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candisa -> RE: She is a bitch (5/16/2008 8:55:34 AM)
Greetings, favesclave. I mirror your thoughts, well said. Being in an unhealthy relationship can trun anyone into a bitch or asshole. Sometimes I have found out that people enjoy pushing buttons, just to see the bitch come out. Instead of looking within self, to see why one needs to push buttons, it's much easier to focus on look she's a bitch poor, poor me, look what I have to deal with. quote: ORIGINAL: favesclava you say bitch like its a bad thing. the canine kind is loyal protective of those she loves and her home. will defend them to the death. a woman who's strong holds her own opinions and doesnt let anyone step on her is called a bitch. if your ex threw all your stuff out the window after shredding them because you were an asshole , she's called a bitch. no one can insult me by calling me a bitch . even before Master i saw the power in the word. a strong woman is a bitch? then count me in.

KatsKandee -> RE: She is a bitch (5/16/2008 3:59:45 PM)
I think I'd be less worried about the classification and more about the focus. I never even think about my ex and what he is or isn't, I'm too busy doing me.

ownedgirlie -> RE: She is a bitch (5/16/2008 4:15:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatsKandee I think I'd be less worried about the classification and more about the focus. I never even think about my ex and what he is or isn't, I'm too busy doing me. What an awesome post!

Evility -> RE: She is a bitch (5/16/2008 5:48:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Do you ever pay attention to how someone might refer to their ex and take a step back? No. I don't get hung up on what terms of endearment someone uses to describe an ex. I wasn't there - they may be totally accurate in their description. I have generally parted ways in a friendly manner with most of the people I have been in relationships with. I don't consider my ex wife to be a bitch. For the first nine years we were together she was a pleasant, caring person who was a generally a joy to be with. For the last year we were together she was the most selfish bitch I have ever known or been involved with. If someone had a problem with my depiction of her I'd just shrug and keep walking. I have very good reasons for feeling the way I do and I'm certain I am not the only person on the planet who is justified in that manner. Note to self: Never again get involved with an only child.

fluffyswitch -> RE: She is a bitch (5/16/2008 10:19:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst But I often see people refer to their ex, or his ex, or her ex, as a bitch. Why? Very few people I have met are jackasses. Most people have pleasant and unpleasant sides. Everyone I know has a reason to not be so nice to someone (unless you internalize it). My thought is that if someone refers to their ex as a bitch.. how do you know that if you are with them, someday you might be "that bitch"? Kyst i do actually pay attention to the way that my current partners talk about their exes, and sometimes i listen for it when i'm contemplating dating/getting involved with someone. i know (or at least it has been my experience) that if the ex is a bitch then yes i will be a bitch or crazy or horrible or whatever. at the same time however i keep in mind that saying that goes, if everything was great between them they would still be dating. you can't really know what goes on within a relationship unless you were actually part of that relationship so maybe that woman really was a bitch to him or her, that just doesn't mean that they would be a bitch to me.

StormsSlave -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 12:32:56 AM)
Sometimes, they are bitches. Shrug. No offense intended, but I've been around for some of this. I know some people. Sometimes, they are bitches. I'm sure my exes think I'm a bitch. They are probably right. I call myself a bitch, mostly because it's true. I am honest, outspoken, and willing to stick up for me and mine. That makes me a bitch in most people's eyes. I'm ok with that.

NorthernGent -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 12:35:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Do you ever pay attention to how someone might refer to their ex and take a step back? Or do you accept that everything said is the truth and of course THAT woman must be a bitch? I tend to think....why didn't you/don't you get the bitch under control. 'Two sides to every story.

chickpea -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 1:25:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fluffyswitch quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst But I often see people refer to their ex, or his ex, or her ex, as a bitch. Why? Very few people I have met are jackasses. Most people have pleasant and unpleasant sides. Everyone I know has a reason to not be so nice to someone (unless you internalize it). My thought is that if someone refers to their ex as a bitch.. how do you know that if you are with them, someday you might be "that bitch"? Kyst i do actually pay attention to the way that my current partners talk about their exes, and sometimes i listen for it when i'm contemplating dating/getting involved with someone. i know (or at least it has been my experience) that if the ex is a bitch then yes i will be a bitch or crazy or horrible or whatever. at the same time however i keep in mind that saying that goes, if everything was great between them they would still be dating. you can't really know what goes on within a relationship unless you were actually part of that relationship so maybe that woman really was a bitch to him or her, that just doesn't mean that they would be a bitch to me. Maybe it takes two to make a bitch? One to piss her off, the other to do the bitching. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m10.gif[/image]

brightspot -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 2:20:36 PM)
*Hi Missokyst,* *I am glad to say I am not one of these types.* *I love women and for me ,too, I have only met maybe a handful* *of women I would call a bitch.* *As for my exes, I loved everyone of them at a time and most* *of them I still do love, some are still a part of my life, so bitch* *dosen't fit there either.* *I think it is more out of habit for most people who say it a lot,* *or lack of any creativity with the language.* *Yes, I do pay attention to how people back stab their exes with* *words. What it says to me when I am listening to it, is, Hummmmm....* *you must really have a lousy judge of character[sm=wtf.gif] if this is the kind of* *person you feel in love with. Sometimes I say it out loud and a lot of* *times that will nip it in the bud.* *Missy.* *[sm=slappy.gif] <<<<No reason for this being here, Just think it's hilarious.* *[sm=oddballs.gif]<<<<This one too[:D]*

celticlord2112 -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 5:56:12 PM)
quote: I have seen this on a number of threads. "She is a bitch" "My ex is a bitch." "His ex wife is a bitch" The key syllable here is "ex". As in past tense....as in it didn't work out. For me, yes, my ex wife IS a bitch. Other people may think she's a wonderful person, and bully for them, but to me, yes, she's a bitch. That's why she's my "EX".

kallisto -> RE: She is a bitch (5/17/2008 6:20:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave I am honest, outspoken, and willing to stick up for me and mine. That makes me a bitch in most people's eyes. I'm ok with that. Me too. Quite proud of that fact. [:)]

manwholuvs -> RE: She is a bitch (5/18/2008 12:25:16 PM)
I do enjoy pushing certain buttons at times but not to turn someone into a bitch at all but rather to unleash the passion within her and to let that run free and consume her

krikket -> RE: She is a bitch (5/18/2008 2:31:05 PM)
Oh..that kinda bitch!! i thought you were talking about my boss..lol. cheers, jiminie

adoracat -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 5:19:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 quote: I have seen this on a number of threads. "She is a bitch" "My ex is a bitch." "His ex wife is a bitch" The key syllable here is "ex". As in past tense....as in it didn't work out. For me, yes, my ex wife IS a bitch. Other people may think she's a wonderful person, and bully for them, but to me, yes, she's a bitch. That's why she's my "EX". i'm a week into the process of divorce. i still love and care about him. but we dont work together as spouses, and havent been for a very long time if i am honest with myself. he still isnt evil about me,,,,although asking him about his last g/f is an entirely different story. kitten

ethicalbody -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 9:53:46 AM)
i take 'several' steps back from someone who refers to ex's and others in their past as 'bitch' or 'bastard'. Without fail i've found that it is these people who are the problem in the first instance. If they can't admit anything was their fault in the first instance, what chance is there of them taking responsibility for their actions in the future?

charlotteS -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 10:49:29 AM)
[sm=threadhijack.gif][sm=threadhijack.gif][sm=threadhijack.gif][sm=threadhijack.gif] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=za7DyssY3hI I just couldn't resist. Please forgive the major threadjack.

softness -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 12:33:08 PM)
ok so hands up to being a bitch ... I do warn people .. but they get side-tracked by the baking, school teacherishness and thumb sucking when sleepy ... they take their eye of the ball ... and then BAM!! honestly ... I am a cold hearted ... mercenary ... evil .... manipulative .... bitch ... ask anyone who has called me "ickle" .. "little one" .. or "subbie" but none of that means I am a bad person .. being a bitch and being a decent human being is possible ... its just like time share!

fluffyswitch -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 1:59:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness ok so hands up to being a bitch ... I do warn people .. but they get side-tracked by the baking, school teacherishness and thumb sucking when sleepy ... they take their eye of the ball ... and then BAM!! honestly ... I am a cold hearted ... mercenary ... evil .... manipulative .... bitch ... ask anyone who has called me "ickle" .. "little one" .. or "subbie" but none of that means I am a bad person .. being a bitch and being a decent human being is possible ... its just like time share! okay slight hijack here from an apparent closet bitch (Sir still won't believe me when i tell Him just how big a bitch i can really be) what is an ickle? am i glad i haven't gotten one of THOSE emails yet?

Missokyst -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 2:38:00 PM)
Ahh.. the distinction on classifying yourself as a bitch because you are honest, outspoken, ect ect loses me somewhat. Would a man call himself what is essentially a derogotory term, if he displayed those traits? Why does being upfront, honest, defending ones turf, or responding to bad treatment, have to be bitchiness? I am open, honest, quick to react, and I see that as a positive trait. One any male would be proud to exhibit.. and probably not see themselves as a bitch if they were that way. Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave I'm sure my exes think I'm a bitch. They are probably right. I call myself a bitch, mostly because it's true. I am honest, outspoken, and willing to stick up for me and mine. That makes me a bitch in most people's eyes. I'm ok with that.

SleepyDom -> RE: She is a bitch (5/19/2008 2:43:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness ok so hands up to being a bitch ... I do warn people .. but they get side-tracked by the baking, school teacherishness and thumb sucking when sleepy ... they take their eye of the ball ... and then BAM!! honestly ... I am a cold hearted ... mercenary ... evil .... manipulative .... bitch ... ask anyone who has called me "ickle" .. "little one" .. or "subbie" Hey you little one, wanna be my ickle, my subbie? Uh oh ... why do I feel like something bad is about to happen? Nah, I'm sure it's nothing ... something smells really good in the oven ... chocolate chip cookies.

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