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-=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/17/2008 11:35:58 PM   
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I was rummaging through my files today and was reminded of an old online encounter.  Thought I would share it. 
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Sometimes the wares in a store window display are so very attractive, it inspires me to turn my head even if I’m not shopping for that item. 
 
So I had been getting sorta’ turned on by someone that was popping up over and over on the main dating site page as a filtered match.  I finally perved her profile and saw she made insightful comments about the type of relationship style I like best.  Further, she listed what she offered as a person to a relationship and explained what mutual goals she sought from it.  She was clear and concise about what she offered and what she wanted from an exchange. 
 
Looking at her photos I discover she has awesome nice girly parts as well as a the pretty face I had been seeing over and over.  But alas, she is so young and I am not really hunting anyway.  I am focused on rebuilding my business and my wealth.  More often than not, young girls like that take a bit of time to attend to, even if they seem to have a good head on their shoulders.
 
I received an email from her.  It was the most incredibly well mannered email.  It was written with the style and grace of a well seasoned slave that can use protocol in such an alluring way as to flirt with a Master in a respectful and elegant way.  I was charmed because she was dripping in demure vulnerability.  She had written to thank me for viewing her profile because she had always wanted to contact me and this finally presented her an opportunity.  She was flattering and explained that she had always been impressed by me.  In fact, the only reason she didn’t just come and throw herself at my feet was because she is just a young thing in her early 20s and didn’t know if she had anything to offer a man of my age.  Like I said, she was charming as hell.
 
So we exchange a few email and it only gets better.  After a couple of letters we get on the phone…  where it all loses its luster in a heartbeat.  I get this tiny, whiney voice on the other end of the phone.  Her verbal inflections make every borderline comment an insult.  What were alluring and submissive flirtations in text have now taken the demeanor of solid hardcore brat making her attempts at Daddy manipulation…  she might as well just scream “fuck me daddy” in her squeaky tart-like tone!  We both knew instantly we were a really bad match.  LOL
 
…I wanted to take my Domly flag down from my fort and jam the flag pole firmly up my nose.  That should serve as a reminder that no matter how much I want to have kids and start a family, it’s not wise to let desire create a fantasy about a pretty face before you see her soul and her relationship needs.
 
I can even tolerate a good playfully sam that gets ‘bratish’ during resistance play.  Hell, if I am in a sadistic enough mood, I can even appreciate the heat and conflict it brings to a scene…  during resistance play.  But I just can’t abide a solid core brat or conflict on any emotional level.  My house acts as a team with each other’s best interest at heart.  There is nothing wrong with brats and watching there interactions with Daddy can be entertaining.  But for me, a brat is at the bottom of my compatibility list. 

So my incredibly, oh-so-very-fuckalicious, smart, playful, 20 something, flirtatious, bisexual, poly, slave will go to some other good home where a Daddy Dom can appreciate her for the glorious creature she is.  I appreciate her interest, I am impressed with her grasp of protocol and the workings of a slave’s mind.  Such a little hotty.  

Alas… sometimes the wares in a store window display are so very attractive, it inspires me to turn my head even if I’m not shopping for that item.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 1:01:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		speaking slave speak is not a difficult feat, you give her an awful lot of credit for being polite, being less the a quarter century old, and speaking insider language.

just sayin'

but the point about not getting to invested into someone before you meet them is spot on.



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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:14:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, I had to bottom to a lot of frogs until I found my prince so to speak.....

But I totally hear you, and have felt your frustration, but from the other end of the whip. Hang in there, you never know when and how the right one will come along.

And for the record, Sir's profile went immediately into my reject pile when I first saw him. We ended up sitting next to each other at a local munch, and after several months of chatting and emails and running into each other at parties, we finally started dating. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you, these things take time sometimes, especially to get them right.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:48:17 AM   
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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:51:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have seen this happen time and again.  It always amazes me that ppl think thay have met the person of their dreams over a pict and a couple of emails.  It ain't real til it's real. 

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 4:01:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress
speaking slave speak is not a difficult feat, you give her an awful lot of credit for being polite…just sayin'

It wasn’t just the protocol.  It was that she was so centered, the protocol was a natural tool…  like a graceful woman’s walk.  She has that swagger to her walk that is not slutty but it is elegantly sensual.  To be seductive with elegance, to be appealing and to use BDSM protocol is balancing several art forms at once.  I just didn’t convey the depth of it in my OP.   
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ORIGINAL: ProtagonistLily
Hang in there, you never know when and how the right one will come along.
…Never settle.

Good philosophy. . .  and this was a very old event that came up in conversation today.  I had gone through the effort to recap and organize the story… hence this post and the reason I “thought I would share it.”
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
I must be in the wrong forum. Someone here finally showed some common sense.
I know you weren’t referring to me...  First, I spent all that time writing her because I let my little head tell my big head that a few gobbets of philosophy about poly and power exchange would make her a valid mate.  In reality, all the blood had left my brain when I saw she not only had a pretty face, but had a DD chest and a great figure. 

It was a few years ago.  Someone else is railing that awesome little tail right now probably.  If I had any brains I would taken that little hotty and fucked the hell outta’ her for about a year until she drove me crazy, then relocated her.  .. yeah, I know.  Don’t eve bother saying it.  It’s just that high road is sometimes so lofty the air gets thin and I miss the thick stench of the gutter. 
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum
I have seen this happen time and again.  It always amazes me that ppl think thay have met the person of their dreams over a pict and a couple of emails.  It ain't real til it's real.

I admit it…. she had big tits and a nice ass.  I really wanted her to be a good match.  Damn,,,, she was sooooooo hot.  But the reality of it came crashing in like an ocean wave that catches your wrong at the beach.  You were watching some bikini and didn’t pay attention.  Now salt water is in your sinuses and you have this burning sensation in the middle of your face.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 5:57:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		20/20 hindsight aside, I think it shows a depth of individuality to have known what you needed, and not been side-tracked by what you wanted.  I know that there are those rare times when I've come across someone who is so amazing that I almost convince myself I want what they are selling.  I'm a voracious window shopper, however, so its all good.

Thank you for the post, it was quite interesting. 

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:07:30 AM   
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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:14:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		Few can, GT.  Some might say they can't compete with your fine ass (grins).   Yes, I've perved your profile and I've seen your pics.  Don't fret sexy, you have the goods to turn heads. 

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:20:20 AM   
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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:24:35 AM   
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Few can, GT.  Some might say they can't compete with your fine ass (grins).   Yes, I've perved your profile and I've seen your pics.  Don't fret sexy, you have the goods to turn heads. 


aww, thanks, sexy *smooch*

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:30:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		That's why I go from chat/phone to realtime FAST.  Reality can be a real kick in the......well, whatever! 

Shoot, GT, I can't compete with DD either!  Not that I would *want* to.....   

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:32:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was in the same situation a few years back. Same parameters. Nice looking girl. Very well endowed. Knew her for quite few years online and stayed friends. She was extremely intelligent in the online/written word. I even spoke with her on the phone a few times and things went fine. The only difference was that she asked to come and visit me and I couldn't say no. Twas a trainwreck from start to finish. Im just happy it only lasted a few days in a long long weekend. Sent her on her way and haven't spoken with her since. You live and you learn.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:34:25 AM   
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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:40:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Good, thoughtful and honest post, RS. And I thought you were just another pretty face, dude.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:45:09 AM   
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shoulda spent that weekend bringing the pavilion down, and visiting me ;)


How would I be able to fit a 30 foot long pavillion on the back of my bike? *Pinches and gropes*


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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:47:07 AM   
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shoulda spent that weekend bringing the pavilion down, and visiting me ;)


How would I be able to fit a 30 foot long pavillion on the back of my bike? *Pinches and gropes*


CD


One of those little trailers?  I wanna pavilion!  With a hot guy inside it!

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:49:15 AM   
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shoulda spent that weekend bringing the pavilion down, and visiting me ;)


How would I be able to fit a 30 foot long pavillion on the back of my bike? *Pinches and gropes*


CD


how do you get it to the Faire?  duh....

*gropes n licks*

(get off the damned computer.....)

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 6:55:08 AM   
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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 7:02:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		The energy between us is more important to me than her looks. Her looks is secondary. A gorgeous woman with a bad vibe between us is a dead end. A not so beautiful woman with the right energy is a pleasure. Sometimes you say No to a gorgeous woman and then feel like you shouldnt have let go something everybody else prizes. On the other hand if it was really you who wanted her so much you would have just been with her , isnt that right? Its not actually her you like, you like the idea of her. I think its romantic side of us, saying maybe one day in another life, this could be a good story.

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