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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/13/2008 10:29:04 PM   
BotanicalMiss


Posts: 82
Joined: 11/19/2006
Status: offline 		I typically call male subs who aren't mine by their name or "boy". I sometimes call my current boy "brat boy" when he's being one, or "piglet" when being affectionate. I know "pig" is supposed to be a humiliation type thing, but it's rather personal between us. When we first met, he told me that "like all men, I am (he is) a pig when it comes to women." Based on that, he snorts on command and makes me laugh like crazy. So for us, "piglet" is quite a term of endearment. I called my former sub my "beast" because of the wonderful growling sound he made when I was doing something delightfully wicked to him and he couldn't decide if he loved it or hated it (usually both). So it's pretty much generic for most, and definitely personal for those I call mine.

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/13/2008 11:08:11 PM   
DelilahDeb


Posts: 429
Joined: 1/27/2008
Status: offline 		One sub I have given a specific sub name...not his given name, not a name that will draw attention, but uncommon enough that it isn't the name of every third male human around. For that matter, it is also, deliberately, a unisex name, because he occasionally wishes to cross-dress...so the name that I chose is not routinely associated with either gender (similar to Robin or Jean).

In general, to date, I just use their given names.

Delilah Deb

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 12:37:48 AM   
MsMillgrove


Posts: 260
Joined: 5/27/2008
Status: offline 		First girl:  tresor, toy and my pony  
Second girl: princess and sweetie
Uncollared play subs: boy or girl
shoe boy:  shoe slut
a boy owned by a dear friend: my old dog, my worm

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 3:02:59 AM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske
I'm just curious - if you met an unattached (or attached but not to you) Black submissive male, would you call him boy?


If I knew he was a submissive, yes, I would. It's a common name and being in the lifestyle, he knows that. I would, however, not use it if he stated he had issues with it.

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 3:07:49 AM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		I have heard:

boi/boy
gyrl/gurl/girl
pet
slut
whore
pup
kitty
pig
slave
slaveboy
slavegirl
sub
hey you
it
alpha (beta, etc)
born slave 1(2, 3, etc)
servant
major domo
Mr. (last name)
Ms. (last name)
given name


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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 3:09:38 AM   
Asherdelampyr


Posts: 9556
Joined: 11/14/2006
From: The Desert
Status: offline 		I call my pet, well my pet obviously
also precious, dear-heart, or ma petite when I am especially pleased (quite often, im easy to please)

for other subs I meet, I refer to them in the manner they were introduced to me, though I tend to refer to women as dearieand a lot of men as boyo (no idea why :P)


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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 3:23:44 AM   
SpiderInWaiting


Posts: 39
Joined: 10/17/2005
Status: offline 		For subs or slaves that are not mine I just call them by their name unless there is some other address that the slave's owner prefers to be used by others. I think calling a slave or sub something other than his name is inappropriate because it implys some sort of relationship. For slaves that are mine I call them various things depending what the situation is and the slave that I am with. I have called slaves bitch, whore, slut, cunt, pig, puppy, girl, boy, nigger/colored, and some others that I am not thinking of right now. I have also told male slaves that they are good girls. There have also been various adjectives attached to the names such as pathetic or dirty.



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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 3:40:34 AM   
SweetNika


Posts: 955
Joined: 4/19/2008
From: Forest Hills, Maryland
Status: offline 		Typically people call me Nika unless we have a repor or relationship of some kind. When  I was owned I loved being called Mine it would make me giddy.I have a good friend who calls me girl it makes me grin coming from him but annoys me coming from others.I have also been called slut, dirty whore, cock sucker and brat. Yes,  even brat can be a term of enderment.
 
Blessed be,
Nika

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 8:18:13 AM   
rubberpet


Posts: 1743
Joined: 4/6/2006
From: The Land of Voodoo
Status: offline 		Mistress usually refers to me as "pet", "rubberboy", or "Typhon", but She also addresses me as "Her Pikachu".  I have a very deep voice, but for a very odd reason I manage to get my voice really high and yell out, "Pika-Chu!!!", as I jump in the air a bit and flap my arms.

***shrugs***
 
It may rate on the cuteness scale somewhere, I guess...
 
On a side note, don't fuck with Pikachu because he'll shove a lightning bolt up your ass!!!

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 8:24:44 AM   
Puppy4goodHome


Posts: 1448
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: Beachwood Ohio and a few others
Status: offline 		I prefer Puppy or by one special Mistress Thumper
But will answer to what ever i am called aslong as the one calling me it has my respect

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 9:01:02 AM   
GoddessTeaze


Posts: 1125
Joined: 10/14/2006
From: The Netherlands
Status: offline
I've called My property
pussy, and that's truly the best nick even after 3 years,
other names we're teazeboy, posseduto.
I love to call him ho, cunt, bitch, slut,
whore, filthyfuck.

Gotto love to humiliate em!

Have a goodone!

GoddezzT`


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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 11:44:43 AM   
Shawn1066


Posts: 987
Joined: 10/7/2007
Status: offline 		Lessee, I can get called -many- variations of the following.  I'll include my favorites, in no particular order unless specified by parenthesis:

Fox(Probably the most common thing I get called)
My Love (Purr)
Shawn (Around family and friends of mine, and it always makes me feel like I've done something wrong. :-p)
My good boy (A favorite praise of mine)
My slut
Little one
My pretty girl (A favorite praise of mine)
My perfectly trained whore
My property
My baby fox
My good little housewife(A favorite of mine)

Now, nobody but my Owner gets to address me in such a manner.  If anything, I expect to be called sir by strangers.  Not that I require it, and I don't mean in the common dominant context.  I am an adult.  If I don't know you, then I am a sir until we're better aquainted.

DV's Fox

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 5:47:40 PM   
PsyVamp


Posts: 1026
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLemon

when he's in his object headspace he's My Unit .. Unit 0821 to be exact.
 

heh... I do call a certain someone 1421 ... but its not my wolf...

and yeah, every now and again I call him "baby" too

< Message edited by PsyVamp -- 6/14/2008 5:48:44 PM >

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 5:54:07 PM   
joyinslavery


Posts: 955
Joined: 6/21/2005
Status: offline 		Most of the time I get...

"You stupid f*cking dumbass!". 

I'm just wrong. 

Have fun. 

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 5:55:01 PM   
CruelnycMistress


Posts: 6
Joined: 12/19/2007
Status: offline 		I don't know why, but lately I have used "slut" a lot,
usually I just use "toy", or "boy toy",



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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 6:01:16 PM   
joyinslavery


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Joined: 6/21/2005
Status: offline 		.

< Message edited by joyinslavery -- 6/14/2008 6:02:33 PM >

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/14/2008 6:26:55 PM   
TexasMaam


Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline 		"manthing"

It just suits him SO well!

TM

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/16/2008 9:13:07 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		More often than not, I call My sub clip, because it's what I re-maned him.  My endearing term for him is lil one.  For steamier moments, I've been known to call him My lil slut.  Without thinking, I'll call him dear, hon, or babe.  Sometimes, I'll even call him My poor baby, or My poor lil thing, because I'm telling him how mean I am to  him. 

For other subs, I generally call them by name or by what the one who owns them wants them to be called.  In the case of a sub that I have a personal connection with, I will call them whatever name comes to Me when feeling close to them.


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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/16/2008 10:28:35 AM   
MistressDolly


Posts: 917
Joined: 8/24/2006
Status: offline 		mule.

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RE: different ways to address a submissive - 6/16/2008 12:20:41 PM   
PanthersMom


Posts: 2215
Joined: 11/26/2007
From: Cleveland Ohio
Status: offline 		it's cub when referring to him around others, baby when i'm calling him directly
PM

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