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MansStrength -> RE: Really Living it, 24/7 (5/27/2008 6:31:23 AM)
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I think being a master or being a slave changes everything, and changes nothing. All the dynamics of a relationship do change; as one is serving and one does all the planning, so there is no arguing and bickering. It is a much more peaceful way to live and manage a household. I’d rather deal with a girl’s, sadness or ill disguised disappointment then deal with a wife’s anger. But dynamics still exist like everything else. I think most people assume there is a hyper sexuality that goes with the perceived “kink.” I don’t see it as a kink, just a way of being. So I don’t see any difference in the interplay. Personally, I don’t think of it as a relationship like friends of mine, but there are many similarities in function.
My overall point is that on a day to day basis life is life. You still have to drop the car off at the shop, do laundry, have Christmas, etc. The only difference is the planning, and who does what. Married vanilla couples don’t fuck like bunnies all day long, or cuddle, pet or whatever the hell they do to lead up to sex. I don’t spank, whip, or have a girl in chains 24/7. Just as there are things that entice a vanilla girl or guy during an activity, so there is for us. It is easy to whisper in her ear, say in an open air market, and tell her to get up on her toes and arch her back and draw attention to herself from the crowd. Or if I am reading a magazine to stand nipples up and head down and wait behind me. It looks subtly out of place, and reminds her of her place and she knows it entices men when she does it on her own to please me. So all couples, or types of couples have their little things, we’re no different.
Now, about that naked thing. I like to let her pick clothes to surprise me, then make her take them back, go shopping with her and make her try out clothes for my approval in front of sales people. I do get a kick out of ordering here around and telling her what I will buy and seeing the shock, or sometimes understanding acceptance on sales girls faces. But in the end I don’t like 24/7 nudity.As I said I had one girl, a real hippy type, who just loved being nude, but I would make here wear different things. I like various stages of undress, and ordering her to “present” at the snap of my fingers on her knees in a puddle of the clothes I let her wear that day, then her having to put them back on, sometimes many times during the day, like if I enter a room, just to remind her that they are my clothes, not hers and she is my piece of ass, not her own.
Maybe that’s the same thrill as a husband hugging his wife. Heh heh..
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