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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/8/2008 6:11:13 PM

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/8/2008 6:26:31 PM

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I wouldn't even allow him to visit me ... he'd become a liability because it sounds like he's a con artist.

Have you even considered just ending all contact with this man?

(Maybe I'm cruel, but it's easy for me to just write-off someone when I have a gut feeling he's bad news).

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 12:26:22 PM

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This night, he came on IM at almost midnight, and said hes been drivving. Claiming,that he got home then,from work, that it took really long time,and that he left late.
Then after wewe finished, he went on and off all the time at IM. I asked him about it at last, and he said,it was the remoter,that did it!
But in the morning,when I checked,he was off and then on again. I left for work and he text me one text this day,saying he has headace,and he miss me terribly.
Okay, you use to send me a morning mail,but didnt. You havent got on IM still and you always use to do it on time. Now its an hour late. Yesterday, I asked him some questions and made demands. such as he could come visiting me because of the safety, and much more. Is it,because hes afraid now suddenly?

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 12:31:27 PM

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We can't answer why he does these things. If you want to chase him around on IM, and text, go for it. We can't help you.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 2:30:03 PM

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to the op.....

immediately start packing....wire him all your funds, except enough to purchase a plane ticket and food for the few days it will take you to gather your belongings.

im sure he will meet you at the airport, yall will run into each others arms, in slo-mo like the movies, and you will live happily ever after.

dont listen to these other 4 pages.......mine is the twue solution to all your problems.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 2:34:04 PM

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I have talked to him, i mentioned,that HE could come here. His reply? " I want it my way, I want to do things my way". "are you trying to get into a debate again? You should not question my descisions". When I replied its common clear questions,whats wrong withthem. then he should go to sleep!
Earlier,he warned me about a friend of mine,her husband, that comes from Nigeria,and lives here with her and all their children, that he could not be trusted, that hes a cultural thief!! And that he cares about me that i wouldnt forget that and everything he says and does is because he cares.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 3:09:00 PM

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Wow... i skipped some pages because i couldnt read all that. I have a song message for you.
"Theres gonna be a heartache tonight i know"... (Eagles)
This situation is not unusual or unique. Nor is the outcome.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 4:42:00 PM

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I have talked to him, i mentioned,that HE could come here. His reply? " I want it my way, I want to do things my way". "are you trying to get into a debate again? You should not question my descisions". When I replied its common clear questions,whats wrong withthem. then he should go to sleep!
Earlier,he warned me about a friend of mine,her husband, that comes from Nigeria,and lives here with her and all their children, that he could not be trusted, that hes a cultural thief!! And that he cares about me that i wouldnt forget that and everything he says and does is because he cares.

This is more fun to read then watching my soap opera. Thanks for making sure you post to this thread everyday. I dont want to have to go through withdrawals.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 4:52:07 PM

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sometimes in threads like these, i wonder if past members who've been booted for life are coming back from the dead and playing games with us....

Dya know Christine, I often think that exact same thing about these threads.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/9/2008 8:17:44 PM

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Do you really want someone so badly you will accept anyone who comes along claiming to be dom?
He sounds more like a child. "ME ME ME"
It never ceases to amaze me how desperate people are to find "someone", that they will take anyone who comes along.
*shakes head*
People have been offering advice. It is your choice to take it and look for someone else, or give this guy your money, fly and get beat where ever he parks you. Think of it as hiring a session.
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" I want it my way, I want to do things my way". "are you trying to get into a debate again? You should not question my descisions".
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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 2:51:55 AM

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This is just a joke right? Nobody in their right mind would even give this dickhead the time of day surely!!!!!!!!??????????????????

Get rid of him, cease contact immediately - that's what I think. But then again surely this is a joke - it has to be - nobody is that stupid.......

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 3:10:11 AM

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geez, i can't even add to what anyone else has said already.
WHAT ?!

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 4:37:29 AM

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Do yourself a huge favor and stop all communication with this guy already

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 7:21:08 AM

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Who is more desperate here?
you or this so called "master".

gawd woman
get a life.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 7:48:42 AM

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apologizing for minor hijack but i would advise that you drop "willing to relocate" off your profile.

back to your thread - you're getting a lot of sound advice here but i don't think you're really listening. here's a guy (i wouldn't dare call him "master") who has so many red flags waving that they're waving strong from his hot air. he's all talk and you're melting from every word he says.

please wake up and heed the advice/opinions you're seeking. this guy is bad news and not worth your time/energy/submission.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 3:13:08 PM

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there are lots of OMG, red flag, HELL NO, moments in your postings - do yourself a very very big favour and do this...

write a list of all your concerns, doubts, worries, then write a list of all the good things about this one month old relationship. look at the two lists and you will see that the list of worries out weighs the good points. if you are prepared to go ahead with this madness, then there is nothing that anyone on here can do to stop you. only you can stop you.

nothing that you have written on here makes any sense to the people on this site - noone on this site would go meet this man, much less marry him - does that answer your question.

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RE: About new Master,advice - 6/10/2008 5:02:33 PM

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This is more fun to read then watching my soap opera. Thanks for making sure you post to this thread everyday. I dont want to have to go through withdrawals.

Agreed. I have totally stopped giving a crap (since the OP doesn't listen to logic or reason) and am now sitting back eagerly for the next episode in this lil drama. Maybe she should just go and meet him...so long as this gets updates with more lulz and drama.

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