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ORIGINAL: cinnfulhussy

Its hard to generalize a typical day but I'll try. I've been in service to Master for almost 8 years now and these are some generalizations:

I typically go to bed between 1 and 3 AM, as I work a late afternoon/evening shift. Master works nights, so he gets home around 8 AM. I get up at 7 every morning to let the dogs out and to try to be available when he gets home. If he is hungry, he will either call me on the way home, or wake me when he gets home. I typically ask him what he wants for breakfast. He usually wants something warm. Breakfast burritos are his favorite. I try to always keep the ingredients on hand. After breakfast, I will do the dishes, tidy the kitchen, and look at my chore list. I am not a neat freak or well organized, so he has set up a computerized checklist that helps me stay on track. It really helps me focus, and get all my chores done. Typically morning chores are, transfer laundry to drier, clean cat boxes, feed all the weebeasties, medicate whomever needs medicating, sweep the floors, make the bed <before he gets in to it>, work out, put up dishes if need be, and straighten my bathroom. Sometimes I take a nap somewhere inbetween the time he gets home, and the time I have to head off to work. Sometimes we sit on the couch together and chat, play on the computer together, watch TV, etc. Sometimes he will have me rub his feet, or his shoulders, scratch his head, give him a manicure, pedicure or a back rub. If he is feeling frisky, he might want sex before he goes to sleep and I head off to work.
I lay his clothes out, set his alarm, pack his dinner, and make sure he has something to snack on when he wakes up.
I know his personal preference in my clothing and adhere to it, as opposed to asking him each time if an outfit is ok. If I buy something he doesnt like, it goes to the good will. He generally prefers naked at home, weather permitting. He allows a bra since I'm busty. No panties, ever. He prefers skirts to pants, and knee length to long, in general. I am mindful of his preferences in styles, colors etc when I shop and when I dress for work. When we go out together, he prefers a more sultry look, sometimes overtly slutty, depending on the occasion. He is a firm believer in being appropriate for the given situation.
I wear his collar at all times, it passes as a pretty, yet thick silver choker at work. If coworkers want to go out for dinner, etc, I typically need to get permission.
After work, sometimes I go to his clinic, since its relatively close. If I did not have dinner prepared, I will stop at a place he likes and get something for him, and sometimes his technicians as well.
Some nights I go straight home, or run errands on the way home. I do all the shopping. He controls the money, and gives me an alloted amount for groceries, gas etc. If hes off, when I get home, I strip, and see if he needs anything before I start my evening chores. Evening chores are cleaning the cat boxes again, feeding the beasts, checking the mail, straightening up, choosing one area to declutter, cooking if need be, cleaning the kitchen again... etc.
On the weekends theres more domestic stuff to be done, changing sheets, towles, mopping etc. Blah!
A couple times a month we have something "lifestyle" to do with friends. Maybe a dinner, or play party, or more typically, a tavern party. We also socialize with his friends from work. While with the vanilla crowd, things are toned down but not absent. I'm still expected to defer to him, but not be glaringly obvious. No kneeling to present him with his drink, thats for sure. He allows me to take belly dance lessons, dance in a troupe, so that requires some practice time and class time. These are rewards and privledges, something that I have to beg for.
Our relationship is primarily M/s and does not tend to involve a lot of pain play, though he will indulge on occasion. Typically theres some kind of subtle pain involved during sex but nothing all that overt.
Speaking of which, Master just walked by and told me its bed time. Tah Tah for now :D