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RE: Exhaustion, stress and femdom urges - 7/6/2008 2:09:01 PM

AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

Are you sure that's not PMS?

(Ducks and runs for cover)

I did think at one point in my life it was related to PMS, or some feminine cycle. I kept track on a calendar and found it did not. I also thought maybe it had to do with the moon, even though I am not really a believer in astrology, but there was no connection there. Really the only TRULY common trait is the exhaution factor - but again, I think now that the lack of sleep might not cause it, but be a result of it. I'm not complaining though :)
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RE: Exhaustion, stress and femdom urges - 7/6/2008 4:40:42 PM

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It depends on the type of stress.

Exhaustion and lack of sleep leave me shut down physically psychologically and emotionally. I need rest before I have any Femdom urges.

Positive Stress, or the kind of stress that puts pressure on Me to get something accomplished, has just the opposite effect. I get into the 'Zone', kick into high gear and My Domina Persona seems to flourish. If the pressure has positive outcome for Me in a personal way, I have boundless energy to Dominate a man and that's when I enjoy sessions the most.

Negative stress, like worry and uncertainty, say angst over a job situation or doubt about the potential outcome of an ongoing relationship, that sort of stress bears down on Me and I get surly and exasperated. Not exactly the mood I want to be in for a good session with a sub. Those are the times I respond best to good old fashioned tlc and pampering to get My motor running.

Once things calm down around Me and settle down to the point that I'm rested and back in control of My environment, schedule, etc, My femdom urges return with a vengeance.

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RE: Exhaustion, stress and femdom urges - 7/9/2008 4:01:27 PM

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your a femdom WEREWOLF!

but an awesome one!

Big fan of your posts. In fact, I seek out your threads, lol.

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RE: Exhaustion, stress and femdom urges - 7/9/2008 4:28:29 PM

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I can't say that being exhausted or stressed makes me more femdom-horny, but I do sort of hit a proverbial wall that I've got to get past, and once I force myself over I'm good to go. I push myself into initiating a scene and suddenly I feel renewed, like I could take on the entire freaking world at once. From that point on I usually feel good for a while, but then I crash, and I usually crash hard.

The reason I throw myself over that wall is because it's often about the only thing that keeps me sane.

On a possibly related note, apparently semen has been proven to have properties similar to that of antidepressants. If you throw sex into the scene when you're feeling stressed and then suddenly have a burst of vigor, that could have something to do with it -- especially since I've found that most antidepressants have a "come-down" period where you do get more tired and a bit more flatline as far as activity levels go. There's also been research done with injured or ill chimpanzees (remember, they're what, 99% the same as us on a genetic level) showing that they will instinctively seek out the appropriate natural remedies in their environment for their ailment... and also it's been said that the human body will instinctively begin craving foods containing the vitamins, enzymes, or other essential components that it's lacking. Considering that most antidepressants affect seratonin levels in the brain, one could theorize that a heightened desire could arise from the body recognizing a deficiency in seratonin and searching for a way to neutralize that with something regularly found in our environment since the beginning of man (no pun intended) -- in this case, hot dickings.

On another related note, I'm cracking up because I've got Monty Python's Meaning of Life going in the background and they just got to the "Every Sperm Is Sacred" song.

How appropriate...

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RE: Exhaustion, stress and femdom urges - 7/9/2008 4:45:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Morsigil

When I'm either severely sleep deprived or highly stressed and midly sleep deprived I tend to focus on one thing as more complex issues take energy I simply don't have/don't want to put out. Often I'll think about what takes the least effort, the least energy, and for me that is sex and submission.

I believe, and I think many folk would agree, that when a person's mind is tired they are going to think about that which is easiest to focus on. This might be a sign of you brain blowing a whistle and screaming "BREAK TIME".

this might also mean that you're gay

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