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MissIsis -> RE: the word Domme (7/10/2008 10:09:05 PM)

People are dying of horrible things every day & we are concerned as to whether people use correct pronunciation & spelling?  If this is the most serious thing people have to bitch about, maybe time would be better spent thinking about all the things we have to be thankful for. 

Ain't never used to be in the dictionary either, but it is now.  If we all spoke proper english, we would still be calling our toilets loo's, wouldn't we?  Do we really care all that much about proper pronunciation & spelling?




MmeGigs -> RE: the word Domme (7/11/2008 4:10:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PainSmith
Comedian versus comedienne, actor versus actress, waiter versus waitress, the English language is full of places where different words are used to describe a man or a woman doing the same job. Sometimes the distinctions are dubious, when gender doesn't really affect a role, but sometimes they're important because gender provides an essential something. The role played by an actress is different to that of an actor, even if the skills are the same. The role played by a domme is different to that played by a dom, even if most of the skills are the same.


By that logic, we should be using subbe, toppe, bottomme, slavess, switchette...  We don't, though.  We use genderless terms for all of those things.  There really isn't any reason that dom should be any different. 








underling3 -> RE: the word Domme (7/18/2008 10:08:59 AM)

This by nno means hate mail, Shel, but have you considered that there once were no such words as dominant or dominatrix?  For that matter our earliest ancestors probably did well with a few grunts and groans.  Neologisms, which domme once was, come into existence because of a genuine need for clarification of something or other.  Why not save your ire for abusers of the your vs. you're or similar careless spelling?  Lighten up and join the party.

Besides, some of us enjoy separating the word to produce the offer "dom me."




MistressSybella -> RE: the word Domme (7/18/2008 1:21:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

LOL... I just looked at his profile.  I so understand why this was posted now. 


Ouch!! Because of YOU, I just read his profile and it was painful...Thanks a lot!! LOL!






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