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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 7:21:36 AM

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GT!! *flyingtacklegropehug* Have you been a good girl whilst I was away?

*smooch* sad to say, Adrian.. yes, I have... *sighs*

RS.. keep an eye open, CruelDesires will probably be sending you an email soon....

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 7:45:22 AM

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i have encountered alot of people, as i am sure everyone out there has, who could talk the talk online, but sure as hell couldn't walk the walk.

Speaking respectfully and keeping to proper ettiquette is an easy thing to do online as a slave, you just have to go into a chatroom for a while and watch how certain members interact.. Its as easy as monkey see, monkey do.
Online via memo, there is as much time as you need to sit down and work out exactly how to word things to give the best impression in that respect. You can be whoever you want to be, its that simple. On the phone or in person is completely different in that you have to respond right there and then, there is little else you can do other than be yourself. So it doesn't surprise me that anybody could be caught out by something like this.

Hey, on the positive side.. At least you kept your eyes open and weren't drawn in by it.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 8:44:23 AM

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I read the most incredible profile one time done by a Dom. It spoke of things like being a protective tree near the waters of life, and gave a beautiful picture of one offering true refreshment to a sub.

I wrote to the person and discovered that he must have had someone else write the profile for him. He couldn't put together a complete sentence, let alone carry on any type of conversation!

Sometimes initial impressions can be very strong, but you are exactly right - some things are more beautiful when you are window shopping than when they are held in the hand. : )

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 9:25:21 AM

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-=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=-

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Dear ResidentSadist
Someone can be as hot as hell both in picture format and in text speak and be as eloquent as a poet in words........
But I cannot be enslaved if I am not enslaved by the voice.......the voice is my bottom line so to speak........
PS mannequins are only dressmakers' dummies......

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 10:27:37 AM

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Prinnie that is so true about the voice....a potential (that I admit annoyed me) left me a voice message and I HATED his voice! No way could I handle listening to that grating sound of entitlement!

Kind of sad when a hot voice doesn't match the body, though...

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 10:34:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Kind of sad when a hot voice doesn't match the body, though...

Dear LadyH
Now that's the next step isn't it though: actually meeting the voice!
The typical body isn't necessarily what does it for me.......
And then after meeting it is scent.
This is way off piste I know but I get turned on by the look of a man's nose. Is this a nose fetish?

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 10:37:38 AM

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I can dig the nose thing....I was watching this Ben Kingsley movie, "You Kill Me", and while he is lickable anyway, his profile was just doing me IN!

Back to your regularly scheduled whatever.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 11:29:50 AM

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Interesting. Your op speaks to the point where on-line dating intersects with literary theory. Imagine that. :) Forgive me, but I'm gonna go ahead and let my mind wander a bit here.

Some people are better in writing, myself included. I would imagine writers to be at their best in writing. I've never learned any protocols mostly because I've never met anyone interested in teaching that sort of thing but I consider writing to be one of my strengths. So, I'm better in writing than I am via any other medium including the unmediated face to face interaction.

When I meet someone from the internet, I find it fascinating to see how their chosen presentation of self--the image they project in a text based medium--meshes with the person I meet. There's always a difference, and some people are better at self-consciously cultivating an image than others. But, nobody can help but project an image that only partially captures who they are face to face or, in your case, on the phone--I suck on the phone and rarely use them unless I know someone really well. The task of talking to someone I don't know who I can't see is really bothersome.

Its the image of the author (borrowing from Baktin, here) that captures my attention on line. Not so much the content of the texts I interact with, but the intangible spirit of the person writing the texts. Excepting skilled manipulators who are well versed in the art of deception via simulation, the images are real enough. But, they only exist via a given media, and tend to fall away as the media changes only to be replaced by other images.

Personally, I've made it a habit of meeting people pretty soon after I exchange texts with them and try not to spend too much energy passing texts back and forth. 'Cause, like, ya know, the medium is the message...

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 11:41:36 AM

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i have done plenty of interacting online and phone. written expression is first, then verbal expression, and voice that touch buttons and triggers. i know it is moving in the right direction when my cunt stops throbbing long enough to clearly understand what he is saying and then resumes throbbing. my throbbing cunt unless quieted at a certain point just is not all that logical and possessing good reasoning skills is important in the process of finding my bliss.

may we all find our logical cunt throbbing bliss.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 12:11:23 PM

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An interesting post, R.S..

I can remember meeting someone a couple of years ago who stated that they reserved protocol for their dominant...that they were polite with others but D/s protocols were reserved for "their" one. Since I was just out of a relationship and had decided to "just play and interact" for awhile, I understood that...or thought I did.

When I met her, I found out that their idea of polite and my idea of polite did not mesh. To them, being straightforward and "honest" to the point of being blunt left no room for the "false" veneer of civility. In their view, polite was being honest and if the words that "fit" honesty came across as rude or uncivil, that was MY problem. Though they respected and liked me enough to try a scene with me, she kept trying to keep the interaction during that scene to a top/bottom level despite having agreed to submit, within very limited parameters, to the context of the scene. When I called her on it, she reminded me that I was NOT her dominant and that she was acting as she would with any dominant that was not hers. I ended the scene.

I know that type of interaction works for some, it does not for me. The three basic rules I have...civility and courtesy/patience and understanding/communication...are always in place. Am I guilty of sometimes violating my own rules when my buttons are pushed? Yes, I am...but it takes a fairly intense situation for me to do so. I did not consider this to be the case and so, like you R.S., I sent a great-looking, honest, straightforward submissive on her way.
Mistaken perception on my part...and on hers.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 12:41:36 PM

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"Beautiful, single, sane - pick two." - goth saying.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 1:03:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: everhope

i have done plenty of interacting online and phone. written expression is first, then verbal expression, and voice that touch buttons and triggers. i know it is moving in the right direction when my cunt stops throbbing long enough to clearly understand what he is saying and then resumes throbbing. my throbbing cunt unless quieted at a certain point just is not all that logical and possessing good reasoning skills is important in the process of finding my bliss.

may we all find our logical cunt throbbing bliss.

See, I try to go the opposite, way, my Throbbing Parts having led me down the path of destruction a few times.... though my Grey Brain has been screwing up lately too, so maybe I will go back to the Throb Test.... :)

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 1:51:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
See, I try to go the opposite, way, my Throbbing Parts having led me down the path of destruction a few times.... though my Grey Brain has been screwing up lately too, so maybe I will go back to the Throb Test.... :)

for me, the cunt has got to throb (drip too), yet important for it to stop long enough to clearly understand and communicate. if only my mind was engaged, then he would be great friend "only" material.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:01:47 PM

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I admit it…. she had big tits and a nice ass. I really wanted her to be a good match. Damn,,,, she was sooooooo hot

Just how long will You punish me for the mistakes of my youth? Until now, i never even knew we met....

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:12:14 PM

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"Beautiful, single, sane - pick two." - goth saying.

LOL!!!

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:15:01 PM

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"Beautiful, single, sane - pick two." - goth saying.

i hate that i laughed really hard at that....but it was funny as heck.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 2:32:06 PM

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Reading back the op one more time, I have to admit. That girl had that same kind of voice. Maybe they were one in the same....

Wild stuff. lol

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 3:56:11 PM

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I'm just a simple guy. I want to hear more about throbbing, dripping cunts.

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 4:15:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: cjan

I'm just a simple guy. I want to hear more about throbbing, dripping cunts.

The squirtier ones make the most noise. Does that turn on your auditory modality?

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RE: -=Good protocol, sexy as hell but=- - 6/18/2008 4:23:13 PM

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The wetter, the better.

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