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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:46:15 AM

cjan

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Hey, seeks, nice to see you back. I'm glad you lost the wig, dude. You look a lot better in your new pic, imo.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:46:16 AM

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Silence can speak volumes.

Not too long ago, I was very ill and was having some heart attack-like symptoms...chest pain, profuse sweating, numbness, etc.. I called for an ambulance. On the way to the ER, with EMTs stabilizing my condition, I used my cell phone to call work, cancel pending appointments and notify a few friends. Where there is a will, there is a way.

If it sounds like bullshit, looks like bullshit, smells like bullshit, be careful no to step in it.

A cell phone near heart monitoring equipment?
Not allowed over here!

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:48:06 AM

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Mmmmm ok, not really. I think so. I don't know, listening, not listening. ect, ect.

what?

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:48:47 AM

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It wasn't during the EKG. That only takes a little while.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:49:04 AM

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Missturbation

This is off topic but I just Perved your profile.

The guys an Idiot.

Other than the Metal Stud Stuck out of your lip I find you a VERY attractive and highly desirable girl.

My only solace for you is that the person who you end up with should at least deserve you and sadly I don't think this guy does.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 7:56:00 AM

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Missturbation

This is off topic but I just Perved your profile.

The guys an Idiot.

Other than the Metal Stud Stuck out of your lip I find you a VERY attractive and highly desirable girl.

My only solace for you is that the person who you end up with should at least deserve you and sadly I don't think this guy does.

Steel

Lol @ metal stud in my lip.
I'm going for my tongue pierced on friday

Thank you so much for the compliment. Its weird and i didn't put anything about it here because i didnt want people to think i was looking for the kind of compliment you have just given me.
I have got to the point though where i am beginning to think 'what the f*^% is wrong with me?'

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 8:21:35 AM

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He is lying. People you do not know are signing on to HIS email and telling you he is ill? More likely he is writing you using an excuse because he is a childish weenie who chickened out on the meeting.
Be logical. He could have called. He was able to contact a friend and had the ability to tell them his email account and password (yeah right), and he knew you were expecting him. He could have called, but choose to weenie out.
He is one of those guys who is afraid of confrontation.
Don't we all deserve better than that? Don't you?
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

We don't hve communl friends. They were his friends not mine letting me know what was going on.

My gut is split between he's lieing and hes not.

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You don't really think that the e-mails you received were from "friends" signed into his account do you?

I really don't know.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 8:53:03 AM

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He is lying. People you do not know are signing on to HIS email and telling you he is ill? More likely he is writing you using an excuse because he is a childish weenie who chickened out on the meeting.

His cm mail yes. Quite possibly you are right. I have however given my cm password out to friends once or twice to send some mail for me.

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Be logical. He could have called. He was able to contact a friend and had the ability to tell them his email account and password (yeah right), and he knew you were expecting him. He could have called, but choose to weenie out.
He is one of those guys who is afraid of confrontation.

He could have but the friend i spoke to in cm had his phone. The phone is also for business purposes and his friend works with him. His friend was instructed to not answer personal calls. This friend has also been visiting him in hospital so that is how he has the email etc passwords.
I'm not saying you are wrong but i am saying i have explanations however feasible or not feasible they are.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 8:55:58 AM

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Find out which hospital. If they can't answer that, and you can't verify it....

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 8:58:10 AM

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Why is it that he can keep in contact with his friends and not you? Why can't he call you from the hospital? Why can't you call him there? It does NOT make sense. Coming from someone who has spent a LOT of time in hospitals, I have always been able to contact the people I want to.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:01:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

A follow on from 'Is paranoia my friend?'. I'm beginning to feel a bit like a scriptwriter for eastenders now lol

So where we at? He was supposed to be coming to see me, had car trouble and couldnt make it. Fixed his car and then ended up in hospital with anaphylatic (spelling) shock. Spoke to a couple of his friends through cm mail and msn and thursday he was still in hospital, supposed to be out friday. I've not heard a word since.

So now is the time i shrug it off right? If he can't be bothered to let me know he is ok, not ok i should just forget it!

So why can't i?

Part of it is that i care and just want to know he's ok. From there what will be, will be. We meet up we don't, least i know he's ok or still ill or whatever.

The other part of me says this is just his way of brushing me off. That everything is just made up to avoid meeting me. His silence hopes i will just go away. Fair enough! But no it really isn't. If this is the case why can't he just say 'i changed my mind'. Why the elaborate web of deceit and lies?

I just plain and simple don't understand. I'm looking for an answer, have left a cmail to ask how hes doing. Have text him to let him know i'm thinking of him and even left an online msn message asking for news of how he is doing. Too much? Maybe but i care.

All i'm met with though is a wall of silence and whilst this could be because he is still in hospital, it also could be he is just being plain rude and ignoring me. I can't have done anything wrong, everything was fine last time we spoke. So why?

It really is driving me crazy. All i would like is a 'yes hes/i'm ok', an 'i'm fine but not gonna be planning on meeting up anymore', even a 'fuck off i want nothing to do with you would be better than this.'

It could be either,maybe he doesen't want you to worry but If I was in his place hell nor high water would keep me from letting those that care about me know whats going on..again don't shoot the horses because the wagon is broke wait a short while...bounty

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:06:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Find out which hospital. If they can't answer that, and you can't verify it....

If / when i get to speak to someone i will ask.

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Why is it that he can keep in contact with his friends and not you? Why can't he call you from the hospital? Why can't you call him there? It does NOT make sense. Coming from someone who has spent a LOT of time in hospitals, I have always been able to contact the people I want to.

Maybe because they are visiting him there. Call me from the hospital - yeah i see no reason why not too.

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It could be either,maybe he doesen't want you to worry but If I was in his place hell nor high water would keep me from letting those that care about me know whats going on..again don't shoot the horses because the wagon is broke wait a short while...bounty

Theres not a lot i can do now other than wait.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:09:01 AM

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Hey Misst
I just sent you CMail. Be safe

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:14:12 AM

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Hey Misst
I just sent you CMail. Be safe

the.dark.

I got it and replied. Thank you xx

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:25:38 AM

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While anaphylactic shock is serious as domah posted, it is not something that lasts. You have an allergic reaction, you are treated, you're done. If he is allergic to bee stings, for example, and he got stung, he would have most likely been given an injection of epinephrine and an antihistamine and then observed for a few hours and sent home. If it was so serious as to require a tracheotomy to establish an airway, the odds are that he still would not have spent 5 days in the hospital.

I went into anaphylaxis after receiving an injection of demerol in the recovery room after surgery. I had received demerol numerous other times with no problem; they don't know why that time there was a problem (usually an allergic reaction occurs on the second exposure) but they said it could have been the carrier and not the actual drug itself. In any case, even after surgery, it did not increase the amount of time I spent in the hospital and I went home later that day.

Miss, I have no idea why people are not just direct and truthful; I complain about this all the time. I've been on the receiving end of the elaborate story before... they just don't realize how much I pay attention to details and something trips them up.

If he has your phone number, there is no reason why one of his friends could not call you, and I'm just not buying any reason that he could not call you himself. I'm sorry hon.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 9:31:24 AM

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If he has your phone number, there is no reason why one of his friends could not call you, and I'm just not buying any reason that he could not call you himself. I'm sorry hon.

I know

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 10:23:55 AM

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Mmmmm miss how about letting me hook up a tens unit to that metal stud.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 10:24:00 AM

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"Lack of closure sucks, personally, I'd rather somebody be brutally honest with me to the point of hearing "Fuck off" as well."

I much prefer honesty too, and so many have trouble with it. Then you are left to assume things, which is fruitless and will drive you crazy.
I had one like that also, I know where you are coming from, missturbation. Don't waste your time worrying about it. If he wants communication, he will contact you. After a set time with no communication, you are free.

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 10:34:48 AM

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My SIL has severe allergies to strawberries , even driving past a field of can cause her to go into shock, hshe is a school bus driver and carries and epi pen in the event someone brings some form of strawberries onto the bus whether food, lipgloss or during spring when strawberries are in season, no last year she had to use the epi pen but she ended up having a rebound attack which if it occurs usually occurs within a few hours of the first so she had to call for an ambulance and on the way to the hospital her heart did stop and had to be restarted again even with that the hospitalization period is 48 hour period and back to work the following dat , yes it can be severe but it is typically shortlived medical observation time after first attack is 4 hours if no secondary attack the patient can go home if a second attack the observation time then ranges from 24 to 48 hours depending on severity. So not hearing from him 5 days when it should have been fully resolved in 2 would suggestly highly that he considers you an option not a priority

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RE: Letting it go !?! - 5/19/2008 1:34:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Missturbation

This is off topic but I just Perved your profile.

The guys an Idiot.

Other than the Metal Stud Stuck out of your lip I find you a VERY attractive and highly desirable girl.

My only solace for you is that the person who you end up with should at least deserve you and sadly I don't think this guy does.

Steel

I'll have to second it, on the idiot motion vote! However, metal studs are just fine in my book.

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