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DesertRat -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 3:14:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

sometimes i wonder is it the newness factor,of my date joined on profile?but new to CM doesn't mean newbie totally,lol.



I doubt that newness to CM has anything at all to do with it. EVERYbody gets to deal with the clueless ones, no matter how long they've been here. At least, that's the impression I get from talking with my friends here, and from reading the forums.

Bob




fyreredsub -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 3:28:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

you would be amazed at how many Doms in Ga. have no profile whatesoever,just stats.......that does not make the man!


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Like they know what makes the man, poor things

Kasia


Hadn't quite thought of it as a state issue....wonder if Men are more articulate in NY? LMAO.

pinkpleasures




i wouldn't know, since i'm not about to relocate.there is no reason for me to look at their profiles.

do tell how you would respond to someone that only has their stats showing and can't be bothered to write anything.




fyreredsub -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 3:32:42 PM)

lol @ clueless ones........

i suppose there exists those that are just plain RUDE,as well, to make themselves feel better.

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ORIGINAL: DesertRat

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

sometimes i wonder is it the newness factor,of my date joined on profile?but new to CM doesn't mean newbie totally,lol.



I doubt that newness to CM has anything at all to do with it. EVERYbody gets to deal with the clueless ones, no matter how long they've been here. At least, that's the impression I get from talking with my friends here, and from reading the forums.

Bob






fyreredsub -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 3:34:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Padriag

Only if rude hand gestures can be considered more articulate. And its not just doms or men, its submissives and women as well. A blank profile with only stats listed does not impress me at all. I realize not everyone is capable of writing a lengthy, well thought out profile or cares to make use of the journal feature... but at least make an effort to say something about yourself.


i have gotten to the point after today,when one with no info on their profile writes,i'm deleting straight off the bat.




WickedKev -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 4:50:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

that some just can't understand the concept of not interested when put politely?

i truly am at a loss at the nerve of some with their jumping to conclusions.

my profile is quite honest about what i want.

odds are when i am only replying back with no i don't want to chat or no i don't wish to give out any info to someone.....its because i do not wish to get to know them for whatever reason(no profile or their just asking about sex pretty much gets me there FAST).

they are extremely rude because their kink is not my kink or whatever

i guess i'm venting[:@]


Quite easy thier ego tells them you mean other Doms not them for they are The Dom, so your wants will change once he has got you interested.




fyreredsub -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 4:53:31 PM)

that is interesting logic WickedKev,however, what they fail to realize they are pushing me away with their nonsense,lol.
sometimes the antics make me wish to say,go play in the sandbox.[:D]




ImpGrrl -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 4:54:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

A blank profile with only stats listed does not impress me at all. I realize not everyone is capable of writing a lengthy, well thought out profile or cares to make use of the journal feature... but at least make an effort to say something about yourself.


To answer this bit - I have one of those profiles.

However, I'm also not looking - and am here for the forums only. So I feel that fleshing out my profile is unnecessary.




pinkpleasures -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 4:58:46 PM)

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do tell how you would respond to someone that only has their stats showing and can't be bothered to write anything.

fyeredsub


i guess it's the same as Men who write and say "liked your pic"; i write Them and ask Them about Their values, and some rise to the occassion...and others do not.

pinkpleasures




pinkpleasures -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 5:06:33 PM)

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Oh....... but you have nerves, Pink Lady. I would tell him to f*** off after second time repeating.

Kasia


No...i guess i was having a "blonde" 45 minutes, LOL.

pinkpleasures




cellis -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 5:31:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

you would be amazed at how many Doms in Ga. have no profile whatesoever,just stats.......that does not make the man!


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Like they know what makes the man, poor things

Kasia


Hadn't quite thought of it as a state issue....wonder if Men are more articulate in NY? LMAO.

pinkpleasures




Actually not really. Just recently I was approached on line by someone I had never had contact with before and immediately he wanted to know if I would be interested in subbing to him. Oh and then wanted to know about my nipples! LOL

Not my kind of master.




Padriag -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 6:01:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ImpGrrl

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ORIGINAL: Padriag

A blank profile with only stats listed does not impress me at all. I realize not everyone is capable of writing a lengthy, well thought out profile or cares to make use of the journal feature... but at least make an effort to say something about yourself.


To answer this bit - I have one of those profiles.

However, I'm also not looking - and am here for the forums only. So I feel that fleshing out my profile is unnecessary.

Well, since as a rule I don't contact those with blank profiles it kinda works out then doesn't it. [;)] On the other hand if you were looking... not so good then.




Padriag -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 6:02:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: cellis

Actually not really. Just recently I was approached on line by someone I had never had contact with before and immediately he wanted to know if I would be interested in subbing to him. Oh and then wanted to know about my nipples! LOL

Not my kind of master.

LOL.... down boy... heel I say... HEEL! ROFL [sm=lol.gif]




WickedKev -> RE: why is it (10/30/2005 6:12:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

that is interesting logic WickedKev,however, what they fail to realize they are pushing me away with their nonsense,lol.
sometimes the antics make me wish to say,go play in the sandbox.[:D]


And they should if they have egos that big. I reckon all Doms have to have egos to a certain point otherwise we couldn't do a lot of things we do. But some just get over bloated thinking no one would want to turn them down. I have had people contact my slave and my ex's when we were together, when told they were already taken the Dom (and I use this term lightly) said I am your Dom now, and you will know what it is to be owned by a real Dom. Or words to that effect.




fyreredsub -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 4:06:39 AM)

yes, they will speak along those lines. i heard similiar when i was 'under consideration'( i use the term lightly, since i said no).

as to big ego's,there is a time and a place.........some fool w/ no profile is not one of them,lol....

besides stroking those ego's is somewhat in the job description...........of the sub/slave[:)]




JerryInTampa -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 7:01:05 AM)

For one, the same reason that spam still comes in my email... because people who say "not interested" sometimes come arund. I've seen women with "no men" end up picking up a guy who just asked right. I've seen a "single black men" girl end up with a white couple. As long as reasking sometimes yields results, you will get people who reask.

Another reason is curiousity. Sometimes people want to know *why* they were rejected.

Somtimes they think it's just that they wrote it the wrong way. You are not seein gthe correct side of them, but if you just take the time to look, it will be different.

There are a number of reasons... and the simple truth is that persisting against "not interested" won't typically lower their chances (though I find it rather rude myself).

Jerry




domtimothy46176 -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 11:32:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

that some just can't understand the concept of not interested when put politely?

i truly am at a loss at the nerve of some with their jumping to conclusions.

my profile is quite honest about what i want.

odds are when i am only replying back with no i don't want to chat or no i don't wish to give out any info to someone.....its because i do not wish to get to know them for whatever reason(no profile or their just asking about sex pretty much gets me there FAST).

they are extremely rude because their kink is not my kink or whatever

i guess i'm venting[:@]


some folks just ain't got no couth [;)] They need more edjumacation about how to behave in polite society

Or you can blame it on the anonymity afforded by the internet and the subsequent lack of repercussions for exhibiting boorish behavior.




pinkpleasures -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 2:59:50 PM)

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Actually not really. Just recently I was approached on line by someone I had never had contact with before and immediately he wanted to know if I would be interested in subbing to him. Oh and then wanted to know about my nipples! LOL

Not my kind of master.

cellis


IMO, not just not "your kind" but a fake to boot...real Doms and Masters have manners.

pinkpleasures




pinkpleasures -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 3:02:12 PM)

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And they should if they have egos that big. I reckon all Doms have to have egos to a certain point otherwise we couldn't do a lot of things we do. But some just get over bloated thinking no one would want to turn them down. I have had people contact my slave and my ex's when we were together, when told they were already taken the Dom (and I use this term lightly) said I am your Dom now, and you will know what it is to be owned by a real Dom. Or words to that effect.

WickedKev


Sir; i truely do not know any collared woman who has not received such messages...sometimes i woncder what makes some men tick.

pinkpleasures




pinkpleasures -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 3:05:41 PM)

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For one, the same reason that spam still comes in my email... because people who say "not interested" sometimes come arund. I've seen women with "no men" end up picking up a guy who just asked right. I've seen a "single black men" girl end up with a white couple. As long as reasking sometimes yields results, you will get people who reask.

Another reason is curiousity. Sometimes people want to know *why* they were rejected.

Somtimes they think it's just that they wrote it the wrong way. You are not seein gthe correct side of them, but if you just take the time to look, it will be different.

There are a number of reasons... and the simple truth is that persisting against "not interested" won't typically lower their chances (though I find it rather rude myself).

Jerry


i just had this experience. A man sent me a half-nude pic of Him rather than answering my questions about his values, and was extremely angry when i told him "no". Told me i was too sensitive and to get off the site..i just love seeing insults and silly commands in the email i get. *sigh*

pinkpleasures




mnottertail -> RE: why is it (10/31/2005 4:17:00 PM)

You know, goddamit.....

I send a naked picture to a woman, and say on your knees bitch.....

The reply I get is.....Oh, that looks like a penis, only smaller.

All you gals get hot and bothered about this in your secret ganglion.

I obviously am preaching to the WRONG choir......

LOL,

Ron
Great stories tho!!!!!




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