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RE: Virginity issue - 7/2/2008 1:18:23 PM

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I was a virgin before meeting my Master, and he says that he prefers them that way. In fact, he's turned down other subs who seemed too trained. He prefers the training process; once someone's already completely submissive, it's no fun for him.

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/2/2008 5:42:20 PM

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No it doesn't. When i first posted my profile a while back and did meet someone on here, who is helping me explore my submissive side, i was a virgin by all means. He took the time slowly at my pace with me and made me feel comfortable enough to allow him to take it from me. i trusted him, and still do, to this day to not have to worry about telling other Doms about it. When i had my profile up, i still recieved several emails a day, and for me personally, i did not tell anyone about my still being virgin unless i knew that something was going to actually work out. i never really had a teenage year stage, so when i talked with my mentor, (i hope no one will go off on how there is no such thing as it's the only way i can put it), about it, he didn't try to rush me at all. i guess though to, some Dom/Dommes may want a virgin and others may want some "experience". Don't worry about it if you find a person that you like and they don't want a virgin, just continue looking and you'll find someone who will like you for who you are.
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RE: Virginity issue - 7/2/2008 10:26:33 PM

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I can’t see how being a virgin wouldn’t have an effect one way or the other.

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/2/2008 10:35:29 PM

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Virginity is boring, tedious and adds a burden to me. I would prefer that someone at least try something. Since a relationship with me involves sex, I would prefer someone not too scared or lazy to get the basic garbage out of the way.

I don't subscribe to religion, or any number of reasons I have heard. I have met at least ten guys who were virgins into their thirties. Common theme, regret.

Only my personal opinion. Do what is right for you.

That redirected profile thing is also irksome and reinforces the impression (for me) that you think all the work should be done by someone else.

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/3/2008 4:28:01 AM

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No-one will look at Y/you and go "You're a virgin, aren't you?". They'll only know if/when you tell them, S/some may be shocked, others won't.

It's like that saying "How long is a piece of string"-you can't generalise how people will react.

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/3/2008 5:58:23 AM

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On being a virgin: to me this has a physical rather than any-other connotation. for me in this female body losing my virginity referred to an act of physical pnentration by a penis. I had been kinky since the age of two and had a lesbian girlfriend before the 'first fuck' by a man.
It was painful, it wasn't particularly great. The earth didn't move nor the sun or the stars.
It took me many many years of experimentation to find out how to have vaginal orgasm and for someone to find my g-spot and how to suirt and then how to do tantra.
I also had three huge babies and have participated in harsh bdsm play inclusing fisting. All of this meant my body was changed but I had been told by my ex that he preferred those who had had babies and been 'broken in'...it made his kink easier.
About six weeks ago I had surgery. I was brave and had gone to see two specialists because of problems. passing it off as a result of birting three babies the bottom man and the vagina man discussed it between them and decided I need repairing. In fact the bottom man told me that I had always had a defect probably from birth with an unecessary 'kink' as he called it in my rectum....(well this is a thread about virginity right?)
Anyway now i am reconstructed. I can understand how trans people feel. Everything feels different. I feel like I felt when I was a virgin.....tight.
Now I just got myself my One. Proudly owned by Indigowolf....perfect timing. It's going to be an amazing adventure because I have an 'old mind' and an 'old soul' when it comes to expriences of the body. But He will be the first to penetrate me and this time I am looking forward to the pain. Old mind, new pussy.......

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/3/2008 6:14:53 AM

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Very interesting post. Ty. I hope you're well on the road to recovery after the operation/s. Congratulations on being owned, I wish you well. :)

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RE: Virginity issue - 7/3/2008 6:28:09 AM

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