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Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:02:01 PM

Arrrchibald

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I have a rule of not emailing anyone who has a profile that only talks about bdsm. Is it just me or are profiles that mention anything else getting fewer and farther between?

It's amazing seeing so many journal entries venting about emails from guys who only want sex/instant-domination. More often than not they are from profiles with no substance other than "seeking a dom," "I like spankings," "submission is a gift," and "I'm dominant in my real life."

Is it any wonder they get only form letters, cock-shots, and "kneel bitch"? Wouldn't the more interesting guys email someone else?

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:12:44 PM

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well, you've emailed me, and I find you interesting.. I admit I have a few 'stupid email' comments in my journal, but I have more than that..

or did I email you first?

LMAO!!

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:30:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

well, you've emailed me, and I find you interesting.. I admit I have a few 'stupid email' comments in my journal, but I have more than that..

or did I email you first?

LMAO!!

Yeah, you had other stuff in there. You don't count.

(Unless I only sent you a form letter and a photo of my dick :-P )

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:32:58 PM

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*sigh* there goes any chance of hearing from you....

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:39:25 PM

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And is there any reason that I didn't get a dick shot Arch? I'm just asking. Cuz I'm sensitive. What can I say?

I agree. I refuse to reply to anyone who has a BDSM porn profile. Boring. And if that's the best they can offer, it doesn't sound like they have anything I'd be interested in.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/16/2008 11:55:10 PM

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My profile doesn't really have anything in it, bdsm or otherwise. Hmmm, maybe that's why no one writes me.

Well, OK, that's on purpose, since I'm not looking. I have a hard time thinking of CM as a matchmaking site because BDSM is just one aspect of me and there are too many others that I'm looking for that this is a waste of time. Much more efficient, I think, to just date normally and try to transform them into a sub if I like them--yes I think most people can be turned into a sub.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 12:28:38 AM

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My all time fav is the girls with only pictures of their bare tits and bare asses that complain in their journals about getting sex letters because they are here only to make friends.

Nothing but comedy and entertainment links in my profile.

[edit: I think I will update my profile. Thanks for this thread.]

< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 5/17/2008 1:23:46 AM >

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 12:54:37 AM

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I prefer people that show themselfs..and don't force this whole lifestyle stuff on themselfs...instead of just to live their life.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 1:43:57 AM

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My profile is mainly about what I'm looking for. I save the real life nonsense for my journal. And I still get interesting replies. And a few cock-shots.And beaver-shots!.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 2:13:13 AM

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Coming up with, and writting a profile can be a bitch.   I'm really not a hard ass, if a profile that has a lot of BDSM and Kinky stuff that matches up to my kinks, I just might respond.   I'm smart enough to know or already figure out that there's a real human being that wrote it.

Now, I don't have a problem talking about kink/BDSM/sex right from the get go.
However, I also see Normal Day to Day stuff can be talked about.

This is an Kinky Adult Sex Website, keeping that in mind, people have come here to a specific reason.   Some people have specific kinks and such that are a NEED for any relationship they will be in.

I don't expect to read profile written like they belong on match.com or eharmony.

Actually, I just read the profile without getting too caught up in the side of the person they are showing.   Again, I totally understand there's a human being that wrote a profile.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 3:10:57 AM

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I don't know whether My profile fits into that description or not. Then again, My profile here My first few months basically said that I would write a profile later.

I'd rather folks got to know Me through what I say on the boards. I'm not interested in a monologue.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:02:01 AM

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Well I only talk about BDSM in my BSDM profile on the BDSM website I am a member of where I look for a BDSM relationship with someone who has an interest in BDSM so that we can do BDSM things together.

was I talking about BDSM too much?

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:07:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: spinninsweetness

And beaver-shots!.

I never get bever shots.

*kicks a rock and walks away with his head down*

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:19:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

quote:

ORIGINAL: spinninsweetness

And beaver-shots!.

I never get bever shots.

*kicks a rock and walks away with his head down*

I get all the best perverts!

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:21:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SleepyDom

My profile doesn't really have anything in it, bdsm or otherwise. Hmmm, maybe that's why no one writes me.

Well, OK, that's on purpose, since I'm not looking. I have a hard time thinking of CM as a matchmaking site because BDSM is just one aspect of me and there are too many others that I'm looking for that this is a waste of time. Much more efficient, I think, to just date normally and try to transform them into a sub if I like them--yes I think most people can be turned into a sub.

HAH! HAHAHAHA! *cough* Well, I suppose if you are looking at women, and you are looking at women who are more submissive as vanillas to start with, and you aren't a heavy sadist, but...
I married a vanilla and turned him into a sub. It took heroic levels of patience and YEARS and YEARS of work, and I'm damn good with human psychology. That he was masochistic (as it turned out after much socialized denial) was sheer luck. IF I was ever looking again, you can bet your butt I'm looking at people who are already familiar with and into BDSM. I do NOT want to go through that again.
Sorry, couldn't help myself. It's true that your mileage may vary, but don't be quite so sure, 'k?

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:24:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

Well I only talk about BDSM in my BSDM profile on the BDSM website I am a member of where I look for a BDSM relationship with someone who has an interest in BDSM so that we can do BDSM things together.

was I talking about BDSM too much?

I looked at your BDSM profile on this BDSM site to see if you talked about BDSM too much and I noticed that BDSM isn't really mentioned and even worse you've already found your BDSM partner and only looking for BDSM friends sadly, and then I realized you were asking about BDSM on your message on this BDSM board asking whether you talked about BDSM too much, and I must say that you could've said BDSM a little more in your reply about BDSM profiles on this BDSM board, so no I don't think you talked about BDSM too much, but I think I have so I'm getting my BDSM ass outta here.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:38:36 AM

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Oh ffs Phin, I've sent you hundreds of beaver shots. And not ONE reply!!!!

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:41:45 AM

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damn... those must be in my bulk folder!

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:50:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

HAH! HAHAHAHA! *cough* Well, I suppose if you are looking at women, and you are looking at women who are more submissive as vanillas to start with, and you aren't a heavy sadist, but...
I married a vanilla and turned him into a sub. It took heroic levels of patience and YEARS and YEARS of work, and I'm damn good with human psychology. That he was masochistic (as it turned out after much socialized denial) was sheer luck. IF I was ever looking again, you can bet your butt I'm looking at people who are already familiar with and into BDSM. I do NOT want to go through that again.
Sorry, couldn't help myself. It's true that your mileage may vary, but don't be quite so sure, 'k?

Really not a good comparison. Old relationships where vanilla interpersonal dynamics are already established for a while are MUCH harder to transform into D/s dynamics than a brand spanking new relationship where neither partner is quite sure how to interact with the other one yet and is willing to tolerate/adjust for a while if only to see what the relationship is like. Also, women have a lot less social conditioning to overcome in becoming a sub than men. Unless you got a hardcore feminist or a naturally dominant personality on your hands, turning them into subs is mostly a matter of showing how much they'll enjoy it.

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RE: Really? Nothing else to say? - 5/17/2008 4:53:09 AM

Justme696

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

damn... those must be in my bulk folder!

try Discovery CHannel for beaver shots lol
they also have pussies

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