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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/28/2008 12:01:12 PM   
RumpusParable


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From: NYC now!
Status: offline 		I'm only just now in the trial beginning with a new sub in my life, so am answering from there -we're still finding out how well we'll suit, but so far I'm hopeful.

What connected us?  So far, mutually compatible desires and interaction-types.

I'm looking for something non-sexual, non-romantic, friendly, service-focused, with play involved but secondary to service.  He approached me expressing the same.  So far he's shown this in actions and we seem to be comfortable around each other with our individual D/s styles of interacting from our power-dynamic positions.

We'll see if this is still true as we progress, but as said things are seeming good so far.

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/28/2008 1:04:22 PM   
MissMorrigan


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Reality and I had met at a time when I had made the decision to not actively seek a submissive partner. Two years ago in April he wrote to me, he said he understood I was not seeking and would appreciate the opportunity of talking with me about mutual non bdsm-related interests. His email to me was articulate, thoughtful, he'd taken the time to read my profile and note some of my interests of which he shared. It was clear that despite his young age, he was knowledgable in a great many areas and his email initiated the only response I could have given - I felt compelled to reply. We began communicating, an email a day, after a week I wanted to see his face and asked for a picture. The picture I received conveyed a demeanour of shyness through classic italian good looks. I noted a slight smile and found that striking. What struck me also was that he is one of the nicest people on this earth, I have not heard him say a poor word about anyone and he always sees the best in people.

We discussed a great many things and like so many others, he had explained that for as long as he could remember, he'd felt that familiar pull in the direction of BDSM. He had no experiences to compare with the resources he'd read or the video clips he avidly watched and as he matured, his hunger for actual experience grew.

There was something refreshing in his naivete, his overall lack of worldliness and although he had explained he had had half a dozen short-lived relationships, I found him unspoilt, charming and endearing. Not once, after a month of daily conversations, had he so much as touched upon anything sexual. He was interested in me, in my thoughts on life, politics, music, etc... and one thing we both initiated in one another - laughter. We laughed so much and I reached the point where I wanted to meet him. We had talked on the telephone and I remember the very first time I heard his voice I could tell he was so nervous that he was having difficulty breathing.

The day we met... He met me from my place of employment. We got a cab to Worthing Pier and walked around for a while, enjoying the sunshine. We stopped at a bench to sit and talk, he then presented me with a bag in which was a mountain of white chocolate bars of chocolate and truffles. I had mentioned to him that I adored white chocolate, especially Milky Bars lol We went for dinner to a rather upmarket restaurant and ate Italian cuisine. He must have suffered jaw-ache from having me look so much at his smile - close up it has to be one of the most beautiful smiles I've been privileged to see, accompanied by a pair of the cutest dimples!

Given his lack of experience, I had made the decision for us to session (non sexual) a few times while he searched for a Mistress. We began very slowly and he came with a long list of 'wont do's' lol On our fourth session we had touched upon something very emotional for him to experience and as usual I hugged him close, reassuring him that the feelings he was experiencing were normal and explained why. I became aware that after considerable time we were still hugging one another with no desire to stop, it was then that I looked at him and as we did so I knew then that I wanted this man to be the man whose emotions I controlled and whose hands/arms I felt every day without cessation.

I have seen him mature and grow in so many ways in the two years we have embraced this world together, he has taught me a great deal, too. We inspire and motivate one another and I enjoy encouraging him in his endeavours to succeed whether that be on a deeply personal level, leisurely or professionally. He has proven himself to be someone worthy of the deepest trust and respect. We have lived together for a year, experienced minor adjustment difficulties and continue to learn and laugh together. This, from a lady who declared she would never again share her personal space.

Our connection - an openness of mind and willingness of heart.

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/28/2008 2:08:59 PM   
StrictnSaucy


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Status: offline 		His love of life and humour. His intelligence. His kindness and thoughtfulness.

We now live together, are building a business together and have a child together. Yet, he still surpasses my expectations on a daily level.

I have the coolest boy of them all ;-)

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/29/2008 4:04:50 PM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		Its so warm to know of all those who have found what their looking for. I love to brag about my pet, he's the best thing thats ever happened to me and I couldn't imagine my life without him. He's so caring, loving, and intelligent (its nice to have a guy for once who's smarter than me about a few things) he's my happiness, and my future. I've got to gush a bit, we still have a long distance between us, though its nice to know why I'm working so hard here and now so that I'm one step closer to being permanent. *Steps of mushy soapbox* ~Lorelei

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/31/2008 6:57:15 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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Hello Lorelei,
 
what a great thread this is , and how awesome is it to read how everyone got together !
 
13 feb 2005 he walked right in My chatroom, and thats how Wwe met. Wwe had a nice talk, and got to know eachother. Wwe inmediatly clicked, and he kept on coming back day after day, being a good and devoted slut :D Pretty soon I had him change his nick into pussy^ , and at the first of june 2005 I asked if he fell inlove with Me, he smiled and said : i've lost interests in other Dommes, but he couldn't say the L word untill he would meet Me in real life.
 
I enjoy him because of his looks, optimism, the way he cares, his love, his devotion, his smile, his warmth, his devotion, his wisdom, his empathy, his humor, his support.
 
Wwe grew stronger and stronger, but despite everything, I kept on being hurt online, since I was still looking for one sub closeby, and therefor I released My boy, and left bondage. Because blood floats where it cant run, I returned back to Bondage, back home and where My devoted boy found Me again.
 
Wwe got back together right away, and Wwe picked up where Wwe left off.
 
2006 has been a very special year for Uus, in march a few days after My birthday I flew together with My dutch sub to Italy, and made a big wish of Mine come true to finally meet My boy.
 
I will never forget the first time I saw him, My tall boy, so bald and sexy, who bend to his knees to kiss My feet :)  Wwe played, and I will never forget Oour first kiss, which was so passionate and intens that I knew that this was My boy, and Fireworks we're visable above Bologna!!!!
 
Two Days we're way too short, and hated to part My boy. Wwe felt awesome, and knew now since Wwe met irl, Wwe wanted to see more of eachother :)
 
I've been really lucky to be able to 've spend 3 long days with My boy in june 2006. It was heavenly.
 
Due to personal problems Wwe broke up that year, and stayed apart for 5 months. I never met a sub who had his qualitys, being kind, polite, interested, who said what he ment, and ment what he said. Who did as told, was willing to grow with Me. Who supported Me when I needed it, and enjoyed the good times in life. It made Me wonder.. if I had been too strict in letting him go.. on My birthday this year I received a text from him which made Me cry, and was the start of Uus getting back together again, which has been more deep then ever before.
 
Which resulted in one week on Fantasy Island, last may, in which Oour growth & Happiness showed more then anything.
 
Although his body will never be Mine alone, his soul belongs to Me, and as he once said: I've put a collar around his heart forever.
 
Untill this day I never found a submissive
closeby, with whom I've such a magical bond.

GoddezzT`
 


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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 5/31/2008 7:42:34 AM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		I have a wonderful new lifestyle submissive. He is a domestic and I have recently placed him in chastity also, so a new area of chastity control for me to experience playing with .

What connected instantly was his subserviant energy, his mannerisms, his genuine interest in being mine, and also his impeccable domestic duties, and attentiveness .

He is the second submissive, under consideration for me to collar as my slave. I have already purchased his collar especially, it will happen soon, I am sure.

So a very happy Mistress at the moment!

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/2/2008 1:50:59 PM   
assai


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Status: offline 		Reading your message i feel my heart full of happiness and in my poor english i can't explain all my feelings as i would like to.
I think Oour story is a really beautiful one and i'm happy to read other lovely stories as that Wwe are living now.
I feel blessed to have met You, because You turned me into a real sub. You made me feel the real meaning of submission. Changed my selfish part, with patience, into the joy to give You the best of myself. The desire to give You my full trust as You lead me to explore my unknown and darker corners. You taught me the good suffering but always with love and care encouraged me to do better until your pleasure is mine too.
Thanking  GoddezzT`, after such a long time, i feel very proud to be slave and i feel ready to grow under Her wise guidance into unknown layers of Bdsm.
I wish that everyone could feel this magic.

assai

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/3/2008 11:40:14 AM   
KindLadyGrey


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Status: offline 		I'm so glad I'm blowing off work to catch up on the forums today. I love these stories. And damn, ShaktiSama collared Aiden? Yay!

As for me, I have some big news. There's a very special pet who is under consideration for a collar right now. That may not seem unusual to a lot of you, but it is a VERY BIG DEAL to me, since I've never done it before. It's a long story, and this is the SHORT version. . .

I met him here, on CM, in the subs_for_Dommes chatroom. I actually didn't pay him much attention for a while, then one day he asked to message me, and when he did it was only to offer support and help because I am going through a difficult divorce right now. I found out he lived nearby, and gave him my IM contact information. We talked only occasionally for months and I always came away from our chats feeling a little better. Still, my life was pretty crazy, so I did not prioritize an actual meeting for a very long time. Then one day he mentioned buying me lunch and I actually had a free weekend, so I accepted and we planned a picnic instead (since we are both poor and eating out is expensive).

There really wasn't much expectation of a romantic involvement. He's old enough to be my father, and he was seeking a serious and committed 24/7 D/s relationship, which I did not think I was ready for, especially considering the mess that is my life right now. Also, HIS life is a total mess too, and to say he's a bit damaged is an understatement, and that's the last thing I thought I needed in a romantic parter. We very much enjoyed talking to each other though and I thought there might be a chance of finding a very good friend.

We had agreed to meet at the park, but hadn't actually pinned down where. When I got there, I realized I hadn't written down his cell phone number, so I positioned myself in a visible spot, wrapped myself up in a warm coat (it was cold) and read a book while I waited for him to find me. He did find me, and had brought me flowers. He was very relieved that I hadn't simply left, and very nervous.

We agreed that it was too cold for the planned picnic and retired to a sandwich shop in a mall nearby. We spent the entire day just talking, getting to know each other, and greatly enjoying each other's company. We found out that we are very very different people! I hugged him when we parted and he looked like he was going to cry.

A few days later, I invited him to my home. He spent the day playing nanny, cook, pack animal, and chauffer. He was wonderful with my kids. It was late when we got back from picking up a bed for my daughter, so I invited him to stay the evening. I dragged him into bed for cuddles. I slept like a baby, as I usually do when I have someone I care for in my arms. He didn't sleep. He was nervous and aroused and struggling with feelings of confusion and guilt; his previous mistress messed up his head pretty badly.

Two things became pretty clear to me after that day. First, he was the best service submissive I'd ever known. He really, honestly, with no pretense whatsoever, just wanted to help me with my difficult life, and gladly employed all of his considerable domestic skills to do so. Second, he was falling madly in love with me and trying very hard not to because he could not imagine I could possibly feel the same way or be able to provide for his very considerable needs. Why would a successful woman in her 20s want anything to do with a burnt out underachiever in his 50s? How could a woman with so much on her plate possibly take care of a submissive who would turn over the keys to his entire being to her keeping?

One day, he let slip those three magic words on IM. I was mad and called him a coward for not saying it to my face and he began to frantically explain why things could never work out anyway and how he knew I didn't feel the same way. I kept him in the dark, but next time he came over I took him outside and made him kneel in front of me. I took his chin, forced him to look at me, and told him that he had something to say to me. He tried to look down, away, not meet my eyes. Eventually though, he said "I love you." I made him say it a few times and he cried. Then I leaned over and whispered it back into his ear. He cried more and I held him.

We still didn't know exactly how such a relationship could work, since we seemed to need very different things. I am the sort of person who is comfortable letting relationships develop organically and work themselves out. He is the sort of person who gets neurotic if he doesn't know exactly where he stands. He is the sort of submissive who gets himself in massive amounts of trouble if he doesn't have someone to stake him to the ground and keep him out of trouble. He has a big neon vegas style sign above his head that says "USE ME!" And so, lacking a solid commitment from me, he proceeded to get himself in trouble. . .

I took him out one evening with my friends for a pirate pub crawl. We had a good time and my friends really liked him, and they made him feel more comfortable when they told him that they too were involved in the lifestyle and they understood and accepted the nature of our relationship. Eventually though, he got a little overwhelmed and called a lady friend of his and asked for company. Well, she told him she'd give him a nice beating IF he could make it to her house in 20 minutes. This was, by all laws of physics and traffic, totally impossible, but he insisted on trying anyway because he just needs that from a woman and I wasn't (yet) giving it to him. To my great discredit, I let him go. He got there late and found the door locked and unanswered, so he just went home and cried. Somehow, I knew, so I sent him a text message asking if he was okay. Obviously, he wasn't. I said my goodbyes to my friends and went to his house, my first time there, to save him from himself. He fell at my feet when I got there and begged me to beat him, but I refused to positively reinforce him for being an idiot. We had what might be considered our first argument; I told him that he was an idiot and that because I loved him he also hurt me when he did things that hurt himself. He insisted the he *needed* those things no matter what the cost. We agreed to disagree.

I wasn't ready to tighten my grip on him yet because I wasn't sure I could handle the responsibility, but he kept getting himself in trouble and hurt and I couldn't stand it. One day, I'd had enough. He tends to identify strongly with the archetype of the lost sheep, and I once joked that I was going to put a bell on him so he couldn't get lost. That's exactly what I did. I told him it was not a collar, but did mean that I was watching over him and would come find him when he was lost. He cried. He's a big crybaby really. He tries so hard not to fall into me and keeps falling further and further and is scared. I have put him under consideration for a six month period, at the end of which, if things are still going well, I will offer him a collar. Meanwhile, he wears his bell, and hears it ring all day long reminding him that I love him and am watching over him. He takes great joy in explaining to other people who ask that his Lady gave it to him so he does not get lost.

Things are still a little rocky. There are many many trials because we are so different, but for all of them he is an incredible blessing to me. I love him in a completely pathetic way. I would do just about anything for him, and have. I am quickly becoming accustomed to a lifestyle no woman who isn't wealthy enough to hire servants has any expectation of achieving. He bathes me, dries me, combs my hair, cooks all my meals, cleans my house, does my laundry, gives me wonderful massages (and coughcoughorgasmcoughcough), helps with my children, helps my parents with home improvement tasks, makes me laugh, holds me when I cry, and generally helps make my life easier in every way possible. He keeps asking me why I am wasting my time with him! We're working on that whole self-esteem thing. He's very emotionally high maintenance, but so far that isn't bothering me at all. If there is one thing I have in spades, it is affection to give.

Oh yes, by the way, he's one of the primary reasons I haven't had much time to spend on CM lately. Jesus, what an adventure this is!

I'll let you all know how things are going in six months.


Hmm, I wonder if he keeps trac of me on the forums and will read this? If he does, he'll probably be embarrassed. Sorry pet, but I reserve the right to brag about you as much as like!

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 5:51:54 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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To KindLadyGrey,

By the sounds of it Yyou two deserve eachother,
and I really do wish Yyou enough!

Awesome to read it.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 6:41:05 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		it really is magical when you find the right one  great story Ms Goddess  kinda sad though when you crave more and because of schedules things dont workout the way you want them too ..would love to see my mistress more ..the times we have together are amazing  the chemistry we have developed over time is real and precious  but her kids are still number one in her life and i can accept that ...all i know when she walks in my door her smile lights up my life  and the afterglow usually lasts 2 or 3 days after and to me that is priceless take care ..hugs mal

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 6:44:10 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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Thank you kindly mal,
and yes sometimes it's just not in the cards just yet.
But one day I'll get there mal.
I know this !

you're a luckybitch, and ya better know this!

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`


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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 9:16:50 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		My story is a little different. What attracted me to her was that she had a fishing boat. Ok it was only a row boat but she has two strong arms. But she will be history if someone comes along with a motor on their boat. Truth is (honest I can tell the truth) I don't have a sub right now. I have to much going on in my life to commit to anyone right now. But you never know shit happens. Im a romantic so who knows.

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 10:35:00 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		This thread made my day.....it is soooooooooooo yummy to feel everyones love for their partners....

Here is my story: i am a switch, and i live on a very tiny island in the middle of the pacific, so after myself and my former owner broke up i was pretty convinced that i was doomed to a life with out bdsm...there was no clubs here, no party's and the munch was being held at the food court at the mall and only two folks ever showed up.

SO i was totally shocked when i heard about an event on the big island, with some big name presenters! i went and it was a very magical... and yet it was sort of tragic for the promoters, 8 presenters, 8 attendees, all of us in a 11 acres organic retreat on the ocean, anyway because turn out was disappointing the classes were kind of crazy and needed to be consolidated....that is the first time i saw him....he pushed all my geek buttons....he organized the classes and made the chaos disappear.

I took his class and was so impressed with him, his brain was just yummy, and his laugh infectious. we talked and talked and laughed a lot....i learned and loved all weekend long, both of us thinking that this was an awesome memory but not that it could be more....

The last day of the event, i woke up and asked him to put me in rope, he took out the Phoenix rope, (when monks building burnt to the ground, the first batch of rope was dyed to the color of flames and imbued with magick) and i was put in a pentacle tie that was very tight.....this rope is so magical that you can ask for things, and i asked for my heart to open, i wanted and needed s/m back in my life so badly.

Little did i know....

Anyway the next class was Master Skips, he was doing a class on cathartic flogging, and it was intense, and powerful, and at the end he ask for a volunteer...no one raised a hand...but then to my surprise, my hand went up, and instantly the room disappeared, i undressed and lee lovingly took off the rope harness, lee is now holding me from behind, master skip looking right into my eyes in the front,.... lee then offers me to Master Skip, and he puts his hand on my heart and my hand on his heart and says the words "Are you willing"...."i say yes"....and kneel before him....he says "open your heart amy....there will be no safe words"....

My heart opens right then....I start to cry....i am balling while Slave Rick is putting me on the cross and we all move through so much energy.....i release all the pain of my former slavery, i forgive my former owner for the mistakes he made, i feel my heart opening and tears and blood and love just gushing out like a gyser....

An hour later the room clears...the ritual complete, i am standing naked in the room alone with lee and he is looking so deeply into me it is making my knees go weak....

After an amazing playparty that night, we part and again i think this is just what it is....and no more.

But he goes through a botched surgery and it is so rough that the world goes very black for him, and i would offer him a candle, and time after time he would blow it out and push me a way....but i could not help it...i kept offering him every bit of light i could muster...

Months go by and he is healing, i invite back here because i know this to be the most healing place on the planet....he comes...he says "thank you for being easy to love"

The freindship evolves and yet my heart wants to submit to him, the weird dynamic at play here is preventing that though because he is referring to me as his business guru...yet my heart kept aching to be at his feet,..... i had never met some one i wanted to be worthy of.....even if i am totally honest, my former owner.......but he was the most courageous and most intelligent and most endearing and the most edgy and outrageous person i had ever met...even light play seemed like edge play and the edge play we did seemed like soul scraping.......

It took several days to figure all this out, because we had both been in master slave relationships before, and to two free spirited Sagittariuses they seemed to confining for what we needed from relationships....but the love was there, the devotion was there, the kinks matched up and the service was there....

So what was this thing?

We came up with the word serviceslut....we defined what it means to us, and up until recently we were the only folks using the term, and that suited us just fine. (now the term is growing but thats ok too)

What attracts me to him is his courage....i am humbled by it, and i love his sincerity and playfulness....i learn so much in both those arenas from him...one of the things that i learned was that when both people are willing anything can be navigated.....i knew that in order to be with him i had to throw caution to the wind....i had to truly let go and free fall....al my preconceived ideas of love and of d/s would be challenged and i would be thrashed upon the rocky shores of LDRs, poly, intimacy and submission.... i knew there would be no going back...

And i don't want to.

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 11:05:28 AM   
pixelslave


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Status: offline 		Wow!  I'm impressed and very touched Amy.  I've met Master Skip and Slave Rick, having been in one of their session at SPLF this past winter.  They're very much into the spirituality of BDSM and I greatly enjoyed their presentation.  It sounds like you REALLY got a lot out of the special one they put on just for YOU!  I'm very happy for you and the growth you've experienced through letting go of the past.
 
 - pixel
 


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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/4/2008 11:16:21 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		Thankyou so much for the kind words Pixel, I was really scared to post something so intimate here to be honest.

The event was called spirit of the islands the idea was that all the presenters were coming from this thing that we do (s/m D/s, kink) being used to facillitate spiritual growth....it was an amazing event similar vibe aas SW but not as many folks.... sadly the event is no more, but we are creating a new event, KISMET, in the midwest for 2009 with the emphasis on power exchange and magic....and i sure would love it if you could come out for it...its going to be amazing!


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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/12/2008 9:52:51 AM   
vampchick88


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Status: offline 		I love how so many people found love online! A few years ago I thought it was impossible for me to find love offline yet alone over distance and through a computer. GoddessTeaze and assisi I'm very sorry for not responding quicker but your story is so touching, half way through reading it my heart dropped when you spoke of a break up, I'm so glad that your able to be together again. I love to hear a happy ending! KindLadyGrey, MistressRouge, and everyone elset that was so kind as to share your stories thank you. I'm happy to know that others have found happiness, and that love is being found all over. ~Lorelei

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/12/2008 12:40:23 PM   
edgepassion


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Joined: 2/20/2008
Status: offline 		Great stories....thanks all

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/13/2008 5:37:32 AM   
LadyPhoenixRisen


Posts: 33
Joined: 5/28/2008
Status: offline 		I am still getting to know pup, but I think there are a few different things.

He is cute, has a great personality, a good sense of humor, is very eager, and loves to obey.  He is a pretty good package and that is sort of why I have been keeping my head together in this whole thing.  I want us to continue to get to know each other a lot better, and when we meet things will be in a pretty good place already.

I love that we can laugh, yet when it's time for being serious..he is right there with me.

Phoenix

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Like the mighty phoenix,
Once again I rise from the flames set to destroy me & take flight.
I am Stronger; Glorious; Powerful; Victorious.

"Women are naturally dominant, just ask Adam why he ate the apple."

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/13/2008 5:44:00 AM   
MaamJay


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Joined: 9/2/2005
Status: offline 		I'm still hoping to connect with Mine ... but all these stories made Me feel really uplifted and hopeful! Special congrats to Shakti and aidan, I hadn't realised there was a collaring involved!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: What connected you with your submissive? - 6/13/2008 5:52:04 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


Posts: 1139
Joined: 2/7/2006
From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline 		Amy ...

Your post spoke to me, with it's vivid reminder to stay open, even when it's easier and feels "safer" to be closed.  Thank you.

Mss

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