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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

LP,

Following from Freud's thinking on penis envy, but translating this to the sphere of Femdom/malesub:  do you think that a femdom's desire to see her sub male suck cock is actually a manifestation of her more deep-seated envy of homosexual males - thus her yearning to be a homosexual male? 

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: diklikr4u
Hello LadyPact

Only one of the 4 Dommes ( 3 of which i only met one time ) discussed removing body hair.  Her side of the dicussion was telling where and how She wanted me too move my legs so She could get Her razor into the nooks and crannies.

Your experiences differ than Mine.  I don't shave My boys.  I expect them to maintain themselves in service to Me.  I want their time, dedication, and devotion in the ability to present themselves in the way I find most pleasing.  This is the physical result derived from the mentality that the boy should always be pleasing.  I feel that a sub should be ready to present himself in this manner.

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ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf

While I'll agree everyone has their own way to submit or Dominate, if you are not willing to submit completly to your Dom/Domme then your are only partially submissive. You will only submit what you want when you want,and therefore not a true submissive. I was only using the one act as a example.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Fair enough, but I do think you could put a bit more effort into it when I ask a stupid question, LP.  Stupid questions can take work and inspiration, you know. 

OK, I'll make do with a sensible question, then.  In your ideal male on male scenario, what sort of attributes would you like to see in the male whose todger is being slurped?  What would be the icing on the cake? 

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

LP,

Following from Freud's thinking on penis envy, but translating this to the sphere of Femdom/malesub:  do you think that a femdom's desire to see her sub male suck cock is actually a manifestation of her more deep-seated envy of homosexual males - thus her yearning to be a homosexual male? 

No, I don't.  I see it as the same as the same desire for voyeurism as males have to watch  two females.  I don't think anyone would believe that would relate to vaginal envy. 

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ORIGINAL: ANRsub

I find the way this thread is titled a bit perplexing, ""Heterosexual" males sucking cock"  SINCE, in a sexual perspective, one is defined by one's actions,

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neither of the males involved tn the afforementioned actions would be defineable AS heterosexual males. BIsexual, HOMOsexual, yes, but not hetero. This is one of those instances where terms and definitions get in the way. Obviously there are women that enjoy male-on-male action the way there are men who enjoy female-on-female action, no judgements made either way. HOWEVER, per the definition of Rape under the U.C.M.J., "Penetration, however slight, is sufficient to complete the offense"...Penetration, however slight, is sufficient to change the definition.

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ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf
If you are used by a Woman wearing a Strapon wouldn't you also be Homosexual??

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

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ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf
If you are used by a Woman wearing a Strapon wouldn't you also be Homosexual??

Nope, if a man has sex with a woman, it can't be homosexual activity, even if she's the one doing the penetration. She still looks, smells, tastes, and feels like a lady, not a man. If I used a strap-on on another woman, you wouldn't call it heterosexual, right?

Anyway, while I understand that a man could hypothetically suck another man's cock without being bisexual, if he's the one *asking* to do that, rather than the Domme initiating it, it does seem to me like he's a bit bicurious or heteroflexible or whatever you want to call it. I've dated a couple of bisexual men, and have no problem with them, but the "forced" dynamic and humilation play that a lot of submissive men demand when they want this style of play really weirds me out.

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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

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ORIGINAL: LadyDarkWolf
If you are used by a Woman wearing a Strapon wouldn't you also be Homosexual??

Nope, if a man has sex with a woman, it can't be homosexual activity, even if she's the one doing the penetration. She still looks, smells, tastes, and feels like a lady, not a man. If I used a strap-on on another woman, you wouldn't call it heterosexual, right?

Anyway, while I understand that a man could hypothetically suck another man's cock without being bisexual, if he's the one *asking* to do that, rather than the Domme initiating it, it does seem to me like he's a bit bicurious or heteroflexible or whatever you want to call it. I've dated a couple of bisexual men, and have no problem with them, but the "forced" dynamic and humilation play that a lot of submissive men demand when they want this style of play really weirds me out.

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ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

Did I mention I can suck my own dick?



That must make me asexual.