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Kasia -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/2/2005 1:51:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 ,...days like recently when i did 4 loads of laundry, cleaned both bathrooms, AND did 4 hrs of yardwork.. I want to steal you.

lonewolf05 -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/2/2005 1:57:20 PM)
tsk tsk naughty naughty.....lol wink

nelbot -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/2/2005 2:30:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elegant Here is a description of one of our typical evenings that I posted months ago in reply to a similiar post ~~~~~~~ A Normal Evening Master Archer calls me as he leaves work. That gives me time to clean myself up and attire myself befitting the evening: usually a leather body harness, high heels and stockings and makeup freshly applied. I crush some ice for his Coke and slice a lime for ganish. A plate of cheeses and crackers or other tasty nibble awaits on the coffee table. He arrives home and I greet him kneeling just inside the door. He pauses to allow me to remove his boots then I rise to take his briefcase or lunchbag or other items he may be carrying. After allowing him time for a nature call I help him remove his work clothing and dress him in something more comfortable: usually his black silk boxers and a cotton t-shirt. (Wintertime includes his fleece robe and leather slippers) Master then takes over the sofa and I offer him his beverage and snack...kneeling as I present it to him. Often he hand feeds me some of the snack. He then rests and watches the news while I finish preparing whatever I have started earlier for dinner. His favorite lately is tuscan italian or thai. I serve him dinner in a white apron only..and the heels. The table is set for one with linen table cloth, linen napkins and good china every night unless he prefers to eat outside. I serve him his food and beverage and then kneel at his side in anticipation that he may need something. When he is finished his dinner he goes to check his emails, chat or do other computer related activities. I take this time to eat, clean the kitchen and change into evening attire: nothing but heels and a leash on my collar. I then join him, kneel at his side and await whatever sadistic play he has in mind for the evening. Yea...right....sure. Master and I both work from home. He finishes about 5:00 and comes downstairs in his work attire: jeans or shorts and a t-shirt. I bring him his cigarettes and refille his soda glass and he goes to watch the news. Im wearing shorts and a tank top or a 'work' dress (lightweight and paint splattered). I usually go back to the basement/workshop and do some more work and he catches a nap or we might actualy do a bit of yardwork together. If the kids are here he might take the boy to Scouts or we are at a soccer or Lacrosse practice. Dinner on the weeks we don;t have the kids is usually about 9:00..he eats in front of the tv (I do serve him) and I read at the table while I eat. (I dont enjoy eating in front of the tv). He puts his own dishes in the dishwasher and I clean up the rest of the kitchen. If the kids are here we all sit at the dinner table about 7:00 for dinner and family discussion. On nights the kids are not here I do ask him for permission to go to bed but it is usually phrased similiar to 'Master...Im gonna call it a night..ok?' Some nights, especially if the kidlets are here, we might rent a movie or go shopping or play board games. Computer time is a fought after premium...at least till we can afford for everyone to have their own pc. We also do all those usual vanilla activities like going to the bathroom, taking the dog for a walk, talking to neighbors, etc. etc. Reality M/s relationships are usually not fodder for best sellers. This is hillarious, and so true. Real life marches on, it is rarely the exciting romantic stuff of fiction. I think it is unrealistic to expect any more.

riversimplicity -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/3/2005 11:31:29 AM)
quote: This is hillarious, and so true. Real life marches on, it is rarely the exciting romantic stuff of fiction. I think it is unrealistic to expect any more. LOL I was reading through this entire post and wondering when someone would stumble upon something that sounded more like MY real life. YUP, I'm a slave, I'm owned by my Master. A typical day? Well, if i'm pulling a shift that day it looks like this: I'm an RN. I get up at 5:30 in the morning (or try to...LOL...usually I only manage to hit the snooze button a dozen times), pee, go downstairs let the dog out, start the coffee pot that the kids prepped the night before and stare at it until it finishes brewing. In the meantime, Master stumbles grogily down the stairs and sits foggy-eyed on the couch whilst I stare at the coffee pot that's taking FOREVER to brew. The children get up and cause all sorts of noise and choas while they fight over who is getting the last bowl of Fruit Loops. Usually I do serve Master his coffee, unless the kids got up before me and they will make both our cups (such good kids...lol...not mentioning here that the kids grumble at such requests for "favors" like would you please cook dinner, etc). We drink our coffee. I put on my make-up, rush to the bathroom where I'll do my hair and throw on my scrubs and rush out the door after pecking Master on the cheek. He'll tell me to drive carefully, and then I'm off. I'll then spend twelve hours wiping people's butts, mopping up vomit, dealing with egotistical doctor's who think they are the king of the world, pushing pills and cramming in paper work. I'll drive home, slump into the house where Master has trained the kids to take all my things I'm carrying (stethescope, ID badge, etc) and put them away and bring me an icy cream soda. My daughter will serve me dinner, we'll put the kids to bed, and I'll subsequently nod off on the couch while Master watches TV. He'll shoo me to bed an hour or so later, I'll half remember him doing so. Crawl into bed, and wake up to do the same thing the next day. If I'm not working, we'll hang out and watch TV, surf the net, or play our guitars together until the peace and quiet has to end because its 2:30 in the afternoon and I have to go get the kids from school. LOL...yes, Master is in charge. He has regulations for my clothing. If we're eating together, I don't start until he's had his first bite, then I can dig in. I don't leave a room without some sort of nod to where I'm going. Master is in charge of the finances, and just about every other aspect. Its just played out quite boringly. On occasion we'll "step things up" and have our days of intense regulations. These are few and far between, because they only happen when the kids are gone to their father's and I'm not working on a weekend day. So there's my typical day. LOL not at all exciting Just life

SoulBelow -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/8/2005 6:44:28 AM)
Like everyone has said there really aren't any hard or fast rules. The only thing you need to know is that you want to be there and you want to serve. My master will have days where he'll hardly touch me and other days he'll shower me with hugs and kisses. I do everything for him when he gets home from work because I love to. He will ask me to get him a drink if we're watching a movie but most of the time he just assumes I will ask if he wants anything. Sometimes I'll curl up at his feet to watch tv, sometimes he'll want me to sit on the sofa with him so he can cuddle me. Sometimes he'll want to have sex and will let me come, other times he'll just take what he wants and leave me wanting. Sometimes he's gentle, sometimes he's rough. It varies greatly but all I need to know is that I'm wanted and loved and that I'm pleasing him. I'm happy if he's happy and thats the way it works for us. He is a considerate master though and he considers my feelings but if he tells me to do something I do it without question. I trust him with my life. I am his and thats all I need to know to live my life and be happy.

slavejali -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/14/2005 4:33:51 AM)
quote: I really need to know what a slave actually is required by her Master to do in any given day. For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing? yes, although Master sometimes tells me what to wear and he tells me if he doesnt like something. quote: Do you sit at the table and eat with him? . Yes pretty much all the time.If we go out to eat, he will tell me where to sit quote: Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission? If im tired i tell Master and wait for his permission. quote: Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship? Both quote: And what about bondage, spanking and sub space? Dont really understand the question here, you want to know if we do those things? yes...well Master will use a cane, flogger, hunk of wood (which he calls a paddle lol), switches, more so than his hand, He doesnt really spank me a lot cept for a playful slap on the butt here and there thru the course of the day. Master also uses needles, electricty and scalpels (thats a new one for me just recently..He has given me this most amazing blood tattoo using a scalpel grin still flying from that one~!) quote: I have read until my eyeballs are about to pop out, but no one seems to mention the actual details of what they have actually had to do to for their Master in order to please him.. The main way that i please Master as a slave is to obey him. There are other ways i please him, i have a wonderful sense of humor, we have similiar extensive travel histories in which we can share experiences, we have common hopes and dreams in which we share, we both love gourmet cooking, he says im the first slave or woman he has been with who can actually cook, so im sure i please him that way. im creative and artistic, i think this please him...oh and i have the most beautiful smile He says, so pretty sure that pleases him too grin im adventrous...that pleases him. Just stuff you know? Regards to subspace i will have to look up the definition for that, i do experience all kinds of altered states of mind during our different interactions, from the subtle to the intense.

inneedoflez -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/15/2005 12:33:34 AM)
I am glad to see you read and searched before taking the easy road of asking someone else. I agree with many of the PP that it truly is up to your master, everything that you asked. So ask your self first how You would answer those questions and then find out if the Master you are interested in has similar answers to those questions. That is my best advice. "I really need to know what a slave actually is required by her Master to do in any given day. For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing?" First let me say, this goes along with being a good listener, listen to your Master and learn his likes/dislikes. My Master has made it clear what he likes and dislikes as far as clothing is concerned. He also allows me to wear "My style" as long as he finds it tasteful for the occasion. I always wear a collar or symbol of ownership. I have 2 collars, one for vanilla wear and one for at home wear. "Do you sit at the table and eat with him?" I eat at the table with Master because it is what He wants. I did however explain to him that I did not want to eat on the floor and that I did not want to be treated like an 'dog'. He approved of my concern and we agreed on it. Remember to voice your opinion in the beginning of the relationship. And set boundaries from the beginning, agree on these. "Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission?" I go to bed when Master says so. But again Talk about this in the beginning, let your Master know what would best make you happy and ask him to agree on that on occasion. Like if your sick and need to go to bed early. I mean a Master does need common sense. If something is bad for Your health and He shows no interest then I would suggest that he is not a for you( if your health concerns you). Now on another note... I please Master in the evenings before bed, after dinner,tv,cleaning up, family time. When Master is done with the session I ask him how he wants me to sleep sometimes this can include being bound all night, or sleeping with his cock in my mouth and sometimes I am allowed to sleep how ever I choose. Which is always Unbound...But I told my Master that I was ok with this and this was something He requested because He enjoys it. All Masters are different and will expect something different. "Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship?" I have chores as well as my sexual duties and his expectations that I must fill each and everyday. I think that this again depends on your Master but almost all Masters want a slave/sub to be domestic especially if its a live-in 24/7 situation. "And what about bondage, spanking and sub space?" Ahhhh .... as for this question. AGAIN it is up to the Master you choose to serve so choose your Master wisely do not "rush" into something if your not comfortable in the situation. As for myself, Master enjoys flogging, bondage, anal sex, cock worship, play rape, cock worship, suspension, pushing my limits( this does not include Hard Limits), did I mention he really likes cock worship? He enjoys giving me a good spanking if I am defiant, rude, 'bad girl', masturbate and orgasm without permission. As for sub space.... I feel that in my relationship I am in some level of 'sub space'. I always aim in my day to day life even in the vanilla to please Master. But isn't that how it is in most vanilla relationships, the other tries hard to please the mate? In a deep trance of sub space is mostly during session, or times of punishment. I also want to address this issue only because a lot of Master do not allow "slaves" to own possessions of their own. I have my private possessions. My personal things. Family heir looms, decorative things, jewelry, personal care items, perfume, shampoo, etc... A day for me is, waking Master with a blow job( sometimes he wakes me when he begins intercourse only when I am in bondage all night) I shower and bath Him, then I take my shower while he dresses. We sometimes cook breakfast together, or I do alone. We eat tg and he goes to work I clean the kitchen get the baby up make sure the kids are off to school, I run errands first to make sure I am home when he gets home. When I arrive home from errands I clean, do laundry, vacuum, mop, dust, fold clothes, etc... I make dinner and have it ready for him when he arrives we as a family sit and eat dinner, watch tv and I wait for his signal that it is time for bed. we have a session, I say my nightly prayer and I ask how he wishes for me to sleep, he decides. And I wake up and start all over again. I hope that this gives you an idea of "One slaves" journey in life. I enjoy everything that I do with my Master and I have chosen and agreed to do these things. First know what you do and do not expect or want to happen. Then choose your Master based on your opinion. This will help sort out "unwanted" Masters. Or Master who do not fit your expectations. I wish you the best in luck on your journey! InNeed

LadiesBladewing -> RE: a typical day for a slave (11/15/2005 4:55:28 AM)
It's important not to get too hung up on what you call yourself. What is important is that you're in the right relationship for you. Everything else comes in time. We get completely out of the sub/slave discussion in our house. We have servants. The magnitude to which they indenture themselves in service depends on the servant, but our preference is and will always be the servant whose very -life- is indentured to us. With this in mind, I will answer the following by what we would expect from a servant who was completely indentured to our household, and who had served with us for, say, several years... quote: For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing? A servant in our household would have hir clothing evaluated, at some point, and appropriate clothing would be purchased to make sure that xhe would always be dressed in ways that were pleasing to us. Aside from this, xhe would likely select daily clothing hirself, with the understanding that SilverRose or myself could say, at any time, "I don't like that, go change into 'x'." quote: Do you sit at the table and eat with him? In a formal setting, our servant would not join us at the table, unless xhe were kneeling at either my side or SilverRose's side, awaiting an opportunity to serve. In a truly formal setting, xhe would be stationed in a corner of the room, standing easily, and awaiting to tend, discretely and courteously, to any need that our guests might have... but on a day-to-day basis, xhe would likely be welcomed to join one or both of us where we were eating. We might also, especially during training or when we were feeling especially inclined, require that our servant could take no food unless it came directly from our hand. For the most part, though, day-to-day, our servant is a member of our household, and would likely, informally, share meals with us, once xhe'd taken care of serving us and had obtained permission/instruction to prepare hirself a plate. quote: Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission? Ideally, our servant would have a schedule, and there would be a designated bed-time. If we were at home, xhe would be expected to remain up while -we- were up, and continue to serve us until we went to bed, and if xhe was particularly tired for some reason, would have to ask to be excused to go to bed, and would have to make sure that we were taken care of before going. In the case where the schedule was "thrown off" for some reason (guests, holiday, a trip), our servant would have to ask permission to be excused to retire for the evening, unless we had already retired (in which case, if xhe wanted to stay up for some reason, xhe would -also- have to ask permission to remain up after we had retired). quote: Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship? This depends -entirely- on the individual relationship. Our property is ours, completely indentured. If we choose to use hir sexually, xhe is ours to do so. If we choose not to, xhe is also ours to make that choice with. quote: And what about bondage, spanking and sub space? Again, this may have a place in any given relationship or it may not, at the Owner's discretion. quote: I have read until my eyeballs are about to pop out, but no one seems to mention the actual details of what they have actually had to do to for their Master in order to please him.. The best place to go for these answers is to your Owner. Ask him the exact same questions, and he can tell you what it will mean in -your- relationship. Since that is the only one that counts -for you-, that is the only truly important information that will make any sense or make any difference in your own life. Lady Zephyr

FelinePersuasion -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/26/2007 12:10:16 PM)
see now, that can't be widely defined. Each person has their own preferance, that guy over there may say no you do not pick your own clothes and you will not sit at the table, and the guy over therre to the left might demand the total opisit. cookie cutter D/s of what is and isn't allowed just don't work logically. I'm not a slave, but I am submisive to him, and yes I wear my own clothing pick my own things out. I take naps when I need to. He knows not allowing me to nap will just result in crankyness and emotional melt downs from being to tired later. I also eat with him when he's here andi t's meal time.Neither of us believe in segregated eating, nor do we usualy eat at a table when we eat. it's usualy in my room in front of the tv as we chill. However that would not of flown with my X. he believed that the D ate first and then the s ate when Master signified. He was also bigger on protocal. including how to greet him, , and when to speak freely. There's no cut out template for every submissive or slave. It is a thoughsand percent differnt from D/s relationship to D/s relationship. quote: ORIGINAL: closedspirit I For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing? Do you sit at the table and eat with him? Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission? Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship? And what about bondage, spanking and sub space? I

FelinePersuasion -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/26/2007 2:54:48 PM)
that's cause ya are watching it lol. appliances always take forever when ya watch and wait for them:P quote: ORIGINAL: riversimplicity whilst I stare at the coffee pot that's taking FOREVER to brew.

velvetears -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/28/2007 8:25:14 AM)
i read this article a while back and always remembered it as an excellent piece depicting what a day in the life of a slave might entail. i hope you find it helpful. The sight is called http://www.enslavement.org.uk/essays You need to find this article: So you want to be a slave? by miria hunter 6th one down from the top. Another excellent site is http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/generalbdsm.htm#terms

afeathr -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/28/2007 1:51:09 PM)
As others have already said... alot of what you are asking is going to be answered with: "it depends". The thing you have to keep in mind is that generally you do what your Master/Dominant desires. Therefore, you need to know your limits (hard and soft) and convey those early on (within the first few meetings, at least - if not before) and make sure that, at least, those things are compatible. Everyone on CM will have a little different story about their daily life. The only thing you can do is get together with a Dom, even if he just turns out to be a 'trainer' or friend, and see what it's all about. You also need to know, in your own mind and heart, what you are seeking... that's the hardest part to all of this. Do you want to serve, or are you just about sexual submission? Do you desire to be owned or do you just want to play? There are many aspects that need to be considered, but in the end you must know what you want and convey that to whomever you end up with. I don't have a "typical" day, but I can tell you that every thing I do is done with Sir in mind. I don't get up in the morning or go to bed at night without him and my every thought considers his wants, needs and desires (And he saw me typing this and wanted me to add that he is very happy with that thought). However, this is me - not you. What you want may be very different from what I want. But, in the end... I do wish you luck in your search for "yourself" and hope that you find what you seek.

afeathr -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/28/2007 1:57:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elegant Here is a description of one of our typical evenings that I posted months ago in reply to a similiar post ~~~~~~~ A Normal Evening Master Archer calls me as he leaves work. That gives me time to clean myself up and attire myself befitting the evening: usually a leather body harness, high heels and stockings and makeup freshly applied. I crush some ice for his Coke and slice a lime for ganish. A plate of cheeses and crackers or other tasty nibble awaits on the coffee table. He arrives home and I greet him kneeling just inside the door. He pauses to allow me to remove his boots then I rise to take his briefcase or lunchbag or other items he may be carrying. After allowing him time for a nature call I help him remove his work clothing and dress him in something more comfortable: usually his black silk boxers and a cotton t-shirt. (Wintertime includes his fleece robe and leather slippers) Master then takes over the sofa and I offer him his beverage and snack...kneeling as I present it to him. Often he hand feeds me some of the snack. He then rests and watches the news while I finish preparing whatever I have started earlier for dinner. His favorite lately is tuscan italian or thai. I serve him dinner in a white apron only..and the heels. The table is set for one with linen table cloth, linen napkins and good china every night unless he prefers to eat outside. I serve him his food and beverage and then kneel at his side in anticipation that he may need something. When he is finished his dinner he goes to check his emails, chat or do other computer related activities. I take this time to eat, clean the kitchen and change into evening attire: nothing but heels and a leash on my collar. I then join him, kneel at his side and await whatever sadistic play he has in mind for the evening. Yea...right....sure. LMFAO - oh... how wonderful it would be if life were so easy. You have made the most salient point of all... life is pretty "normal" even for M/s or D/s lifestylers... it's funny how fantasy overrides reality when first entering into the concept. We want to be the sex-kitten, the "slave," the sexual seductress, but real life tends to get in the way. However... I could see you painting ( or whatever it is that you do) with just a smock on and nothing else... especially if you work at home. That would be sexy. [;)] I know that Sir would LOVE for me to be naked all of the time when we are at home, but we have a roommate (who is a guy) and that would be a bit awkward. I fully expect, however, that when we get into our own place (next summer, hopefully) that that will change... however, we are moving to Pennsylvania where it's COLD though Sir has said I will be allowed to wear clothing to keep myself comfortable... isn't that sweet of him?? It's either that or he will have a subcicle.

masterchuck58 -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/30/2007 5:58:24 AM)
Hi I am a Master and I have a sub and a slave My slave can choose her own clothing unliss there is something I want her to ware, she can sit at the table and eat most of the time.she has to ask permission to do do what she want's to do. like go to bed go to the bathroom.have a smoke, eat,go some were thing like that.there is sexual domestic servitude there is bondage, spanking and any thing eles I want to do with her and yes there is sub sace. MasterChuck58

mymasterssub69 -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/30/2007 7:09:51 AM)
i'm a daughter/submissive not a slave since Daddy and i don't live together, my typical day varies from time to time except a few things remain constant. every morning and evening, we chat online. it helps to begin my day whether i work on reviews/interviews of bands, listen to new music for the station, and care for my 2 girls from meds, doctor appts and specialists (for my oldest due to her disability) and schools, etc to do household chores (laundry, shopping ). during the middle of the day (if He's not busy between patients), Daddy might call and we'll talk for 10 to 15minutes before His next appt arrives. then it's back to my afternoon/evening routine of cooking and/or getting ready for a concert if i happen to schedule a band review that night. if i'm not working, i take time out and spend time with the girls, get them ready for tomorrow and work on reviews and answer emails from bands while waiting for Daddy. my day ends with Daddy talking about our day. some nights if i'm lucky i will get my full 7hrs of sleep ...others (when working) i'll get 4 to 5hrs with plenty of coffee or tea in the morning after getting home between 2 to 3a. i don't need to ask permission from Daddy when to sleep, go to the bathroom, etc because He wouldn't be able to answer my calls every single minute that i want to do something. plus He's a very private individual and keeps stuff like this behind doors due to His reputation and place in the medical community. the only time i must ask His permission is when i want to attend non-work related events or go out on a date

behindmirrors -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/30/2007 7:21:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: closedspirit For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing? Do you sit at the table and eat with him? Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission? Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship? And what about bondage, spanking and sub space? I have read until my eyeballs are about to pop out, but no one seems to mention the actual details of what they have actually had to do to for their Master in order to please him..<formatting changed by me> To answer all these, and throw in some extra details: I am allowed to choose my own clothing, unless there is a particular event he has planned, etc., in which case he gives me the specifications of what he would like me to include or not include in my outfit, colors, or what he will be wearing so we don't clash, etc., but I am almost always allowed to pick it out myself. He can approve or disapprove- but so far I have only had approvals. For day to day clothing, I choose what suits what I am doing, what the weather is like, and how I'm feeling. He has never really wanted to micro-manage that, I don't think, and I don't mind- I think he and I can both agree that I have good taste, and that's enough. When we are sitting at the table, yes, I do sit with him. Often, since we're extraordinarily busy lately, we will eat in the office or on the run or wherever, so there's no established protocol. I always make sure to prepare and serve his meal before my own- not by his command but because I find it to be a way to show respect for him and a literal way of putting his needs before my own. If we are out, anything goes, haha- we usually eat out if we're feeling lazy or if we just want to have some "date time" to break the monotony. I am allowed to go to bed when I please, or stay up- but out of courtesy, I will tell him before I retire that I am going to bed, and see if he needs anything before I do. There is no protocol for this with us- again, just something I see as courtesy. Since I work mornings much more frequently than he does, I often go to bed first- and always tell him I am doing so, give him a kiss, and do what I need to do. If I choose to stay up later, he tells me that he is going to bed as well and I get a kiss. As a slave, I serve in any way that is requested of me that I can. This includes household tasks and sexual things- though I am expected to be active in this, and not simply awaiting command. If I'm feeling frisky, I make a move on him and see if it flies. I take care of things when I see them needing done around the house (and I have time with school/work, which come first). We're not amazingly concerned about having every little thing being neat and perfect around the house, haha. I also extend this service to running errands, holding down and doing well at my job, and doing well in school- all things which are beneficial to me and to our lives. As for bondage, spanking and subspace- well, if I really want something, I can ask for it. Spankings mostly happen during some kind of sexual play, and I am not disciplined physically- a discussion is generally more than enough for me to change my ways and strive to correct my errors! I am welcome to make requests to him, and he decides if I have earned them or not (I've found that a good blow job really helps my prospects in this, haha). If he gives it to me, it's wonderful, and if not, well, no real loss either. I'm expected to be open with him if I feel I need something like this, and though he does often initiate, he is making it clear that I am expected to seek these things, too. A typical day is generally really mundane, not that interesting, and involves a large lack of fantasy. I guess I always preferred to live in the "real world" anyway, so no great loss- I really don't think I'm missing out on anything. behindmirrors.

SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/31/2007 1:18:01 PM)
In my case as a male slave to my former German Mistress: - Most days She chose my clothing, and whether there would be any i.e. on weekends. - For meals, during weekdays i had to call Her for permission to go eat unless it was a work/client priority. On weekends, i was sometimes allowed to eat with Her at the table but more often than not was required to eat from a lower table while kneeling--- it varied as sometimes i was not allowed to eat. - Bedtime was set by Her after my evening worshipof Her and my bedplace was usually a small cot at the foot of Her bed, shackled in for the night. - My M/s relationship encompassed both domestic and sexual servitude- all the domestic chores, etc. - Furniture privileges were granted me on some days and on others not at all. - Since my sub-kinks and Her Domme kinks were very control driven and She was a sadist and i a masochist, yes there was regular bondage, whipping, sub-spacing, etc. - She also required my help on much of Her business work at the time so that can also occur depending....... ......in my case, She was German and as such much more formal and strict than most me-thinks so....

littleone35 -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/31/2007 2:48:54 PM)
In My case as i don't live ewith my Master it is a big difference. Master does not choose my clothes. I am a college student so my cloths basically consists of jeans, t- shirtd, and sweaters or sweatshirts. Master does not allow me a bra or pantied whrn we are together i an however asllowed to wear panties to school. Master always aloowes me to sit with him while eating he hates to eat alone. I call Master every morning and depending on how busy he is we may talk for 15 mins we may talk for an hour and he give me a ballpark time of the time he will be over, and he call me whrn he gets arouj\nd the cornor from my house so i can open the door for him. I greet him with a kiss and a hug and i ask what he wants to drink usually coffee or a soda and i get it for him. As for bedtime since we don't live together he tol me i can go to bed whenever i am tired. We dioon't do domestic but we do have sexual service. Sometimes i get spanked (play) sometimes i have bondage, and 90% of thet time i reach subspace. That is a day in my life. Matt's littleone

slavemaia -> RE: a typical day for a slave (1/31/2007 6:39:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: closedspirit I am fairly new to all of this and pondering whether I can be a slave vs. sub..I have not been in a situation where I have felt that I was able to truly submit to anyone, therefore, I am still lacking the knowledge/feelings asscoiated within a relationship. I have done alot of reading and researching and have learned a great deal, however to put it all in perspective I really need to know what a slave actually is required by her Master to do in any given day. For example, are you allowed to choose your own clothing? Do you sit at the table and eat with him? Are you allowed to go to bed when you are tired or do you have to wait for his permission? Is there sexual servitude or is it more domestic type servitude in a M/slave relationship? And what about bondage, spanking and sub space? I have read until my eyeballs are about to pop out, but no one seems to mention the actual details of what they have actually had to do to for their Master in order to please him.. The reality is you will find out what a typical day is like in your life as a sub or a slave, once you are with a Dominant you respect and crave serving in whatever form. Then He/She will tell you what They want and expect. There is no formula that's going to clue you into what it's like to be a slave or what differentiates a slave from a submissive. Find what fulfills you and do that. What it's called is not what's important. Quite frankly i'm not the one who decided i'm a slave, my Master did because He looked very deeply into me and saw my need to give all.

Arastella -> RE: a typical day for a slave (2/1/2007 10:17:13 AM)
Yeah I'd walk around naked too but......... considering we live with my parents, I think it'd be a bit awkward...... and id get cold. LOL!!!

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