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CelticPrince -> Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 7:03:21 PM)
Not withstanding other issues such as your age, sex, experience etc; what do you as a submissive seek as a primarely goal? As is true most of the time this inquiery is fostered by reading profiles of many, not all, of respondes to various thread here on CM as well as other sites that I visit at times. Is a life partner foremost in your search at the expense of other issues; or are the aspects of a very nice D/s fit are what riings your chime?

KatyLied -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 7:12:19 PM)
If it's a choice between a nice D/s fit and a life partner, I'd have to pick a nice D/s fit. It is my hope to find these (life partner plus nice D/s fit) embodied in the same person at some time along my journey. I'm not convinced this is possible for me. And I know it's difficult to find. I have had success in finding a nice D/s fit, though, so I do know that part is possible.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 7:15:26 PM)
my short-term goal was for a mutually compatable top for occassional beat and fuck sessions that would also be a friend(so i guess that means friends with benefits)... it was my short term goal because it's more realistic based on the amount of time i have, my location and my needs/desires(i'm human and wanted to deal with the needs first)... my long term goal is for a lifetime d/s relationship/life-partner.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 7:35:32 PM)
I was looking for a fit in both D's and vanilla. So far so good with Sir. Not perfection but compatibility in many aspects.

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 7:42:32 PM)
quote: If it's a choice between a nice D/s fit and a life partner, I'd have to pick a nice D/s fit. It is my hope to find these (life partner plus nice D/s fit) embodied in the same person at some time along my journey. I'm not convinced this is possible for me. And I know it's difficult to find. I have had success in finding a nice D/s fit, though, so I do know that part is possible. katy, Hooray, it is a good thing to know your mind and what is best for you. thanks for your input. CP

DesFIP -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 8:07:19 PM)
I'm too old to settle. I'd rather be alone than not have everything I need. A life partner who shares my moral code, my priorities, who takes the lead in our relationship and who likes tying me up is what I wanted and what I have.

Quivver -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 8:36:29 PM)
Ok, I'm splitting hairs again but what are you calling a life partner? Is it that life long sharing of air 24/7 or is it someone who you would like to be a part of your life long term? Why I ask is because age does have something to do with it, at least for me. I've had a life partner ... ooops and I've raised my UM's, I'm not so ready to share air in such a legal manner again so life partner to me is different then what some may think. With that said, I want it all. grin.............. edited to add being alone is better then being together and alone,, even if you have to learn to flog yourself!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 9:21:19 PM)
I go for total fulfillment. Anything less isn't worthwhile.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/14/2008 9:25:59 PM)
Fox was looking for both when I met him, a life partner with a good D/s fit. I look for the same, and found it in both my boys, though with different interpretations of life partner. DV

KatyLied -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 5:15:13 AM)
quote: I'm not so ready to share air in such a legal manner again so life partner to me is different then what some may think. I feel the same way. I am nearly 50 and can't see any benefit in trying myself legally to another person. Although I am open to committing to a long term relationship.

wandersalone -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 5:21:56 AM)
I would love to find a life partner with an incredible D/s fit. What can I say...I want it all!! [:)]

lanie38 -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 5:24:25 AM)
I've tried settling...I've tried casual reationships just to get a beat and fuck..both just leave me empty and unfulfilled...I find being alone is a lot less lonely than being with someone who leaves you yearning for more. So, I want it all...I waited a long time to find the kind of partner I'm sharing my life with now...and it was sure worth the wait, no question...

Usako -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 5:27:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I go for total fulfillment. Anything less isn't worthwhile. That pretty much sums it up; all or nothing. I'd be highly unhappy with someone who only meets one need and not the other. Not sure if I would use the term "life partner" though since I don't believe anything is meant to last forever.

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:08:53 AM)
quote: my short-term goal was for a mutually compatable top for occassional beat and fuck sessions that would also be a friend(so i guess that means friends with benefits)... it was my short term goal because it's more realistic based on the amount of time i have, my location and my needs/desires(i'm human and wanted to deal with the needs first)... my long term goal is for a lifetime d/s relationship/life-partner. liloneds, Well it seems you have set your prioities and placed them as short term and long term; but what is they were mutually exclusive? CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:10:31 AM)
quote: was looking for a fit in both D's and vanilla. So far so good with Sir. Not perfection but compatibility in many aspects. lips, errrrrrrrrrr how did vanilla get into this thread? CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:12:50 AM)
quote: I'm too old to settle. I'd rather be alone than not have everything I need. A life partner who shares my moral code, my priorities, who takes the lead in our relationship and who likes tying me up is what I wanted and what I have. des, laughs; watch that too old kind of commentary. I will put you down as a a lifer. CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:17:31 AM)
quote: Ok, I'm splitting hairs again but what are you calling a life partner? Is it that life long sharing of air 24/7 or is it someone who you would like to be a part of your life long term? Why I ask is because age does have something to do with it, at least for me. I've had a life partner ... ooops and I've raised my UM's, I'm not so ready to share air in such a legal manner again so life partner to me is different then what some may think. With that said, I want it all. grin.............. Quivver, yep, you split some hairs with the sharing air thing. Somewhere in there is an answer beyound wanting it all; but if you had to choose?????????? CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:19:12 AM)
quote: I go for total fulfillment. Anything less isn't worthwhile. LA, but, but, but where are the referal lists? CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:21:20 AM)
quote: I look for the same, and found it in both my boys, though with different interpretations of life partner. DV, I guess that amount to a Wrigley commercial! CP

CelticPrince -> RE: Dom search / life partner or D/s partner (5/15/2008 6:23:36 AM)
quote: I would love to find a life partner with an incredible D/s fit. What can I say...I want it all!! <http://www.collarchat.com/image/s1.gif> wanders, of course you want it all, but if you had to make a choice right now, today; which would it be? CP

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