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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 7/30/2008 10:52:25 PM   
porcelain26


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Status: offline 		I absolutely LOVE giving head! I would shrivel up and die if I couldn't. Oral is very much 'in' for me (I have a delightful journal entry about it as well *grins*).

That said, I do not like receiving. And no, it's not cuz I've never had it done right or whatever, it's simply not a personal preferece. Though it does work well for humiliation play ;)

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 7/30/2008 11:02:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL. I'll let you know Wyld. Although you may just hear the screams before I can muster up the strength to send you an email!

An oral sex contest? I volunteer to be a judge!

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 9:22:33 PM   
elleRT


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 9:31:31 PM   
NihilusZero


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Status: offline 		I thoroughly enjoy oral sex (often times more in giving than receiving).

It isn't really becoming uncommon, is it? Then again, perhaps if it is, supply and demand might make me slightly more attractive to potential consumers.




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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 9:36:22 PM   
VivaciousSub


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Status: offline 		As I was surprised to see this thread pop out of nowhere, I decided to go back and read the original post.

quote:

With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?


I don't like broadcasting my sexual stuff all over the internet. Yeah, it seems weird I'd say this, this being a kink-oriented site - but all I know is that if I put "I LOVE SUCKING COCK! OMG!" in my profile, I'd be fending off so many wank-seekers that it'd be ridiculous.

This isn't to say I don't...like it...ermmm...*innocent look* Someone hand me a dick, posthaste!


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 9:46:53 PM   
SailingBum


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 10:08:07 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		I dislike sexual limitations as a whole, so an abolition of oral would just be craziness.  Oral sex is a wonderful thing: giving and receiving!  And, giving credit where it's due, the best (Read: super-fabulous, extremely awesome, and insert some additional praise of your choosing and it'll all be good) oral I've ever received was from a Man who I dig very much with whom I am very naturally submissive...he is a Man of many talents....  :> 
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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 10:08:47 PM   
tazzygirl


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~grins~

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 10:10:37 PM   
VivaciousSub


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quote:

ORGINAL: SailingBum
oral just sucks

BadOne


quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

not as well as i do

~grins~



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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 10:12:47 PM   
tazzygirl


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have had a few men tell me that... lol.. but they were probably only hoping for a repeat performance

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/1/2008 10:52:21 PM   
caelestis


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Status: offline 		I'm not a male sub so I can't speak for that area but... I myself am orally fixated. I'd rather suck than fuck, to put it crudely.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 12:26:56 AM   
aravain


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I love giving oral sex. There are many many reasons, but high on that list is the fact that I'm good at it. :) I like doing things I excel at!

I HATE receiving oral sex. I don't like it. It's not pleasurable to me... it's the equivalent of rubbing my crotch through jeans (i.o.w. NOTHING. Nothing at all). Just not my thing at all. It's not a deal breaker if a partner needs/wants to perform it... I just would never, EVER ask to receive, and they better not be expecting me to be uber-pleasured or orgasm from it. It's a waste of time to me

The way I see it, if I have to get oral sex, then damnit, why am I not getting real sex?

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 2:17:17 AM   
tweedydaddy


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Status: offline 		Maybe they just take it as read?

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 2:31:13 AM   
NormalOutside


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Status: offline 		Oral sex is definitely a must for my submissives.  And I love giving them oral sex.  In fact, they love giving it to each other, too.  It's just really fuckin' oral around here.

As for others, I don't presume to say they should be this way or that way just because they identify as submissive or dominant.  But any girl wanting to submit to me on a regular basis better love sucking cock!  :p

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 3:13:52 AM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		I think I posted in this thread back in July when it started.... but my sig says it.

Not that being on the receiving end is a hard limit... or soft limit... or something that doesn't rock my world and make me beg for more if the tongue/fingers have talent...
Jus sayin....


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:14:14 AM   
slaveduties


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:21:38 AM   
tightlockup


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Status: offline 		oral 4tw

If I could only give oral and receive oral for the rest of my life I'd be a happy man.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:36:09 AM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?

Has oral sex just died?

Now you know where my head is at right now.



Actually...I've yet to engage with a female submissive that had a problem with this.  And since I tend to think along the lines of "turnabout is fair play" AND tend to love the taste of what lies between a girl's thighs, they haven't complained about a lack either. 

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:39:33 AM   
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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:41:27 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:


The way I see it, if I have to get oral sex, then damnit, why am I not getting real sex?


Oral sex is not real sex? 


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