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Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 9:34:02 PM   
ObediantMan1


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Status: offline 		Just as most men like to watch women swallow cum, why do Dommes like to make men swallow their own cum????YuK>
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 9:41:36 PM   
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 9:47:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm, i don't particularly like to "watch" a woman swallow my cum.  It is much more about the feel, and the continuing of the blowjob through the most intense part; a pleasurable sensation approaching, and sometimes bypassing that of pain.  At that time, i've generally got my eyes rolled into my head or squeezed shut and seeing spots; begging (or thinking) "Stop, Stop; PLEASE DON"T STOP!!!"  The rest is about waste and mess, i'm personally squicked about cum touching my skin; if it's not going into a condom, i'd rather it go into a mouth.  And the "money shot" never did anything for me either; again, it's a waste of perfectly good semen.

But about dominant women?  i'd believe that much of it is due to the attraction of making a man do something he wouldn't do himself and is, in fact, averse to doing.


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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 9:50:34 PM   
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 9:52:00 PM   
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 10:55:16 PM   
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This isnt wank material.  This is a question because I have a wager with my domme and HER desire is to force me to do that.   Swallowing is as close to a hard limit as I have.  The thought is discusting.

If I win a pool, I get some nice benefits,  If I lose, ...well I would rather not think about it.....that is something girls normally do:)

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 10:58:30 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: ObediantMan1

If I lose, ...well I would rather not think about it.....that is something girls normally do:)


Well, there's two reasons right there.

Why don't you just swallow your ummm... pride... and make her happy.  That in itself should be a nice benefit, and lead to even more of its' own.

i myself am not personally looking forward to possibly doing this, it's not one of my kinks though it's also not a hard limit.  Just saying.


< Message edited by darchChylde -- 6/10/2008 11:00:42 PM >

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:00:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		See it is intersting...Women think a man swallowing his own cum is yank material.   But men know that a split second after they START to cum, the desire to do anything a woman wants dissapates.

Women will taste their cum all night, but men lose that urge to obey quickly...so ladies, it is not what you think.  

My domme likes the idea because she knows it is a MIGHTY sign of submission...

One point for the males....the girls just think it is wank....sorrrrrry, you ladies are wrong on this one.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:04:32 PM   
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But men know that a split second after they START to cum, the desire to do anything a woman wants dissapates.



i would ask you to keep this as an observation of your own personal reaction... my desire to submit is not sexually motivated, nor is it decreased after a load.  Look at it this way, your dominant has allowed you to do something that you find highly enjoyable; why would you suddenly think your job is done?  Isn't your cumming something that is done for her anyways?

Edited to Add:  i can't believe that i'm the one playing Devil's Advocate on this particular subject.


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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:12:32 PM   
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:14:38 PM   
ObediantMan1


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Status: offline 		Pretty lady, you really dont know this topic....not unless of course you have had a sex change operation...

Post orgasm from men would be a very interesting topic to discuss .....The girls might even learn some things about men...

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:18:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just a very basic question of which I know the answer....Do Women yank?  Would love an answer.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:21:17 PM   
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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/10/2008 11:28:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd say that it being a big taboo is the reason a Dom desires it. You are giving up some of your gender identity in your submission. By accepting a "female only" sexual chore you are giving ultimate tribute.
Ingesting anything during a scene can be a pretty symbolic gesture- that you are accepting what your Dom gives you. It could also be a behavioral mod as either a punishment for cumming or simply an extension of cleaning up after your waste. Some Doms extend this to any excretion including piss, shit and vomit.
I know that when I switch I find it erotic for a man to eat cum in general jsut because I am turned on by a lack of sexual limits including what most people consider gender or orientation roles. My sub started out with cuckhold fantasies. When I command him to clean up his mess, from my body (inside and out) he eats his own cum imagining that the cum is that of the bull who fucks me with a bigger, better (usually black) cock.
He isn't attracted to men, but is turned on by forced bi stuff. He seems to enjoy it.
The general benefits of eating cum can't hurt either. There are vitamins/minerals and protien not to mention studies showing it fights depression. You can drink more water, eat fruit and avoid spicy stuff (cigs an alcohol don't help) to make it taste better.
I'd suggest trying it a few times (even by yourself) to see if you can really handle it without affecting your next scene. You may even develop a taste for it and I'm sure your Dom would be thrilled. If you don't make it a hard limit, but dislike it, it will be an excellent punishment for you.
An I shouldn't even have to say it but- it's YOUR cum. No one elses- it's not a "gay" thing to do. Technically it's masturbatory when it's your own.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 2:00:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: darchChylde

Edited to Add:  i can't believe that i'm the one playing Devil's Advocate on this particular subject.



Hey Darch, i cant believe you said

" i'm personally squicked about cum touching my skin; if it's not going into a condom, i'd rather it go into a mouth. "

Hopefully this isnt your chat up line when trying to obtain a BJ

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 3:36:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

Edited to Add:  i can't believe that i'm the one playing Devil's Advocate on this particular subject.



Hey Darch, i cant believe you said

" i'm personally squicked about cum touching my skin; if it's not going into a condom, i'd rather it go into a mouth. "

Hopefully this isnt your chat up line when trying to obtain a BJ


Honestly, it's never been a huge deal for me.  i've had so many bad blowjobs, unenthusiastic blowjobs and painful attempts at deep-throating that i never bring up the idea any more.  If she does, she does; if not, oh well.  i'll bury my face in her thighs; explore her body with my hands, fingers, lips and tongue but i won't shove myself in her face; leaving it to be her idea, and generally lay back and appreciate the effort.  Not to say that i haven't had good or even great blowjobs; they've just been so few and far between that it's not a focus for me.  As far as chatting anything up, i'm not that good at talking dirty beyond innuendo.


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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 4:00:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well... my personal opinion about the OP:

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I make my subs eat their filthy mess because porn sites are so FULL of shots of women with spooge all over their faces, sucking it up, licking it, snowballing...  I think its GOOD for a man to know exactly what it tastes like.  Then, they don't get so excited about wanting a woman to 'enjoy his blessings'. 

Honestly, every single sub that I have looked horrified at the thought the first time, then eagerly lapped that mess off  my fingers.  Some happily lick it off the floor!  They all knew damned well from the get go that if they didn't do it for me, they would be out the door.

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And -BTW- It's not a Domme thing for me to make men do it.  It's a Female Supremest 'thing'.    I strongly disagree with the idea that there are "Male" actions and "Female" actions.  Anything that a man expects a Woman to do - he Damned Well better be willing to do it himself!


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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 5:13:03 AM   
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It's pretty straight up about making him do something mildly (or more, depending on the guy) humiliating...with a touch of "if you want someone else to consume it, you ought to know what it's like" thrown in.
Also, I personally find it hot.

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 5:22:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		my mistress loves me swallowing my cum also  she takes it from me one way or another only to give it back to me until next time that we play  love snowballs and creampies ..watching it drip from her into my open mouth is very erotic indeed  have fun mal

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RE: Cum, Dommes making subs swallow - 6/11/2008 5:22:59 AM   
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