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ShatteredSoul123 -> RE: instant submission? (5/26/2008 12:54:44 PM)
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I can't say I would refuse a girl on the grounds she was interested in instant submission, but its not something I look for either. Typically I won't even involve D/s aspects of a relationship until I am well into things and know fully how I feel abbout my partner. However I did have one submissive who submitted to me after only a few days of us being involved. I still didn't engage hardcore into things, but it wasn't something I shy'd away from either.
On top of this, there are a lot of submissive/slave types who really don't want the nicities. Call them bobbleheads or doormatts or what have you but they exist and they want nothing more or less then to be treated less then human from day one. Its not something I want personally, but then I am not something they want either. Different strokes for different folks.
For your particular situation, my advice is this: You told him from day one you had a hard limit about submission and how fast or slow it would take place and whether it could happen online or in person. He blatently ignored those limits and acted as if they were never spoken. Steer clear of this. What happens if you continue and meet him in person and he ignores a different limit. Very bada things could happen. Is it worth that risk when so many others clearly agree with your ideas of this lifestyle?
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