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Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:25:36 PM   
SissyChrissy2


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Status: offline 		Hi,

I've recently been in touch with a mistress who I met, before we met I put £100 into her account as a tribute. I then booked a hotel room and on the day I was informed I was to give another £200. By the end of the evening I had spent £1300 including hotel etc. I was told however it would no longer be financial and I was done for 12 months.

The next day I was told to pay a bill of £150 and that it was the last time to prove myself.

Just over a week later she says she wants to meet me again and to book a hotel and bring £200. When I get there I am ordered to pay another £200.

All in all I have paid approximately £2,000 in two visits. Should I dare to see this woman again? Is this normal or am I being taken for a ride?

Yours,

Sissy Chrissy
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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:29:51 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		you must be rich! can i have some of your $?

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:32:26 PM   
Usako


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Sorry but the moment you shelled out any money at all just to "meet' you were being played and taken for a ride. I don't know if it's normal, but it sure as hell sounds stupid.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:32:54 PM   
SissyChrissy2


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Status: offline 		I wish i were but that's more than a month of my wages.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:33:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		a big time ride...sounds like you are dealing with a scam artist.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:34:50 PM   
PanthersMom


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Status: offline 		*you should see her if you want to be supporting a pro, she may be a domme, but she's enjoying bleeding you dry 
*it is not "normal" amongst the "garden-variety" domme who does this for her own enjoyment, as in other than a professional. 
*taken for a ride?  already done!
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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:34:59 PM   
TwoNYCDommes


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Status: offline 		Well, it may be normal for a certain type of prodomme. 
Do you feel that you got your money's worth?

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:38:41 PM   
SissyChrissy2


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Status: offline 		not £2Ks worth but she has other subs who seem to still give her praise on her profile after a long time. Could it be a short term test or am i living in hope?

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:40:19 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SissyChrissy2

not £2Ks worth but she has other subs who seem to still give her praise on her profile after a long time. Could it be a short term test or am i living in hope?


other subs give her praise on HER profile????
Hon....she writes her own profile!!!!!!!!!!!


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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:41:06 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		just go to a dungeon..am sure there are many in your area...you pay one fee for the time that your there and thats it.  no hidden fee's.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 2:41:30 PM   
SissyChrissy2


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Status: offline 		but they're from other profiles on the site with pics etc.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 3:02:22 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Chrissy stop defending the actions , if your not happy with peeling off bills and giving them to her then be done with it .Its her job to get your money and from the sound of it she is doing a great job , if you feel your not getting your moneys worth do not pay .what she or her pals write on a profile mean s little its how you feel , and if your feeling like your being drained dry in the wallet there is a cure -CLOSE YOUR WALLET . 

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:06:43 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Is this normal or am I being taken for a ride?

Give me 5 quid and I'll tell you. 

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:10:55 PM   
pinnipedster


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Status: offline 		My feeling is certainly that you are being taken for a ride, yes.  If she told you that you were done paying and then demanded more, that's basically fraud in my book.

I have to admit that the thing that will immediately cause me to click of a Domme's profile are the words "financial domination" or slavery.  My only objection to pro Dommes is that they charge more than I can afford. :)  But if you're going to be a pro, then you should be like any other business.  Set a price, reach an agreement, and then stick to it, and deliver what the customer wants. 

I can certainly imagine a LTR D/s situation developing where I eventually wound up letting my Mistress handle the money.  But that would come only after very firm trust was established, and in a relationship that embraced more than just D/s.  The situation you describe seems more like that of a drug dealer upping the price on his product once the customer is hooked.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:11:58 PM   
sunshinemiss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: azropedntied

Chrissy stop defending the actions , if your not happy with peeling off bills and giving them to her then be done with it .Its her job to get your money and from the sound of it she is doing a great job , if you feel your not getting your moneys worth do not pay .what she or her pals write on a profile mean s little its how you feel , and if your feeling like your being drained dry in the wallet there is a cure -CLOSE YOUR WALLET . 


Now that is some good advice there....

And chrissy, you sure are sounding like a drama queen... just saying.


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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:20:07 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Sigh.  No one ever sends me large quantities of cash......

Of course, I wouldn't actually TAKE it if they did, but just sayin'.....

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:21:32 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		*sends LH a large quantity of monopoly money....

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 4:24:59 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Most pro Dommes are upfront about charges. This is a bad situation -- and I don't know what the going rates are in the UK, but you are paying an astronomical rate even for the most famous pro in USD. Of course, the dollar being as devalued as it is now....anyway, you should call an end to this.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 6:33:47 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		SissyChrissy..methinks you have more money than smarts.

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RE: Mistresses and tributes - 6/16/2008 6:44:44 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SissyChrissy2

but they're from other profiles on the site with pics etc.


"Dude"  who is to say that she didn't create these other profiles and pull random pictures off the 'net?



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