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ConcisenessM -> Marriage (7/8/2008 8:45:06 AM)

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.




RCdc -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 8:54:51 AM)

You ask questions as though you want others to make the decisions for you.
No.  I do not advocate marriage simply because of 2 years devoted service - nor 20 years.  Nor 200 because she desired it.
 
the.dark.




tsatske -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 8:57:32 AM)

darkness, you are Darcy are married, right? (i could be wrong about that...)
are you saying you don't suggest marriage - or just the fact that your partner wants it, is not alone a good enough reason to?




opposingtwilight -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 8:58:02 AM)

No ...




cantilena -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 8:59:10 AM)

Satisfying someone else's desire, on its own, makes a poor foundation for a lasting marriage.

Other details about the relationship might provide additional reasons for matrimony, but aside from length of time (also a somewhat poor indicator on its own), those details aren't in the question.





christine1 -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:00:06 AM)

OP, i think people should marry if that is what they both want.  marriage means different things to different people.  look inside and figure out if it is for you, talk to her about it and go from there.  i don't see how asking this question on the forums is going to help you two.  you both need to communicate the shit out of the subject and decide for yourselves if it is for you.




LaTigresse -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:02:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.


What about your desires? Who is the slave/submissive? Do you want to be married? What other reasons are there to being married?

WHY ARE YOU ASKING US???




celticlord2112 -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:09:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.

I marry when it is my desire. 

If the slave is wise and prudent, she'll take the trip down the aisle because it is her desire. 

Pretty damn foolish to do it under any other condition.




Prinsexx -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:10:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.

Is this a trick question like the crocodile one?
i'm only saying because i cannot imagine anyone whose only unfulfilled desire was to marry.....





celticlord2112 -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:11:15 AM)

quote:


WHY ARE YOU ASKING US???

Maybe he misplaced his copy of the Twue Master's Manual.  Or didn't get the revised publication that came out last year with the new guidelines on slaves and their desires.




LadyRainfire -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:18:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

Maybe he misplaced his copy of the Twue Master's Manual.  Or didn't get the revised publication that came out last year with the new guidelines on slaves and their desires.


*winks*

Well, someone is slacking on his job of mailing it out then, CL. [:D]

As for the marriage question, just because that's her only unfulfilled desire seems a pretty flimsy excuse for getting married, unless there is a lot more that you aren't telling. Would you be willing to divorce her after a few months if that's what she wanted too?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:18:37 AM)

What's this about crocodiles?

Is there a guide on prenups in that manual, CelticLord?




Mercnbeth -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:20:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.


No - I would marry her if it was the only desire left unfulfilled for US; time irrelevant.




TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:21:57 AM)

no




RCdc -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 9:23:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske

darkness, you are Darcy are married, right? (i could be wrong about that...)
are you saying you don't suggest marriage - or just the fact that your partner wants it, is not alone a good enough reason to?


Hi tsatske - No we are not married.[:)]
I would not suggest marriage when it is the s-types desire.  I would not base marriage on length of commitment or devotion or the amount given either.
One has to take into consideration everything and everyone, not just because one person wants it.
 
the.dark.




KatyLied -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 10:06:15 AM)

quote:

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.


I guess there are worse reasons to get married.
I'd be curious about you would word that sort of proposal.





IrishMist -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 10:07:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.

nope




FRSguy -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 10:21:56 AM)

NO, I personaly would not.  Women for some reason have to images of themselves.  One as girlfriend and one as wife.  The wife images does not necessarity work out.




AquaticSub -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 10:25:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.


Well he proposed and I'm shopping for big white dresses so.... yeah, I think he would. In this situation though we always knew that we were both looking to marry our long-term partner, otherwise we simply wouldn't be a couple.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Marriage (7/8/2008 10:26:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ConcisenessM

Would You marry your girl if that was the only desire left unfulfilled for her?? Esepecially after 2 years of devotion.


Yeah sure.  Why not. Then I'd get to see what divorce felt like too.  What a two for one bargain.




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