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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 8:24:42 AM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		I was very explicit on my profile that I was looking for a submissive lover as well as a BDSM slave all rolled into one person. Surely that is fairly explicit.
It seems from the harrassment I have received that isn't allowed.
Didn't you know domination is about control not sex?
Well that's what I'm told by my sister Dommes.
Now all these male subs are telling me they like giving oral.
So now I can't let them because they like it and it's supposed to be about service not pleasure. Ermmmmmmmmmmmmm there is definietly something wrong with the rule book. If I'm in a long term relationship then everything goes that I allow and I definietly allow oral. If I'm not then nothing and I mean nothing goes. Not sex or BDSM. I have learned the hard way that commitment is a dirty word at least for the subs/slaves I have had the misfortune to meet.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 8:51:28 AM   
OttersSwim


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Status: offline 		Wow there Lateralist1, a lot of anger in your post there.  I think that there is no rule book except the one written between two people in relationship.  And while commitment can be difficult for some based on life circumstances and personality, it is not for all, so don't give up.  

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 9:13:44 AM   
aravain


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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The way I see it, if I have to get oral sex, then damnit, why am I not getting real sex?


Oral sex is not real sex? 



Haha, a mis-speak, for me at least.

'Real' sex is something that I enjoy... I do not enjoy receiving oral sex... therefor it does not always register as 'real sex' when I'm talking about receiving :)

Make sense? It's a weird psychosexual thing.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 2:41:15 PM   
usemekinky


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Status: offline 		I LOVE giving oral sex, receiving is nice too.

Something about knowing that I can bring him that much pleasure an happiness with just my mouth is sort of animal like an hot.  I couldn't imagine a relationship where he didn't want oral. 

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 4:56:32 PM   
yourMissTress


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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?

Has oral sex just died?

Now you know where my head is at right now.



How strange...every other email I get is from a sub who wants to "go down on me for hours and hours with no break"...

And until I met my new boy, who said no such thing in any email, I thought it was just talk....


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/2/2008 7:56:18 PM   
subman1876


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Status: offline 		Thank you.  I'm flattered. (Blush)

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/3/2008 2:29:39 AM   
djaleksandr


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Status: offline 		If oral sex is dead, I'm calling in the zombie legion.  Pronto.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/3/2008 7:53:43 AM   
Riggor


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Status: offline 		In my relationship oral sex is very much alive! Both in the giving and recieving. To me perfoming oral on my girlfriend is almost to the fetish level, its almost uncontrollable, my need to do it. And what she does to me? Ummmm WOW! 

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/3/2008 10:25:50 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I have tried oral sex several dozen times. Im still undecided. Guess I will have to repeat that over again.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/3/2008 10:36:22 AM   
SlaveIndigochild


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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

With all the lists of interest, why do those who say they are so submissive or even slaves, almost never seem to want to orally service their domme, or if gay dom?

Has oral sex just died?

Now you know where my head is at right now.


The credit crunch and the rising price of mouth wash?

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/3/2008 8:55:41 PM   
HornyToadsMI


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(So I find a subbie who will for Toad....teehee hee hee)

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 4:06:27 AM   
tweedydaddy


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Status: offline 		Dedicated oral worhip is the default setting for most subbies I've met.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 5:29:59 AM   
KatyLied


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therefor it does not always register as 'real sex' when I'm talking about receiving :)


To each his own.  I think that burying your face in someone's crotch (or having him bury his face in yours) rates high as a act of physical intimacy.  And yeah, it counts as sex.


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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 11:23:17 AM   
Sandyshores29718


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ORIGINAL: Riggor

In my relationship oral sex is very much alive! Both in the giving and recieving. To me perfoming oral on my girlfriend is almost to the fetish level, its almost uncontrollable, my need to do it. And what she does to me? Ummmm WOW! 


and all I can say Sir is "hoot hoot"  *giggles*

Now, back to the topic. Oral is a service of mine that I love to give. I have a oral fetish and no thats not just for oral sex, but the whole body. I love body worship and thats another body of the body to worship. Plus, this girl thinks Sir really likes that part of his body to be worshiped the way I do it. *giggles*

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 6:00:15 PM   
Riggor


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sandyshores29718

quote:

ORIGINAL: Riggor

In my relationship oral sex is very much alive! Both in the giving and recieving. To me perfoming oral on my girlfriend is almost to the fetish level, its almost uncontrollable, my need to do it. And what she does to me? Ummmm WOW! 


and all I can say Sir is "hoot hoot"  *giggles*

Now, back to the topic. Oral is a service of mine that I love to give. I have a oral fetish and no thats not just for oral sex, but the whole body. I love body worship and thats another body of the body to worship. Plus, this girl thinks Sir really likes that part of his body to be worshiped the way I do it. *giggles*


You damn straight HE does!

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 6:04:00 PM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		meant to say that i love your new pics...stunning.

As to oral...cock worship is my default setting...i was programmed by the best.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 9:12:43 PM   
aravain


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
To each his own.  I think that burying your face in someone's crotch (or having him bury his face in yours) rates high as a act of physical intimacy.  And yeah, it counts as sex.



Oh, it definitely counts as sex.

I mean... it's sexual contact.

It just doesn't register as it to me. I don't LIKE having someone's face in my crotch... I do LIKE sex... therefor it is not sex. That's the cognitive pathway. *shrug* That's just what my brain goes through.

Intellectually, though, I agree 100%, it's most assuredly sex.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 9:16:26 PM   
NumberSix


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Let there be a surfeit, and no dearth.

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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 9:25:14 PM   
suhlut


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Don't You mean SURPLUS?




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RE: Why is there a dearth of oral sex - 10/4/2008 9:26:55 PM   
suhlut


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Status: offline 		i'd rather give then recieve...

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