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Level -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 3:37:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha (not counting your lover/mate as your best friend, of course). If not, why not? Do you ever intend to tell them? Akasha Yes, she does.

TysGalilah -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 3:37:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha (not counting your lover/mate as your best friend, of course). If not, why not? Do you ever intend to tell them? Akasha Yes

unfaithed -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 3:53:32 AM)
No. I mean, they know to a point about some of my interests; they're usually with me when I go to the "adult" shops. However I reserve the less maintstream purchases for online and home delivery, lol. If they were to ever ask me flat out if I was into some particular kink, I wouldn't lie, but it's best with some of them to keep things quiet.

DesFIP -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 4:17:18 AM)
No. I live in a small town, no sex shops, no porn purveyers etc. I can assure you that in 20 years of having breakfast at the local diner I have never overheard anyone talking about their sex life. I don't feel the need to say "ooh, I got tied up and clamped last night". I don't talk about my sex life. My love life yes, she knows I'm very happy and she's heard me talk about his good qualities. But mostly my friends see our relationship and make their own conclusions. They see that I'm happy. They see us still hold hands all the time. They see the respect and liking we have for each other.

thishereboi -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 4:20:54 AM)
Yes, she does. Oh and no Leatherist, she is not kinky and much more than an aquaintance. Why would you say someone couldn't be a best friend unless they were kinky?

RCdc -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 4:34:20 AM)
He knows I am submissive to Darcy. He knows and understands kink and that I participate in BDSM circuits. waves to him the.dark.

RCdc -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 4:36:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP No. I live in a small town, no sex shops, no porn purveyers etc. I can assure you that in 20 years of having breakfast at the local diner I have never overheard anyone talking about their sex life. I don't feel the need to say "ooh, I got tied up and clamped last night". I don't talk about my sex life. My love life yes, she knows I'm very happy and she's heard me talk about his good qualities. But mostly my friends see our relationship and make their own conclusions. They see that I'm happy. They see us still hold hands all the time. They see the respect and liking we have for each other. If BDSM is simply sex in your relationship, I can see how letting your best friend know your games may be awkward. But BDSM is not only sexual in our dynamic, nor for others, so discussing clamps or sex life doesn't come into the discussion. the.dark.

missturbation -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 5:10:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha (not counting your lover/mate as your best friend, of course). If not, why not? Do you ever intend to tell them? Akasha All my friends know, most of my aquaintances too. After all how are people going to learn and understand the lifestyle if we don't talk about it. Keeping things hush hush leads people to think there is something bad about stuff [:D]

Willowmoon -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 5:13:36 AM)
Yeap he knows, we live with him and he loves trying to get me into trouble.

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 5:15:24 AM)
Yes, he does. He thinks it's absolutely hysterical ... and he's also happy that the heat's been taken off of him and displaced onto other people! Hah! Mss

softness -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 6:08:22 AM)
She certainly does .... bless her though she is pretty wary of DV .. can't imagine why

LaTigresse -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 6:47:29 AM)
Considering I live with my best friend, if he doesn't know he is a blithering idiot. I don't have time to maintain alot of friendship type relationship stuff so it's just not a big deal.

MsArcEnCiel -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 6:52:32 AM)
All my most closest friends know. heidi

Leatherist -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 6:53:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi Yes, she does. Oh and no Leatherist, she is not kinky and much more than an aquaintance. Why would you say someone couldn't be a best friend unless they were kinky? Because I am like that-you be you-and I'll be me.

DominantJenny -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:13:34 AM)
All of my friends know I'm "kinky". Just what that MEANS, some of them know, some don't. Most of the closest ones know, some have made it clear they don't want that level of TMI.

LadyLynx -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:26:17 AM)
I don't really have a best friend anymore. I mean I have alot of good friends, (the majority of them kinky.) But just havn't had the need to call someone my best friend. The 2 friends I still have from HS both know, kinda think I am crazy, but they want me to be happy.

TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:29:45 AM)
Yes.

littlewolfe -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:39:37 AM)
yes she does and dose not judge me for it she loves to hear about what i did repectfully littlewolfe

ViceVersa -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:46:54 AM)
Yes, my best friends know. Some I've told in person and some I wrote a letter to (see Coming Out Letters below). I haven't lost a friend because of it yet.

abcbsex -> RE: Does your best friend know you are kinky? (7/2/2008 7:50:54 AM)
She's started asking me for tips, lol!

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