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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 5:58:45 PM

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sorry players??
like people who use people to get sex?

again i would base my decision whomever the person is, on honest commuication

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I cast a scenario for you to judge the players. Purely imaginary, complete as described.

How would you judge such a situation?

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:01:46 PM

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In the scenario I described to you--whom is guilty of what between the "non-cheating" and "cheating" partners?

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:02:39 PM

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my excuse is being cheated on several times
should i not base my judgments on life expericnes?!?!?

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the only difference to me is...
if you were honest and commuincated with your partner at the time that you had evolving feelings with someone else that might eventually effect the outcome of your relationship (which it did)
it is not the sexual action that bothers me it is the mental excuses that people use to make themselves feel better about hurting a "partner"

i also would like to add that this isn't about YOU
you have made this about yourself by your own guilt im assuming
it is about all cheaters, hence why i feel there is NO EXCUSE FOR CHEATING

And what mental excuses will be used by you for being overly judgemental...There are, as many have said to you ,multiple shades of grey in life,yet you fail to concede a one, while sitting in judgement of anothers action how does that play out on your moral scale...

sorry backseatbebe that one doesn't hold water with me ,and if I need to explain why just see earlier post.It is my experience that partners in meaningful and satisfying relationships are much less prone to cheat...now not knowing you and not wanting to judge you based on some postings I will not suggest that your previous relationships were lackig in these departments...I would caution though the whole scarlet letter thing has been tried before and found lacking....

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:16:09 PM

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this isnt a guilty of what thread
it is a do you think cheating is always wrong thread

talking in circles wont change the fact that i think cheating is always wrong
which i believe im entitled to, my opinion

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In the scenario I described to you--whom is guilty of what between the "non-cheating" and "cheating" partners?

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:20:29 PM

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this isnt a guilty of what thread
it is a do you think cheating is always wrong thread

talking in circles wont change the fact that i think cheating is always wrong
which i believe im entitled to, my opinion

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In the scenario I described to you--whom is guilty of what between the "non-cheating" and "cheating" partners?

Avoiding answering straightforward questions does not make for persuasive presentation of positions.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:47:40 PM

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no im just bored of your approach to conversation
not my fault you arent entertaining enough to keep a conversation stimulating
and i have better things to do then explain my "foundations" over and over again
ohh and no need to be persuasive since it is my opinion
and i have already won over myself, yup i think i do agree with myself so nope no persuasive presentation needed

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:56:16 PM

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 6:59:49 PM

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and i have better things to do then explain my "foundations" over and over again

Awww! Please don't stop

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:05:30 PM

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lol well if you insist!!!

but really
the conversation has gone
me: i think this... blah blah blah
cl: you have no foundations, explain them
me: explain myself
cl: that is wrong because i see flaws in your foundation. how about i skirt around the issues several times and see if you change your mind
random people: stop being so judgemental about people who hurt others
me: boring and still have the same opinion, next

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:06:38 PM

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Sucks to be wrong, doesn't it?

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:08:29 PM

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is that a fact or an opinion?!?!
i would like your foundations of that fact, if so
and dont worry im already sure it will be flawed

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:15:26 PM

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i would like your foundations of that fact,

Gag! Please, enough foundations already.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:22:47 PM

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this isnt a guilty of what thread
it is a do you think cheating is always wrong thread

Actually the thread is "Am I the Only person who has ever been a 'cheater?'" thread not a "do you think it's wrong" thread. Most people have responded to the topic as "yes i have" or "no i haven't" and most opinions have been about what is ok for them rather than some global truth as to what is ok or not. I for one don't like to be told what my morals should be but I don't mind hearing what other people prefer in their own lives.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:22:53 PM

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It is the order of things

(kittin, that's your cue for comic relief)

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:24:18 PM

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Don't me not need no cue, nopers.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:44:57 PM

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Cupcakes and hot sex for anyone who's posted in this thread???

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:46:50 PM

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Cupcakes and hot sex for anyone who's posted in this thread???

I'm down with that!

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:48:15 PM

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Cupcakes and hot sex for anyone who's posted in this thread???

Sounds good to me.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:48:50 PM

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You are such a tart CL. One whiff of cupcakes and you're there.

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RE: Am I the only person here who has been a "chea... - 6/12/2008 7:51:08 PM

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as if cupcakes and hot sex weren't enough, now i'm thinking about tarts too....

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