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MindysDominion -> Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 8:50:49 AM)
What is wrong with you men pretending to be women?? I really do NOT understand that. Whatever it is you are in search of, then list it as yourself, not as a poser. I can gaurantee you, you will find what you are seeking! AS a Lesbian Domme, I can tell you no matter how good your profile looks or sounds, meeting a poser and making it work, will NEVER work. Just have that in your mind when you do contact another lesbian! So many men think that if they pretend to be a woman and get to know Me, that when it does come to the actual meet, I will change My sexual preference and take then as My sub! NOWAY!!! All you are doing is lieing to yourself! No lesbian wants a man in any form as her sub. Get a life and be yourself. Im looking for a true honest and very real female sub! so men, get the clue and back the frack off!

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 8:58:30 AM)
They've all been watching James Bond again, he "turned" a lesbian into a straight woman (aaw, bless, she didn't like women anyway, how noble of him to help her in that way).

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 8:59:10 AM)
They are on here acting out a fantasy... the fantasy of being a woman. They are annoying, yes, but usualy they arent going to ACTUALLY try and make it work anyway. If someone seems to be a fake, then just pass them over. They wil always be there, playing their fantasy. Dv

MindysDominion -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:03:15 AM)
DV, I have no problem with them acting out a fantasy, great wonderful. My problem is that they lie and deceive others about it. And being A Domme I find it very disrespectful and dishonorable that My time is wasted when in truth nothing will come of it. It is only after spending time chatting that the truth comes out.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:03:39 AM)
with lesbians like you...who needs REAL LESBIANS...

Madame4a -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:04:27 AM)
goodness.. its the anonymous internet.. buyer beware.. if you're so concerned, look for partners offline

LordOfTheMad -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:06:04 AM)
It's all a bit weird but something that's just a downside of this kinda site. Simple logic dictates that if you be yourself, you're more likely to find someone who likes you as you and not take up time with people who, in the end, will find out they don't like you. However these people are either stupid or have a very strange agenda that I can't fathom.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:06:55 AM)
after reading her profile...i have to wonder what a lesbian Master is. you certainly dont look butch or female to male...to be a Master. although they are usually called Syr's. so lesbian Master must be a new term.

MindysDominion -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:10:05 AM)
Do your research, there is a huge difference between a Mistress and a Female Master. And no it isnt a new term. There are several of us in the lifestyle!

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:10:47 AM)
Its no worse, really, than the ones who are married and hiding it, who are sub but pretend to be Dom, who are fat and pretend to be skinny, who are skinny and pretend to be BBW... You are online talking for some with online personas who do not exist beyond the confines of CollarMe. If it wastes your precious time, ask pointed questions upfront and hope they are honest. You never know who or what you are meeting online. Even the ones who are honest about themselves can turn into a waste of time... DV

Madame4a -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:15:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion What is wrong with you men pretending to be women?? I really do NOT understand that. Whatever it is you are in search of, then list it as yourself, not as a poser. I can gaurantee you, you will find what you are seeking! AS a Lesbian Domme, I can tell you no matter how good your profile looks or sounds, meeting a poser and making it work, will NEVER work. Just have that in your mind when you do contact another lesbian! So many men think that if they pretend to be a woman and get to know Me, that when it does come to the actual meet, I will change My sexual preference and take then as My sub! NOWAY!!! All you are doing is lieing to yourself! No lesbian wants a man in any form as her sub. Get a life and be yourself. Im looking for a true honest and very real female sub! so men, get the clue and back the frack off! You might want to open that narrow mind a bit... and note that what you prefer may not be what all lesbians prefer... unlike you, I can take (actually would really like right now) a man as a sub and not alter my sexual orientation I'm going to suggest you get over yourself...

OsideGirl -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:18:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion . And being A Domme I find it very disrespectful and dishonorable that My time is wasted when in truth nothing will come of it. So, if you were a sub and your time was wasted it wouldn't be disrespectful? Is Domme time more worthy of respect than sub time?

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:22:28 AM)
google search lesbian master... comes up with lesbian porn sites... dallas gay and lesbian realtors...susan ward the master of lesbian oral sex scenes....vancouvers gay and lesbian master swim team...more porn crap....some other glbt... nothing directly linked to bdsm as of yet that ive noticed.

tsatske -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:24:22 AM)
I think the OP is just frustrated because she has had people lie to her. it's understandable. When your first post is angry and annoyed and pissed off, it does not come across well. This is why my advice is always: reply to a hundred posts before you start one. This gives you time to get to know a new internet group or site you are on - every site is different. get to know people. Wouldn't MasterFire call herself a Lesbian Master? who knows. My second husband did this stick. I thought it was both pitiful and hilarious. Hilarious was the part where he met and started penpalling with some 'Lesbian' who lived 15 minutes from us - penpalled with her for a YEAR, with no one ever mentioning meeting for coffee. Finally I said, 'Why do you think she has never asked to meet you?' and he said, 'Who knows, I'm just glad, since I surely can't meet her.' And i said, 'yea, i'm thinking it's mutual....' I tried to convince him that he was talking to his mirror image - a man pretending to be a Lesbian, talking to a man pretending to be a Lesbian, but he assured me - he would KNOW. uh-huh. That was the hilarious part. [sm=alien.gif] btw - this is tsatske posting. just happen to be over here checking couple mail.

fluffyswitch -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:27:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion . And being A Domme I find it very disrespectful and dishonorable that My time is wasted when in truth nothing will come of it. So, if you were a sub and your time was wasted it wouldn't be disrespectful? Is Domme time more worthy of respect than sub time? yes this is the part that always gets me. i may be a submissive but i'm also a full time grad student and i work. i'm making time for whoever i make time for so sorry if my time isnt worth as much as yours. sorry. this is my snarky comment for the hour lol.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:28:27 AM)
Absolutely. I was in this exact situation on another site-A submissive girl wanted to meet Me but she had no clue I was in a wheelchair-it just didn't come up in conversation naturally. I left her a message in her box telling her which she got when she came back off holiday (she asked if W/we could meet then left for a week lol). She got the message when she got back, took 4 days to reply and talked to Me less and less after that. At the time it was a real bummer, but if I hadn't told her and just gone along to meet her anyway, she'd have freaked and any possible relationship would have been killed right there and then anyway. Granted I'd have got to meet her but not for long. Honesty is the best policy.

LadyLynx -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:51:08 AM)
Well sometimes in general the emails taper off, HW. OP, no advice I can add, but do want to say, I hope you find your dream sub soon. smiles

MindysDominion -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 9:52:21 AM)
To Madame I would then say you are not a real lesbian. The thought of domming a man when I am a lesbian goes against the entire meaning of lesbian and against My coreself. I dont see it as narrowm minded at all when if you look at the definition of lesbian, it states: of or relating to or characterized by homosexual relations between women When it comes right down to it, homosexual, heterosexual, bi, TS or TG just be honest with what you want and who you are. My apologies to both subs. Yes your time is just as important to us Dommes.

MindysDominion -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 10:01:59 AM)
to faery, Master does not mean "man". It means: a person with the ability or power to use, control, an owner of a slave, a person whose teachings others accept or follow and dominant.

Madame4a -> RE: Posers~~(men as women) (6/6/2008 10:04:11 AM)
Oh gosh.. LOL... I predicted you'd say that, but I dismissed it. Clearly I gave you way too much credit. As I said, you might want to open that narrow little mind a little... please feel free to define yourself your way.. and I'll do that for myself ok? You don't know a thing about me. Seems like if I had a male friend or two according to you means I'm not a lesbian... There's a big wide world out there, some of which will not meet your narrow standards.. I'm sorry for you but you still got me laughing... its ok, I don't want to be a lesbian in your world, I'm one in mine... probably for longer than you've been alive I'll wager... [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: MindysDominion To Madame I would then say you are not a real lesbian. The thought of domming a man when I am a lesbian goes against the entire meaning of lesbian and against My coreself. I dont see it as narrowm minded at all when if you look at the definition of lesbian, it states: of or relating to or characterized by homosexual relations between women When it comes right down to it, homosexual, heterosexual, bi, TS or TG just be honest with what you want and who you are. My apologies to both subs. Yes your time is just as important to us Dommes.

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