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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 3:24:05 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Nope - as far as the States go, I'm quite limited, travel wise. Most exotic I did was San Francisco (a week of pure debauchery).

Why, is it an invite  ?

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 3:28:03 PM   
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Just wondering...is that all older women or simply the ones you have encountered? 


Well I cant say all because I obvioulsy havent met every older woman on earth but I would say its more than most here in the US. Both you and kitten have said that doesnt apply to you but my understanding is neither of you are American.

With the vast majority of over 30 american women I have known a trip needs to be planned well in advance, an itinerary known, things packed two days before etc...  See if Im not scheduled, (Keep in mind I work 54 hours a month plus some training flights / sim rides in my own biz that are scheduled in incriments of 1 to 3 hours at a time,) I dont have to be anywhere. So say its a nice day and we were going to a particular cajun restaurant, well I might suggest lets go to the beach. "Well we dont have beach stuff" My attitude is thats ok I'll buy some. "I dont have a swimsuit" thats ok well swing by the mall. Oooh theres a parrothead thing happening at a bar on the Strand - fuck it lets get a hotel so we can get wasted away in Margarittaville! The younger crowd goes for that, the older crowd is concerned with missing mass the next day, lesson plans for monday, the antique show they are going to with their cousin, the meeting of the scrapbooking club etc...   I def think the aussies are more laid back and in tune to going with the flow and winging it than American women.  (Now I will be chewed apart by American women LOL See I cant win.)

Ok, I'm American and 49, and this so does not apply to me.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 3:35:24 PM   
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I have no problem with people making informed choices but not people being manipulated with the promise of something better; which in the end you never seem to give. Once upon a time your wife was the one you understood deserved the best in life, what happened to that idea? No you gave up on her as soon as she became defective with OCD, most people would try to help someone they love in that respect.
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You are no threat to anyone but yourself, you are wasting time when you should be thinking what is wrong with this situation and who will be the last person to kiss me goodnight before I die; it probably won't be a twenty-something. If you want to live alone all your life that is your choice but it's obvious to anyone with half a brain you are running away from emotional commitment.


#1 - I didn't "give up on Laura as soon as she became defective." She was defective when I met her, from what her first husband has told me she was defective when she was married to him, and from looking at her mother she was raised defective because I can clearly see who made her nuts. I filed for divorce when I realized that I couldnt fix her, and that the relationship was destructive and not a positive force in my life. Ok, if YOU want to (and this is NOT A JOKE) live in a house where a paper that misses the front porch is a major emergency worthy of calling the operations center to have them patch her through to her husband in flight over SELCAL, where the red panties being in the wash on a given day means she call in sick from work and stays in bed all day bitching, and where you have to use laser surveying instruments to prove that the fucking picture on the wall isnt crooked Ill set you up! Shes now 29, 5'10" tall, gorgeous and can suck dick like Jenna Jameson. Shes also nutty as a pecan pie, and there are places for people that crazy to live and it aint my house! I am not a psychiatrist and "helping her" is beyond my ability!

#2 Thank you for your concern. There are worse things than dying a bachelor. (Like dying miserable and married to the wrong person!) Sure it would be nice to find someone special, but I dont lay awake at night wondering who will be the last person to kiss me goodnight. At 7:30 this eveing (2 hours from now) I will be leaving for a date with someone who may or may not be the last person to kiss me goodnight... If I die tonight that person will be 22 but, much to the dismay of some here, Im not planning to die any time soon.  Nonetheless, shall I run off and find a justice of the peace and get hitched so as to lay your concerns that I die old and alone to rest?   Seriously dude - chill out Im a big boy and I've got my life under control... Your concern is appreciated, but I already have a mother so the job is filled.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 4:00:26 PM   
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Nope - as far as the States go, I'm quite limited, travel wise. Most exotic I did was San Francisco (a week of pure debauchery).

Why, is it an invite  ?


Sure!

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 7:32:53 PM   
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Just wondering...is that all older women or simply the ones you have encountered? 


The younger crowd goes for that, the older crowd is concerned with missing mass the next day, lesson plans for monday, the antique show they are going to with their cousin, the meeting of the scrapbooking club etc...   I def think the aussies are more laid back and in tune to going with the flow and winging it than American women.  (Now I will be chewed apart by American women LOL See I cant win.)


We did too.. at THAT age.  Been there, done that..realized there is a morning after to contend with.. it's called maturity. (shrug)

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 7:37:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if it's maturity, or just that us old folks have a different set of responsibilities.  I wish I could just pack up and DO something on a moment's notice, I certainly could have 20 years ago, but now....not so much.   Real Life does tend to get in the way of the flow sometimes.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 8:31:05 PM   
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So, this is a diatribe against the AGED submissives? And a man who is a Dominant to these aged submissives is not a cowboy, not a "crocodile hunter"; if indeed he is being served she is, naturally then, "damaged" and without self esteem?

[Just wanting to be sure the addled and dying tissues of my brain are understanding you correctly.]  
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/16/2008 8:38:25 PM   
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I find it amusing that men who are transparent about who they are, what their goals are, and what tactics they use are called a number of derogatory names and have their relationships called into question, while women who do the same thing have a nice neat little word to describe the same traits: feminist.


I think the thing that comes across more than anything else mentioned here is people have no respect for the loyalties of others. You can't consider yourself a loyal person if you don't respect the loyalties of others. Like the man that sees the ring on the finger as a challenge, for me that man is just sad and he will never understand what is obviously missing from his life. There is a slight difference between casual sex for pleasure and opportunists that take advantage of someone in a poor emotional state.

I don't think any of the above is an admirable quality in either men or women, so I don't really understand why you think I have some romantic view of women; I know they can be just as bad if not worse, I'm under no illusions in this respect.

I've turned women down because I felt that they were in a not-good head space and they weren't really seeking sex, they were looking for someone to listen. It was the right thing to do, and I don't regret it.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 12:42:56 AM   
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I don't know if it's maturity, or just that us old folks have a different set of responsibilities.  I wish I could just pack up and DO something on a moment's notice, I certainly could have 20 years ago, but now....not so much.   Real Life does tend to get in the way of the flow sometimes.


and I wish...(I am not that old btw) that I had that life experience some earlier.
But all is connected..if you don't do things instantly when young...you don't have experience when older.
Weird system...hurt yourself..to not get hurt later...hahaha

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 5:11:34 AM   
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Ýou are way too low on the attractiveness scale? Whose scale? Yours or everyone else's in the world. I think about my friends and we are all attracted to very different people...physically and personality wise. Is the problem that you aren't attractive or that you don't believe you are attractive?


I don't believe myself to be attractive based on the proportion of women who are actually attracted to me.

Ironically, almost every female friend of mine had told me privately at one point that a previous girlfriend wasn't attractive enough for me. Given that she was the only woman who'd expressed any sexual desire for me in ten years, I think that because they liked me personally, their sense of my physical attractiveness bore little connection to reality.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 5:48:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dan, you look good. I think many ladies would find you appealing.

As to old and stale- thats how it is when the responsability of life, the agony of it all;  that how it it 40+.

Oh- on pieces of work- that sucks at ANY age. I learned to RUN from it. Something I did not do at 20.  At 30 needed more practice.

I recall jumping in car and going. I did it. It was fun back then.  But it isnt now. Not when the grass must be cut, and house kept up, etc etc.

As they say misery loves company.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 5:49:50 AM   
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Ýou are way too low on the attractiveness scale? Whose scale? Yours or everyone else's in the world. I think about my friends and we are all attracted to very different people...physically and personality wise. Is the problem that you aren't attractive or that you don't believe you are attractive?


I don't believe myself to be attractive based on the proportion of women who are actually attracted to me.

Ironically, almost every female friend of mine had told me privately at one point that a previous girlfriend wasn't attractive enough for me. Given that she was the only woman who'd expressed any sexual desire for me in ten years, I think that because they liked me personally, their sense of my physical attractiveness bore little connection to reality.


You cant go by that.... That would be like me saying "Im a lousy hunter" based on the number of deer, hogs, elk, bears etc that have walked into my camp waving a white flag and saying "I am here to turn myself in". Its never happened, and probably never will, but my den is full of the heads and skins of those critters who didnt.

I am quite average looking... To be honest, over the years I have had women fling themselves at what I was wearing. (back in the Navy we used to say Dress Whites + Gold Wings = Damp Panties) Certain women are uniform / flight suit groupies  and if I am wearing a uniform or flightsuit then I get approached so much that its annoying. Honestly, SOME (note I didnt say all) women make fools of themselves to approach a guy in uniform. I've been in an airport STANDING under a sign that says "23A" in 2 foot high letters and some chick already seated in the passenger lounge area will get up to ask me with utter helplessness "Excuse me, Im like sooooooo lost could you help me find Gate 23A". I was doing a fixed wing air ambulance transfer in a LearJet 35 and the passenger accompanying the patient seemed more concerned with leaning her head into the cockpit to ask if I was married and to make small talk than whether or not her mother was going to live till she got to Atlanta. In non pilot garb, walking down the street in jeans and an Eddie Bauer T shirt these same women wouldnt even notice me on looks alone...

Hence I have to MAKE them notice me. Ie - I have to approach them. Women dig confidence, a smile, and eye contact. Those are the three big ones. Its all about body language. If you hang your head and stare at your feet and essentially slink around as like the elephant man ("I am not an animal I am a human being!") because you think you aren't attractive then you arent. Remember that the elephant man got laid, Gene Simmons lives with Shannon Tweed and has banged thousands of women. Ok ever looked at Gene Simmons? Sex with him is a form of beastiality! You are as attractive as you believe yourself to be, and confidence and attitude have a lot more bearing on making the panties hit the floor than how pretty you believe yourself to be. Consider it an expansion of "I think therefore I am" as in "I think I am ugly therefore I am ugly" and change it to what POSITIVE perception you want the women to have of you... You mention female friends, so clearly you can connect to women - now you just need to expand the connection to bridge the Friend to Lover gap. Dont wait 10 years to find one that expresses sexual desire for you, go out even if it means using one of your platonic female friends as a "wing chick" to hook you up and get 10 in a week... Remember, women like it / want it / need it as much as we do...

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 6:10:30 AM   
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Oh- on pieces of work- that sucks at ANY age. I learned to RUN from it. Something I did not do at 20.  At 30 needed more practice.

I recall jumping in car and going. I did it. It was fun back then.  But it isnt now. Not when the grass must be cut, and house kept up, etc etc.

As they say misery loves company.



Yeah as I said in a previous thread "You cant Polish a Turd"... The project relationships are doomed for disaster and if I wanted to devote my life to fixing fucked up nutty chicks I would have become a psychiatrist or psychologist. Thats not to say I have no issues or idosyncrasies, or taht any woman with the least bit of flaw should be cast aside - but no shit it reached the point where in a rage I hopped in the truck, went out and bought a laser transit for $500 +, set up in the living room and started shooting lines...LOOK LAURA THE PICTURES ARE LEVEL SO SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT IT AND LEAVE THEM ALONE!!! I mean it sounds petty but imagine spending hours and hours and hours of adjusting a picture. A little to the left, now right left, right, more right... OK. Then twenty minutes later - "Kev, did you slam the door? No hunny why? Cause the picture is crooked again... Eventually, in my case after about the 10,000th time you reach the point where you find yourself thinking "Would any jury actually convict me?" and then you know its time for divorce.

As for the grass and housekeeping - I understand totally. Hence the reason I bought one of those Husquarvana Automower robots that come out at night and follow the invisible dog fence and the Roomba, Scooba, and Dirt Dog robots from www.irobot.com. (Those things ROCK!) That does the bulk of my cleaning and yard care and then I have mexicans to come in and edge, weedwack, pick up after my dog, wash the windows and walls, polish the fixtures, do laundry, do my grocery shopping etc.... The  Mexican immigrants are God's gift to Texas. I hire them for everything - someday I might hire a designated ass wiper. LOL

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 6:19:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Welllllllllllllllllllll!  I for one cant tell if your sentences in the post even geometric, or horizontallly level, scewed, or otherwise unbalanced ??                      hehehe  :-D


The uniform thing is true.  To a lesser extent on woman too. [nurses and french maids]

I am the cleaning staff and the garden staff of my house. It must be nice to afford to hire out. Tho I am lucky- as many would want...to be out of a noisey apartment dump.  

For anyone wanting a uniform- thrift stores-ebay- you can find em.  scrubs are for both sexes,  gosh- I had bought a park ranger uniform,   but never used it.  LOL bad me.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 7:01:06 AM   
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Welllllllllllllllllllll!  I for one cant tell if your sentences in the post even geometric, or horizontallly level, scewed, or otherwise unbalanced ??                      hehehe  :-D


The uniform thing is true.  To a lesser extent on woman too. [nurses and french maids]

I am the cleaning staff and the garden staff of my house. It must be nice to afford to hire out. Tho I am lucky- as many would want...to be out of a noisey apartment dump.  

For anyone wanting a uniform- thrift stores-ebay- you can find em.  scrubs are for both sexes,  gosh- I had bought a park ranger uniform,   but never used it.  LOL bad me.



Actually, due to the Mexican dayworker situation / undocumented worker situation here in Texas its amazingly affordable to get thing done. My cleaning lady is $25 my dog shit guy is $5 a week.

You know thats what pisses me off about people who say "the economy sucks, theres no opportunity, you cant get ahead" Here is a guy who came from Mexico with nothing ok and for $5 a week he is willing to pick up all the dog shit in my yard? Fuck yes of course Ill hire him. For me its WELL worth a five dollar bill not to have to deal with 7 days worth of labrador landmines! Now I did the math It takes him 5 minutes to do my yard, and he has like 5 other clients on my street. So he comes to my street for a half hour, walks off with $30 + (Im not sure exactly its $5 for the first dog and like $2 for addl dogs so some people pay more than $5.) Then he goes to the next block to service his clients there. Figure with travel time etc he picks up shit for 3/4 of each hour... He does this five days a week youre looking at roughly  $90,000 gross. Some business cards, beat up old car , latex gloves trash bags etc - even at a 50% margin the guy is pulling in $45K a year because hes willing to do something nobody wants to do... So maybe they should have the welfare office pass out latex gloves and trashbags to those who "cant find work" in todays economy. LOL

As for the uniform thing - I offer a serious caution. If used as a role playing bedroom toy thats fine but DO NOT buy certain uniforms to wear in public as a chick pick up aid. For example it is a FEDERAL OFFENSE to wear a United States Military uniform. even in the movies, the insignia is slightly wrong to cover the actors. If you are walking through an airport in a pilot's uniform you damn well better have an airman's certificate in your pocket and a security badge from the airport system or you will have an unpleasant conversation with the TSA. You mentioned the "Park Ranger" uniform... In Texas park rangers are police officers. (Not "Texas Rangers" which are like an elite branch of the DPS but police officers from the Texas Parks Commission.) Hence, if you wear that park ranger uniform in public you better have ID and a police officers commission or you will get prison time for impersonating a police officer. (In Texas you dont even have to wear it, just posess it!)  

Even some things that guys may use to pick up chicks - like the common NAVY SEALS baseball cap or T-Shirt... If you walk into the wrong bar wearing one of those, you damn well better have your challenge coin, BUDS class number, and swim buddys name or they will beat you half to death. My dad wasnt a SEAL - he was a fleet diver, SeaBee UCT diver and eventually EOD diving Master Chief... I remember being about 10 years old in a bar with him (30 years ago they let kids in bars with their dads). There was some guy posing as a Navy diver to get a little ass and the real ones in the bar held him down on the pool table and started breaking bones.   

Use uniforms as a play aid in private but dont go out in public with anything that might get you fucked over badly. For the women as an example, a hooters girl uniform you bought on Ebay or a set of medical scrubs wont cause you grief - but a dressing up as a flight attendant, a cop, or Col McKenzie from JAG will get you grief galore.  

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 7:09:47 AM   
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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 7:51:24 AM   
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The most striking people are those beautiful ones who are so self-assured and happy within themselves they literally look as though they own the world...


Milk-fed little beauty queen
She's straight out of a magazine
She sits beside me breathing different air than me...

Yeah, those are the ones that i wanna strike, too

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 8:03:50 AM   
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The most striking people are those beautiful ones who are so self-assured and happy within themselves they literally look as though they own the world... They do exist, although nearly as rare as a unicorn. But the ones I've known literally sizzle: their auras are palpable.


Hey I do own the world and I do not appreciate the comparison with a unicorn {hides the horn}.

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 9:55:04 AM   
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Milk-fed little beauty queen
She's straight out of a magazine
She sits beside me breathing different air than me...

Yeah, those are the ones that i wanna strike, too



No, I wasn't referring to this kind of person at all... but I hope you can take it out on whoever's willing to let you  .

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RE: Good lookin men/woman scare u ?? - 5/17/2008 10:03:21 AM   
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