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MysticFireTopaz -> RE: "Deal Breakers" (6/29/2008 11:11:13 AM)
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I have all my obvious "deal breakers" listed in my profile. If a sub chooses to write to me even though he falls into one or more of my "deal breaker" categories, I simply don't reply.
Nonetheless, there are subs who meet my requirements to a tee, but whose initial communication turns me off so much it negates the possiblity of futher contact. Some of these are:
- Presenting me with a detailed list of fantasy scenarios he wants me to fulfill. One local sub had this elaborate fantasy of me humiliating him in a shoe store while he was dressed in shorts and pantyhose and chose to share that with me in his introductory e-mail.
- Asking nosey, inappropriate questions in an initial e-mail. The bra-size question would be one example. Others just seem to be seeking wanking fodder.
- Sending me a Yahoo ID or phone number in an intial e-mail (nothing else, sometimes not even a hello!), and ordering me to contact him (yeah, right).
- Using "text-speak." One local sub sent me the following three messages in one day: "how r u?," "hows ur day goin," and "what u cookin?" One might expect this of a teenager, but this man is 39 years old!
- Subs who don't have a picture to supply upon request. I can totally understand not wanting to post one on a profile, but I would think that anyone seeking online would have one available upon request.
- Subs who send the same form letter verbatim to every Domme in town. One told me he was captivated by my charming profile and lovely photo. I asked him what photo he was referring to, since I don't even have one on my profile!
- One wrote to me and demanded that we communicate immediately on cam, so that I could prove that I was "real." What I did prove to him is how quickly I can click the "block user" button.
Lady Topaz
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