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ORIGINAL: Queencie

I never thought facesitting was about the submissive being comfortable…
Well, I don't think I'd change my view now…

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ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

i enjoy pleasing my M'Lady if she wishes me to please her that way i will do so. i let her know my desires and if i am good she may let me have it, or not it is her pleasure that is important.  she may just tease me for awhile before she deems me worthy of such a gift.

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

in the words of monty python "sit on my face and tell me that you love me" (I think it was Monty Python at least)

I think, it's the whole idea that, your giving the domme pleasure at your own discomfort, and theres reassurance in that I guess in her orgasm.  If a domme spanks you and tells you to scrub the floor, I'd find it hard to believe she's getting off on it, but if she was riding my face like a cow girl at the rodeo, then I guess I'd know she was getting off on it, and thus you KNOW, you are SURE that pleasure has been fulfilled. 

I think for the majority of it, it is just a sexual fetish thing, as opposed to a Slave/Mistress thing, and anyone can do it, but, I think people have the right to enjoy the sexual benefits of this field.  I don't see anything wrong in keeping it all in the bedroom and strictly sexual as opposed to some people who see it as a life style, and with that, if you can find someone who enjoys being dominant in the sack and could see the pleasure in recieiving oral sex from the top, then, whats the problem?  If it makes you happy go for it.  If anyones going to lash out on you then fuck them (not literally) because truth is, everyone has a fetish and they would have theirs aswell and it's probably a hell of a lot more indecent than having someone orgasm on your face.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

in the words of monty python "sit on my face and tell me that you love me" (I think it was Monty Python at least)

I think, it's the whole idea that, your giving the domme pleasure at your own discomfort, and theres reassurance in that I guess in her orgasm.  If a domme spanks you and tells you to scrub the floor, I'd find it hard to believe she's getting off on it, but if she was riding my face like a cow girl at the rodeo, then I guess I'd know she was getting off on it, and thus you KNOW, you are SURE that pleasure has been fulfilled. 

I think for the majority of it, it is just a sexual fetish thing, as opposed to a Slave/Mistress thing, and anyone can do it, but, I think people have the right to enjoy the sexual benefits of this field.  I don't see anything wrong in keeping it all in the bedroom and strictly sexual as opposed to some people who see it as a life style, and with that, if you can find someone who enjoys being dominant in the sack and could see the pleasure in recieiving oral sex from the top, then, whats the problem?  If it makes you happy go for it.  If anyones going to lash out on you then fuck them (not literally) because truth is, everyone has a fetish and they would have theirs aswell and it's probably a hell of a lot more indecent than having someone orgasm on your face.

A trap a lot of submissives fall into is that they assume if they cannot eroticize an act, than surely a femdom must not find it exciting and hot.  So in reality there ARE women that get VERY turned on from spanking and watching you scrub the floor.   There are a great many things that I have a man do that really turn me on, and they have nothing to do with the proxmity of my pussy or ass and his face and/or mouth.  A fantastic submissive can understand this and wants to work hard to make sure that as he endures the spanking or scrubs the floor, he does it in a manner that heightens the experience for me, rather than does it and in his head is busy thinking, "I hope she sits on my face when I finish this floor."

I have no problem with queening, facesitting, smothering - so long as they are not purely self indulgent acts for the submissive. There are some subs that are so self absorbed that they actually make pussy worship a chore - because they do it for themselves, not the femdom.  If a man thinks pussy first, pleasure second, chances are he's a one-trick pony.  If he thinks "how can I push all her buttons...the ones related to brain as well as pussy...." then he's a keeper.

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I couldn't tell you, so I'll tell you a (true) story instead.  This happened a few months ago, but since you're new, you probably haven't heard it.

My sub and I were joking around with each other while running some errands.  Out of the blue, he started his next comment to Me with "Dude"

For the fun of it, I asked him what he had called Me, and he said he had called Me "Dude".  So, I proceeded to ask him if he were familiar with the term "queening".  It turned out that he wasn't, so I explained it to him.  Then, I told him that, if he called Me "Dude" again, that would be My exact method for showing him that I, most certainly, wasn't a "Dude".

The boy has never called Me "Dude" again.

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ORIGINAL: HardToTame

hahaha, ey, would you mind lieing underneath this glass table for me   Sorry thats wrong.

Mistress Akasha I agree, just, the reality is some blokes care more about their own load than hers.

It's all in the eye of the beholder (especially if she squirts ) Sorry I couldn't resist.  

If your scrubbing a floor, well, anyone can ACT please, just as anyone can fake an orgasm, but I guess if a Mistress blows on your face, you KNOW you've done something right.  But, I don't think it's all about orgasms.   For me it's a bedroom passtime kinda thing, but, theres alot more to it all I think

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AAkasha titillatingly teased:

slip my panties off from under my skirt, turn them inside out and shove them into his mouth. He then knows how wet I am, and how turned on I am -- no facesitting required.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
BTW. Harry.  I had a feeling somebody would take the opportunity to make that joke.   Thanks for the laugh.