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a friend is a friend, is a friend....gender or role matters not.
i am not another woman, and i generally do take my friends at their word.if that is wrong so be it, i live by my own code.

telling someone to contact cm powers that be to see whom did the anonymous posting is not doing someone's dirty work.........it is helping them to get to the bottom of an issue that bothers them.

most threads on here have somthing to do w/ someon'e issues about something.

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ORIGINAL: TheONEyouneed

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a friend is a friend, is a friend....gender or role matters not.
i am not another woman, and i generally do take my friends at their word.if that is wrong so be it, i live by my own code.

telling someone to contact cm powers that be to see whom did the anonymous posting is not doing someone's dirty work.........it is helping them to get to the bottom of an issue that bothers them.

most threads on here have somthing to do w/ someon'e issues about something.

My post was not directed at you specifically, but at the many women who have chimed in here, all claiming to know the man in question, and several of them volunteering that he has spoken to them "privately" about his submissive. If the OP can be traced, more power to him. My objection is that all the women who claim to be a "friend" of this man automatically assume that everything he tells them is gospel truth. I am asking a fair question. Have you asked the submissive, who you have chosen to peg as a "Liar" her side of the story, or does "both sides of coin" only come into play when it is your friend you wish to defend. If you HAVE asked her for her version of events, then forgive my post. But I'd bet a buck or two, that none of you have, preferring instead to think that the man has somehow been victimized by his submissive. She does not appear in this thread to wish to harm him, but instead to help him and he does appear to have more than his share of problems.