Kevers needs sympathy....

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:40:58 PM   
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What is it with men and blondes?

BTW thanks for the heads up, next man who comes up to me in a public place after an altercation with another man is getting socked in his eye.


Oh come on LMH you know you love me.... I could be your future ex-husband LOL

BTW - Root canal T- Minus 1 Hour, 26 Minutes and counting. Kevers needs sympathy....


You mean I could be the next ole ball and chain?  How did I get so lucky to be picked out of the thousands and thousands? *giggles*

ps...I never feel sorry for Doms having dental work done in fact thats when that well buried sadist in my personality comes out. *evil giggle*

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:44:34 PM   
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You mean I could be the next ole ball and chain?  How did I get so lucky to be picked out of the thousands and thousands? *giggles*

ps...I never feel sorry for Doms having dental work done in fact thats when that well buried sadist in my personality comes out. *evil giggle*


Many are called, few are chosen Haven. :) You are in the top 1% the best of the best, the elite... :)

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:46:34 PM   
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You mean I could be the next ole ball and chain?  How did I get so lucky to be picked out of the thousands and thousands? *giggles*

ps...I never feel sorry for Doms having dental work done in fact thats when that well buried sadist in my personality comes out. *evil giggle*


Many are called, few are chosen Haven. :) You are in the top 1% the best of the best, the elite... :)


Yippy Skippy!!!!  A marriage between us would look something like this  ending in a divorce much like this .

So who do you think is the better shot?

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 12:53:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL well Im the better shot BUT no Haven no you would be completely twitterpaited....  Youre a woman of intelligence, beauty, class, and taste - how could you not fall head over heels in love with me?

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 1:31:15 PM   
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On-topic, though, I rarely go out and when I do it tends to be with a well-established circle of geeky friends. Ergo, I don't get many chances to browse. However, when there is a new face to admire, I do so quietly, and talk if the opportunity arises. I'm kind of passive like that.


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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/8/2008 1:43:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do good looking people scare me. Oh hell no!

First of all, very rarely do I see someone that I think..."Wow, they are gorgeous!"

I mean really, seeing someone that is just, stunningly beautiful, is not a common occurence. Otherwise, I work in a college town and see reasonably attractive people all the time. Very rarely do I think, "wow they are hot, I want to bang them!"

On the whole, I am pretty friendly with everyone. Depending on my mood I can work a room like Ms HostesswiththeMostess. For me, approaching people of all types is easy. I've met internationally, famous, wealthy, powerful, you name it, and it just doesn't phase me. The reality is that, on the whole, I don't really dig humans in mass quantities. There will have to be something special about a person, far more special than looks, that snags my attention and makes me want to do more than exchange casual pleasantries.




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